"Who Thought We'd Be Here" is a podcast about changing your mind, redefining the stigma around mental health, and living a vulnerable and productive lifestyle. Both seeking answers from the Universe as they turned 30, co-hosts and longtime pals Steven Aigner and John Pugh found themselves improving in ways their younger and much more wild selves could have never seen coming. They began conquering and healing their past selves with unfamiliar mindfulness tools like meditation, yoga, breath-wo ...
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"Connor Bond: Acting, Improv, Existentialism & Laughing Through the Pain" | EP061
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2:01:48This week, we're joined by actor, improv teacher, and creative soul Connor Bond for a deep, hilarious, and honest conversation about what it really means to navigate life, creativity, and identity. We talk about Connor’s journey through different seasons of growth, from teaching improv to kids to finding purpose beyond traditional career paths. He …
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"Overthinking Everything: Fitness, Fulfillment & Feeling Like a Fraud" | EP060
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45:47This episode is a vulnerable look into the tug-of-war between ambition and self-acceptance. Steve and JP explore the quiet, often overwhelming internal dialogue that comes with trying to grow—physically, mentally, emotionally—while constantly questioning if you're doing enough. From the guilt of taking a day off, to spiraling thoughts about falling…
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"Emmanuel Jimenez: Being the Rooted Man You Were Always Meant To Be" | EP059
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1:51:24In this episode, we’re joined by Manny Jimenez — a real estate agent, martial artist, and man of deep faith — for an honest conversation about identity, growth, and staying grounded in a world full of noise. Manny opens up about his personal journey, from navigating insecurities in his youth to becoming a disciplined and purpose-driven man rooted i…
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"Escaping the Ego Trap & Building a Life of Abundance" | EP058
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1:30:55How many days have you lived? We kick off this episode with a little math problem to put time into perspective. Then, we reflect on the journey of this podcast, the variety of guests we have lined up, and the growing pains of figuring out what it means to turn a passion into a business. The conversation turns deep as we discuss the struggle of tryi…
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"Taylor Lyons @ Kelta: Rediscovering Your Identity in Motherhood & the Priceless Power of Self Care" | EP057
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1:27:34In this episode, we sit down with Taylor Lyons, owner of Kelta Wellness Center, a space dedicated to cutting-edge wellness technology, including sensory deprivation tanks, meditation beds, sauna therapy, and cold plunges. Taylor shares her journey from being a school teacher to a certified yoga instructor and entrepreneur, detailing what led her to…
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"New Levels, New Devils – Why Consistency & Accountability Still Matter To Us" | EP056
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58:01In this episode, we reflect on the challenge of maintaining consistency and accountability in both the podcast and everyday life. We share our experience in a sensory deprivation tank in preparation for an upcoming episode, while we discuss the importance of movement, yoga, and staying active—especially as Steve sets his goal to be in top shape bef…
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"The Power of Family, Overcoming Overwhelm, & Lessons That Last a Lifetime" | EP055
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52:59In this episode, we open up about the evolving role of family in our lives and the unexpected ways it shapes us. From navigating the overwhelming nature of big life changes to learning how to be present with the people who matter most, we reflect on the moments that define us. We talk about the resistance that comes with pushing ourselves toward ne…
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"Brandon Purdy: The Healing Power of Music & Discovering Creativity in Spirituality" | EP054
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1:21:45In this episode, we sit down with musician Brandon Purdy to dive into the healing power of music, creativity, and spirituality. Brandon shares how loss and personal struggles reshaped his artistic journey, transitioning from making “hollow” music to creating songs with real meaning. We explore the importance of reconnecting with childhood passions,…
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"LMSW Nina Lugo: The Reality of Social Work, Mental Health Stigmas & Learning Coping Skills" | EP053
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1:45:19In this episode, we welcome Licensed Master Social Worker Nina Lugo, a passionate social worker making a difference in the lives of students, parents, and educators. Nina opens up about the realities of social work, shedding light on the often-overlooked emotional toll that comes with helping others navigate life's challenges. We explore how social…
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“Big News, Bigger Feelings: Life-Changing Moments & the Road to Fatherhood” Episode 052
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41:19This episode is a big one. An important one. Our most personal one yet. We told you we were gonna cry today—and for good reason. Steve is having a baby, and we dive deep into the whirlwind of emotions that come with it. Excitement, nerves, and the realization that life is about to change forever. We talk about giving up vices when major life shifts…
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"Trusting Yourself, Taking Risks & Updates on Consistency" EP051
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33:11In this episode, we dive into the environments that fuel our best work, the luxury of staying ahead, and the mindset shifts that help us keep going. We reflect on learning to trust ourselves, overcoming perfectionism (“Perfectionism is better spelled paralysis” – Winston Churchill), and embracing where we are while recognizing how far we've come. F…
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"Rayvin Rey: Overcoming Scarcity, Embracing Patience, & Finding Your Soulmate” EP050 (Pt. 2)
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1:21:17In part two of our conversation with Rayvin Rey, we explore powerful insights on overcoming scarcity mindsets and embracing patience in personal growth. Rayvin shares her thoughts on finding alignment outside of relationships, balancing happiness with financial success, and breaking free from childhood beliefs about money. We discuss how physical a…
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"Rayvin Rey on Overcoming Shame, Cultivating Self-Love, & Finding Your Authenticity" EP050 (Pt. 1)
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1:31:21"Rayvin Rey on Overcoming Shame, Cultivating Self-Love, & Finding Your Authenticity" EP050 (Pt. 1) In this episode, we sit down with our longtime friend and inspiring guest, Rayvin Rey, to explore the transformative power of unlearning, self-love, and personal growth. Rayvin shares her journey of shifting her baseline from negativity to positivity,…
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“Karate Master Joe Fry: Crushing Self Doubt, Building Confidence & Embracing Sensitivity” EP049
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1:18:15This week, we’re thrilled to bring you a very special episode, recorded live from the dojo with our longtime friend and karate master, Joe Fry! Joe is not only the owner of a thriving karate studio and a 5th degree black belt, but also a dedicated mentor, parent, and entrepreneur. In this episode, he shares his incredible journey of resilience, sel…
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"New Year Reset: Ryan Holiday’s Stoic Wisdom, Breaking Bad Habits & Crushing 2025 Goals"
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1:38:13It’s a New Year, and we’re starting 2025 by looking back at everything we learned in 2024. We talk about how one of us made the life-changing decision to get sober, and how that single choice improved not only our personal lives but the direction and consistency of this podcast. We also reflect on the massive growth we’ve seen since taking the podc…
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"Grounding into Gratitude & Dealing with Your Displaced Anger" | Episode #048
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1:03:55"Grounding into Gratitude & Dealing with Your Displaced Anger | Episode #048 This week, we’re digging into the big stuff—like how to handle displaced anger, break free from people-pleasing, and challenge outdated stereotypes about masculinity. We explore how mindfulness and gratitude can help you stay grounded, even when life throws you a curveball…
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“The Power of Consistency, Mastering Your Brain States, Wisdom from Matthew McConaughey" | EP 047
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52:42“The Power of Consistency, Mastering Your Brain States, Wisdom from Matthew McConaughey | EP 047 We’re back, and we’re leveling up. In this episode, we recap Will McGuire’s last visit, hype up our plans to bring on new, fascinating guests, and celebrate sticking with this podcast journey. Spoiler alert: we’re kind of proud of ourselves. We dive int…
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"Will McGuire on Starting Your Own Business, Real Estate, Investing & Being a Present Father" | #046
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1:11:20We do apologize for the poor sound quality in this episode, we had some audio issues throughout this episode, but we're still in good spirits because our good friend of the pod and honorary member of the Who Thought We’d Be Here? family, Will McGuire, stops by to drop knowledge, crack jokes, and remind us why he’s one of our favorite people. Will w…
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Breaking Through Creative Blocks on the Spot: An Insight to Overthinking & Self Judgement” | Epsiode 045
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47:00In this reflective and candid episode of Who Thought We’d Be Here?, we tackle resistance, overthinking, and finding balance in life and creativity. Recorded the day after the election, we start with a discussion on seasonal warmth in New York and dive into the struggles and lessons of the week. Steve opens up about his rough week and the importance…
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"Side Dishes & Self Reflection" | A Thanksgiving Episode
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14:07In this special Thanksgiving episode of Who Thought We’d Be Here?, we’re here to keep you company on the way to your family gathering or maybe on that walk before dinner with your favorite cousin. The focus today is all about gratitude, self-reflection, and enjoying the season. We kick things off with a reminder to embrace the moment and focus on w…
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"That Old B*tch Self Doubt: How to Release Your Past & Prioritize a Meaningful Future" | Episode 044
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50:53In this reflective and empowering episode, we dive deep into the subtle yet loud voice of self-doubt and how it impacts your relationships, mindset, and growth. Starting in our brand-new recording space, we explore the art of creating hope for the future and the wisdom behind Lao Tzu’s Tao Te Ching (Ep. 9). Along the way, we uncover insights about …
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Cutting Out Mindless Scrolling, How to Deal with Making Mistakes, Comparison is the Thief of Joy | Episode 043
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36:16In this episode, we dive deep into the journey of self-awareness, personal growth, and creative evolution, exploring themes that resonate with anyone navigating change or creative pursuits. We kick off by defining what this podcast truly represents and drawing inspiration from the likes of Rich Roll and other influential voices. Conversations cente…
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“We Got a Camera, Back on the Deck, Finding the Right Content” | Episode 042
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"Healing Your Inner Child, Breaking Generational Traumas, Shoutout to Jelly Roll" | Episode 041
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"Thank You Steven Pressfield, For Every Season, Little Habits Big Changes" | Episode 040
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56:49We're 40 episodes into this "podcast" thing and we feel like we're just getting started. Thanks to anyone listening, whether you've been with us since day one or you're new to the "Who Thought We'd Be Here? bandwagon, we appreciate each and every one of you. In this episode, Steve and JP chat about how to create the life you want to manifest with a…
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"Podcast Pipe Dreams, WTWBH: The Movie, Surprise Surprise Sobriety" | Episode 039
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"Book Club, Religion, Self Applied Pressure" | Episode 038
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23:17This episode is brought to you by: the fact that we want to keep podcasting and love doing this shit. Steve & JP (and Eleanor) are back again with a little bit shorter than usual episode on this crisp, autumn day. The fellas return to the roots of the podcast by bringing back their book exchange, with Steve gifting JP "The Book of Secrets" by Deepa…
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"Pursuing Goals, Sobriety, Anxiety & Affirmations" | Episode 037 (Part 2)
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27:55This episode is a follow up to Episode 037 (Part 1). The guys discuss how to make small habits make big changes over time, and how life isn't all sunshine and rainbows. They explain using your life experience to help make a big pivot in your life and that facing your demons is much healthier than avoiding them. Dwelling on the past isn't going to g…
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"Communication in Friendship, Setting Goals, Go Back to School Bro" Episode 037 (Part 1)
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30:39This episode gets pretty deep, so come along for the ride with us. This is Part 1 of a 2 part episode. Steve and JP get candid about how communication is important in friendships and business relationships, and discuss how they maintain a balance for both in their day to day lives and careers. They also break down prioritizing goals that are within…
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"Wednesday Was A Trip" | Friendships, Mushrooms, Vulnerability & Inner Work | Episode 036
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22:19Another week has passed, and that means another brand new episode of Who Thought We'd Be Here? This episode's a little shorter than our usual episodes, and we're looking to experiment with some new formats and topics, let us know what you think by leaving a comment! Episode 036 is all about changing your mind, as well as making peace with the perso…
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"The Key is Communication w/ Desiree & Steve" | Episode 035 (Part 2)
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39:13In this episode, we’re switching it up with a vulnerable and candid conversation about romantic relationships and self awareness! We're joined again by Desiree Leigh, owner of Elixxr Cafe in Beacon, NY, for the follow-up to episode 034. This episode has a special formula to it, as co-host JP steps into the role of interviewer, putting co-host Steve…
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Episode 034 "Desiree Leighh: Elixxr Wellness Cafe (Part 1)"
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54:35In this weeks episode we have special guest Desiree Leigh. She is the owner and operator of Elixxr Cafe in Beacon NY. Located at 304 Main Street, Elixxr is a wellness cafe dedicated to fostering overall wellness through clean mindful, wholesome high-quality and organic ingredients. Their menu offers delicious high vibrational plant-based superfood-…
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Episode 032 "Where We Are Now: 1 Year of WTWBH"
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Episode 031 "Vic Alam & Old Dhaka Coffee House"
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59:10The baguette boys are here with a brand new episode! That'll make more sense if you listen to the whole episode. We're honored to bring you a very special guest this week on "Who Thought We'd Be Here?". Our guest this week on the podcast is none other than Vic Alam, owner and manager of Old Dhaka Coffee House, located inside the Hudson Valley Food …
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30 episodes?!?!? Good lord why are these mfers even still doing this podcast? We're just kidding. We appreciate all you folks for listening, it's been almost a year of Who Thought We'd be Here? and we're grateful for every single one of you that supports us. In this episode, Steve and JP ask each other questions about their past, and think critical…
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Episode 029 "It's Not Just About Me and You"
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1:04:18This episode of "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" was recorded on July 27th, 2024. The fellas get a little personal on this one, but who cares? That's exactly why we started this podcast. Steve and JP discuss the skill of being consistent and disciplined when life is always changing, and the importance of maintaining balance within yourself and the peopl…
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This episode was recorded on June 19th, 2024. It's been a long couple months for your favorite podcasters. Life can get hectic, everyone can relate to that but we're here to tell you to keep going and keep creating. In this episode, the fellas catch you up on what they've been up to lately and the new opportunities they're excited to work on. This …
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Reunited, and it feels so good. Your favorite podcasters are back (again) with a brand new episode. This episode is special to us for multiple reasons. Not only was this episode recorded on Steve's 31st birthday, but it's the first episode we've recorded after a couple of months on hiatus. Steve reflects on the past year and how much has changed fo…
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Episode 026 "Ikonical w/ Brian Galligan"
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2:38:31We've been hanging onto this episode for a while now, and we can't wait to share it with you folks! This episode is a crossover episode between "The Ikonical Show," hosted by Brian Galligan and "Who Thought We'd Be Here?" hosted by Steven Aigner and John Pugh. This episode was recorded on January 17th, 2024. This is our longest episode yet, and it …
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This episode i am off on my own. Discussing the podcast and my intentions for it along with the other things I’d like to do moving forward. I’m gonna start to take you through my life my thoughts what’s going on and how I’m thinking. New season. Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, an…
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Boys are back together for another episode. After a few weeks off and apart, the guys sit down to catch up. Steve gets open with Jp right off the bat, and it sets the tone for the whole conversation. The guys discuss what’s going on with them, and what they’ve been working through. Steve talks about becoming more independent and doing things alone.…
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First podcast in a little while. It’s just Steve. I wanted to hop on and just talk about what’s been going on with me and where I am at right now. Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothoughtwedbeherepod Join Whoop with our pro…
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Heavy. That’s one way to describe the boys conversation in this one. Steve recalls his experience with psilocybin this past Monday. What called him to have that experience, what he was looking to discover, the experience and what he took from it. Jp dealing with new hurdles in his life, opens up about stand up, the doubt he’s working through, and h…
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On Monday Steve had an experience. After taking a macro dose of psilocybin mushrooms, he sits down and breaks down his takeaway from the experience. This is him opening up to the audience and really speaking his truth. Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotion…
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This week Steve and Jp dive deep into a conversation surrounding self worth. It starts off with some updates on the podcast, and things impacting the guys. They discuss Steve’s mindset since the end of his relationship. This brings up the topic of self worth and how you value yourself. Things get emotional and the boys open up about how the podcast…
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Episode 019 is a big one for the boys. Steve and Jp sat down and chopped it up with the one and only Jon Kilmer. Jon is a musical producer, videographer, cinematographer, director and is also known for his work with musician Mike. (Formerly know as Mike Stud) on the YnK Podcast. In this episode they discuss Jon’s approach to mental health, his care…
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A first for the Podcast, Steve hops on the mic solo to discuss some topics he’s been contemplating of late. A brief talk about self worth, detaching from ego, and dealing with change. Join our exclusive community on GROUPED where you can find uncut episodes, messaging with your hosts, and early access to promotions https://app.grouped.com/whothough…
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The boys do their first remote podcast! Trying out a new way to podcast, talking about a recent change both of the guys have made, the reasons for quitting smoking, and how it’s affecting them so far. They get into a late discussion about how Steve’s handling the changes to his lifestyle and more. Check it out! Join our exclusive community on GROUP…
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