Best Steve Recovering Addict Podcasts (2025)

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How Does a Porn/Sex Addict Coercing His Partner into Acting Out Fantasies Impact Them Both? 45:25

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This episode of the PBSE Podcast (#301) centers on the question, “How does a porn/sex addict coercing his partner into acting out fantasies impact them both?” Mark and Steve begin by acknowledging the devastating reality of such coercion and the way it violates the original commitment of exclusivity and mutual respect that every relationship is mea…

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Anonymous 2 (part two) 2:25:12

2d ago2:25:12

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The 4 of us from Anonymous 1 get back together and work a 4th step. Lots of new information from Josh and I, and you get to learn more about Kyle and James. It was a long episode so we split it into 2 episodes. Send us a text Support the showBy The 4th Step

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Beth McDonough from Breaking News to Breaking the Bonds of Addiction 42:47

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Beth McDonough lost her career, her reputation, and her freedom. After two DUIs and being exposed by her own news station, this former television personality hit rock bottom. But that's not where her story ends. In this powerful episode, Beth shares the raw, honest truth from her new memoir, Standby. Learn exactly how she faced down addiction and c…

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When Touch Feels Like Pressure: Breaking Free from Over-Sexualization 46:50

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Episode 300 highlights the raw submission of a betrayed partner struggling with a husband who pressures her sexually despite her clear “not yet.” He gawked, grabbed, and dismissed her boundaries while excusing his behavior as a “high sex drive.” His minimization left her doubting herself, wondering if she was the problem. This dynamic illustrates h…

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Anonymous 2 (part one) 1:13:08

11d ago1:13:08

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The 4 of us from Anonymous 1 get back together and work a 4th step. Lots of new information from Josh and I, and you get to learn more about Kyle and James. It was a long episode so we split it into 2 episodes. Send us a text Support the showBy The 4th Step

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Alexis Pleus Turning a Mother's Heartbreak into Action 26:13

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When Alexis Pleus, a civil engineer and dedicated educator, lost her son Jeff to a heroin overdose, she discovered that everything she'd been taught about addiction was wrong. This devastating truth ignited a new mission. In this powerful episode, Alexis, founder of Truth Pharm, shares her journey from grief to advocacy. She reveals the false dogma…

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The SAL Recovery Puzzle - Commitment w/ Lyman D. 47:25

14d ago47:25

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Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Jonathan L. welcomes guest Lyman D., who shares his powerful journey of commitment to recovery from sex addiction. Highlights include the importance of willingness, the transformative power of connection with a Higher Power, and the significance of taking actionable steps to mainta…

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Big Gestures, Broken Trust—Living in the Cycle of Empty Commitments 46:18

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In this episode (#299), Mark and Steve respond to a betrayed partner’s story of exhaustion after five years of broken promises from her addict spouse. Despite his grand gestures—weekly check-ins, new hobbies, and podcast listening—he repeatedly relapses and becomes defensive when confronted. This cycle leaves her hyper-vigilant, carrying the weight…

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Sarah Hornbuckle Armoring Teens with Truth about Drugs 35:08

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For years, Sarah Hornbuckle lived through the hidden struggles of addiction and domestic violence. Then, in 2016, she found her way into recovery and never looked back. Now, as a certified Peer Support Specialist and a leader at the Hornbuckle Foundation, she's dedicated to lighting a fire for recovery in others. The Hornbuckle Foundation has award…

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As a Recovering Porn & Sex Addict—What Is Keeping Me In My Marriage? 35:23

21d ago35:23

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In this powerful PBSE conversation (Episode 298), we respond to a listener who vulnerably asked whether he is staying in his marriage out of love—or out of fear and obligation. Three and a half months into the space between Discovery Day and full therapeutic disclosure, he wonders if he can truly love his wife, or if he is staying simply because of…

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Theo Fleury From Abuse to Addiction and Hockey Fame 53:18

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Theo Fleury was on top of the world. A Stanley Cup champion and Olympic gold medalist, he had everything a hockey star could dream of. But behind the glory, a dark and self-destructive battle was raging. Fleury wasn't just playing with fire—he was engulfed by it. In this powerful episode, hear the raw, unfiltered story of how Fleury’s life spiraled…

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Jeff L 2:34:25

25d ago2:34:25

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Troubled, traumatic and a little bit hooligan. Jeff shares his childhood and how that path lead him to get clean at 17. Send us a text Support the showBy The 4th Step

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"Everyone Thinks He’s Great . . . But They Don’t Know the Whole Story" 38:12

28d ago38:12

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In Episode 297, Mark & Steve respond to a heart-felt submission by a porn/sex addict in active recovery. He describes an ongoing situation that is very difficult for his betrayed partner and shows a great deal of genuine concern for her. Here's the issue—compliments by friends, family and others, aimed at an addict in recovery, can create painful t…

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[49] Brian Hatch Joins Us Again To Talk Gambling, Recovery and Giving Back By Helping Others Recover 1:09:00

29d ago1:09:00

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Hey all! Back again with my first non solo episode in a long time! I'm joined by Brian Hatch who has his own gambling recovery podcast titled All In The Addicted Gamblers Podcast. Please go listen. We talk what we've been up to in our recovery these days, how we help others and give back while sharing some stories along the way! Enjoy the episode! …

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[48] What If They Won't Get Help or Refuse Treatment? 21:38

1M ago21:38

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Hey everyone! Welcome back to another episode! In this episode I detail some struggles I'm having with a family member suffering with an addiction. I also detail what i do and my suggestions how to handle when someone you love refuses to accept help or treatment. Let me know what you think. [email protected]…

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Duke Rumely Providing SAFE Alternatives to Entertainment 35:11

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Duke Rumely is a former alcoholic who has been sober since 1989. Since then he realized that what was needed at concerts and sporting events was an area for those who are sober and trying to remain that way. He founded Sober AF Entertainment and is making great strides in leading the sober movement - making sober the popular to be for young and old…

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Understanding Enmeshment and Its Impact on Sexual Addiction & Recovery w/ Kenneth Adams 41:54

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Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland speaks with Dr. Kenneth Adams, a top expert in the field of enmeshment and sex addiction. Dr. Adams explains the concept of enmeshment, its impact on family dynamics, and how it may play a role in the development of sexual addiction. He discusses the difference betw…

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When Loving Him Means Losing Me—Do I Stay or Go?! 41:14

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When a partner reaches the heartbreaking point of saying, “I love him, but I feel I’m losing myself,” the question of staying or leaving becomes urgent. After 21 years of repeated betrayal, secrecy, and broken promises, one woman wonders how long she can endure the cycle. This PBSE episode (#296) unpacks that struggle, emphasizing that being lured …

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Steven May Purdue Pharma Whistle Blower 47:38

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Steven May is a federal whistleblower who took on one of the biggest pharmaceutical companies in the world: Purdue Pharma. His case, which once reached the Supreme Court, exposed what he believes was a calculated fraud that led to the approval of OxyContin and helped create the opioid crisis. In this powerful interview, May shares the eye-opening d…

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My Partner uses Porn to Punish Me for Not Losing Weight. How do I Recover from That?! 47:55

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This episode (#295) examines the devastating impact of a husband who weaponized pornography and withheld intimacy as punishment for his wife not meeting his “ideal” body standard. Over two decades, his rejection inflicted a “self-esteem massacre,” leaving her questioning how she could ever recover. We identify this behavior as rooted in immaturity,…

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Hakeem McFarlane Choose Yourself and Recover 30:58

2M ago30:58

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For anyone feeling stuck, unheard, or defined by their past, Hakeem McFarlane’s story is a powerful reminder that it’s never too late to rewrite your narrative. From overcoming a 20-year probation sentence to breaking free from the generational cycle of addiction, Hakeem shares how he transformed personal pain into purpose. He's spoken in every kin…

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Healing for Betrayed Partners with a Sexually Abusive Past (PART 2) 40:05

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This is PBSE Episode 295—When betrayal trauma collides with a history of childhood sexual abuse, partners often feel doubly overwhelmed, carrying both the scars of the past and the pain of the present. Silence, a survival strategy from childhood, often resurfaces in marriage, leaving betrayed partners afraid to voice their needs for fear of conflic…

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The SAL Recovery Puzzle - Seeking Spiritual Connection w/ Amber P 37:17

2M ago37:17

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Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, interim host Jonathan L. welcomes Amber, a participant in the SAL 12-step program, to discuss her journey of healing from betrayal trauma and deepening her spiritual connection with the God of her understanding. Amber shares her experiences of overcoming personal barriers to spiritual c…

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Kerry K 2:33:48

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Kerry is someone who I have a close relationship with for many years. Knowing his story at meeting level and some with the friendship I have with his daughter and granddaughter, I was excited to hear the early details of what he went through and how he ended up in recovery. Send us a text Support the show…

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The Impact of a Sexually Abusive Childhood on a Betrayed Partner (PART 1) 36:02

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In Episode 293, Mark ands Steve address how childhood sexual abuse is a form of complex trauma that imprints deeply on a survivor’s understanding of love, trust, and sexuality. It often distorts sexual norms, blurs boundaries between consent and compliance, and creates lasting confusion around intimacy. Survivors may develop insecure attachment sty…

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Ed Bisch A Grieving Dad Spearheads the Fight Against Opioids 39:23

2M ago39:23

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Ed Bisch is an activist who founded Relatives Against Purdue Pharma (RAPP) after his son, Eddie, died from an OxyContin overdose in 2001. After Eddie's death, Ed started a website to warn others about the dangers of OxyContin and began connecting with other parents who had lost children to the drug. This led to the formation of RAPP, a group that h…

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Larry E 2:30:08

2M ago2:30:08

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Larry gives us a deep account of the drug world from youth to adulthood. He also shares about the ups and downs of relationships and trying to navigate them. This was a fun episode for Josh and I. Send us a text Support the showBy The 4th Step

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Beatty Carmichael Healing Beyond Therapy 37:17

2M ago37:17

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You don't want to miss this interview with Beatty Carmichael, a spiritual health breakthrough expert who has a created a prayer-based process that has helped thousands of people break free from addiction, trauma, emotional torment, and chronic pain. What makes his approach so unique is that it is not based on religion, therapy, or medication, but o…

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What Now? Helping Kids Already Struggling with Pornography w/ Geoff Steurer 47:23

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Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. In this episode, host Tara McCausland and therapist Geoff Steurer discuss principles to help youth already caught in the trap of pornography and other problematic sexual behaviors. The episode focuses on providing guidance to parents on creating a supportive environment where children feel safe discussi…

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I Keep Finding Myself Hurt In Relationships with Porn/Sex Addicts—How Do I Break the Cycle? 37:55

2M ago37:55

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This episode (#292) explores the repeated heartbreak many betrayed partners experience when they unknowingly enter relationships with porn or sex addicts, offering both empathy and practical strategies for breaking the cycle. It begins by affirming that betrayal is never the betrayed partner’s fault, highlighting how addicts often hide their behavi…

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Mike Grant Running in Recovery 41:05

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Meet Mike Grant. Six years ago, he was in an intensive diversion program for habitual drunk driving. Now, he's a 100-mile ultra-marathoner, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and the author of the gritty, honest memoir, (Re)Making A Sandwich. This interview will shock and inspire you. Mike reveals the raw truth of his recovery journey, from hitting…

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Advice for Young Adults Balancing Mental Health, School, Life and Porn Addiction 40:26

2M ago40:26

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In response to a powerful message from an 18-year-old listener, Mark and Steve devote this episode to young adults balancing school, mental health, and porn addiction. They applaud the listener’s maturity and self-awareness and use his story as a springboard to discuss the foundational concepts of being “accountable” and “responsible.” They emphasi…

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Steve, Joseph & Ree 3:09:40

2M ago3:09:40

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I'm in Yuba City Ca with 3 friends doing a re-recording of an episode. The 3 of them share all the trauma, fears, resentments, reservations and much more. All 3 bring a great diversity to the episode. Send us a text Support the showBy The 4th Step

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Derek Maltz - Fighting Against Drugs Where it Counts 35:13

2M ago35:13

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Get Ready for a Deep Dive Into Global Drug Enforcement and National Security Join us for an eye-opening conversation with Derek S. Maltz, a 28-year veteran of the DEA and one of the most influential voices in the fight against transnational crime. As the former Special Agent in Charge of the DEA’s Special Operations Division (SOD), Derek led over 5…

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Can I Have a Healthy Relationship with my Addict Partner without him Sharing His Past? 42:22

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Episode 290 of the PBSE Podcast explores a powerful question submitted by a betrayed partner whose addict husband is in active recovery but refuses to discuss his past. The discussion centers on what real intimacy requires—emotional nakedness, vulnerability, and the willingness to be known. While many addicts hold back due to fear, shame, or cultur…

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Denise Barnes NARCAN+911 28:38

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Denise Barnes was living a full and faith-filled life in sunny San Diego—a devoted mother of three, a wife, a surfer, and a woman grounded in love and purpose. But everything changed the day her youngest son unknowingly took a single pill laced with fentanyl. Narcan was administered… but 911 was never called. That one missed step cost him his life.…

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My Betrayed Partner regularly Screams & Lashes Out . . . How can I Help Her? 37:29

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This episode tackles the heartfelt question of a recovering porn addict whose wife frequently screams, lashes out, and accuses him of lying—despite his efforts at sobriety and support. We emphasize that these outbursts often stem from deep, layered trauma, especially when relapse reopens old wounds. Recovery is not just about avoiding porn; it's ab…

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Theresa N 1:41:32

3M ago1:41:32

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Theresa shares tragedy and childhood confusion with us in an enlightening way. From her recovery mixed with Christianity, to our humanness in poor life choices. We get a great experience with recovery and spirituality. Send us a text Support the showBy The 4th Step

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Julieta Santagostino Working for a Drug Free World 30:58

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What happens when one woman refuses to stay silent in the face of devastation? Meet Julieta, a powerhouse advocate whose journey from the border town of Juarez, Mexico, to global stages is anything but ordinary. Raised in a community ravaged by drug abuse, Julieta didn’t just witness the damage—she decided to fight it. Since 2007, she’s led the Flo…

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Addiction Recovery and the Power of Radical Honesty w/ Anna Lembke 39:56

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Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. This episode re-shares a foundational discussion with Dr. Anna Lembke, a leading expert in addiction medicine, on the importance of radical honesty in recovery. Dr. Lembke explains the neuroscience behind addiction, highlighting the roles of dopamine and the brain's pleasure-pain balance. The conversati…

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My Porn/Sex Addicted Partner tells me I just need to "Get over it" . . . So now what?! 38:13

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In this powerful episode, we address the heart-wrenching story of a betrayed partner whose marriage has been scarred by nearly two decades of emotional abuse, chronic dishonesty, and sexual betrayal. Despite having initiated divorce proceedings, she finds herself still seeking clarity and wondering if hope remains. Her husband, who continues to act…

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Chris Janssen Forgiveness and Recovery 24:03

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Chris Janssen, MA, BCC is a USA TODAY Bestselling author, and results coach in performance and mindset. Her award-winning books include "Grace Yourself: How to Show Up for the Sober Life You Want" https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1637633378?tag=simonsayscom and "Living All In: How to Show Up for the Life You Want" https://www.amazon.com/Livi…

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Roseanne S 2:00:17

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One of my very favorite people in the world. The best sponsor-in-law a guy could ask for. Roseanne shares her story from walking the streets of Watts in LA to becoming a cornerstone of recovery in every life she touches. We are blessed to have this interview. Send us a text Support the showBy The 4th Step

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My Addict Partner Keeps going Through Cycles of Taking Me For Granted! What Do I Do? 33:26

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PBSE Podcast Episode 287 explores the recurring emotional turmoil experienced by a betrayed partner whose addict spouse continues to cycle through emotional relapses, despite seemingly engaging in recovery activities. Every six months, he emotionally regresses—questioning their relationship, doubting compatibility, and withdrawing connection—which …

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I'm Staying Away from Porn, But I Want to FEEL Repulsed by it. How? 40:08

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PBSE Podcast Episode 286, follows the journey of a man in early recovery who is not content with simply staying away from pornography—he wants to feel a deep emotional aversion to it. The article explores this desire for integrity and congruence, addressing how many men feel torn between what they know is harmful and what they are still wired to fi…

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The SAL Recovery Puzzle - Rigorous Honesty w/ Steve T 43:02

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Questions or feedback? Leave your email here. The NEW SAL Book is now available for purchase on the website! Come and get it here! In this episode of the Pathway to Recovery podcast, co-host Justin B, has an interesting and meaningful conversation with Steve T., a recovering sex and multidisciplinary addict. They delve into the topic of rigorous ho…

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Performance Anxiety” is Creating a WALL Between Me & My Betrayed Partner! What Advice do you have? 38:44

4M ago38:44

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In relationships impacted by sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, performance anxiety often becomes more than a physical issue—it’s a symptom of deeper emotional disconnection, trauma, and mistrust. Drawing from a heartfelt message submitted to the PBSE Podcast, Episode 285 delves into how men in recovery may find themselves crippled by shame when…

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Kevin O 2:38:17

4M ago2:38:17

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Kevin talks about racism and family drug abuse growing up in a mexican household, and how his life of crime brought him into the rooms of recovery. Send us a text Support the showBy The 4th Step

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My Addict Partner is Now Identifying as “Polyamorous” and I Don’t Agree. Now What? 39:33

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In Episode 284 of the PBSE podcast, we dive into the harrowing story of a woman navigating her husband’s sudden shift from sex addiction recovery to identifying as polyamorous. After years of pain, betrayal, and dedicated recovery work, she’s now facing a radical alteration in the foundation of their relationship. Her husband demands acceptance of …

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Crystal C 2:09:32

4M ago2:09:32

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A heart wrenching and hope giving episode. With a trauma filled childhood of unthinkable abuse to being diagnosed with cancer in recovery, Crystal shares from the heart about her journey. Send us a text Support the showBy The 4th Step