Are you the woman who has everything except your man? Dating coach Evan Marc Katz will help you find him. Evan is the author of four books, has a blog with over 35 million readers, and has coached 13,000 women through Love U, his signature course that helps smart, successful women find lasting love. With a rare blend of wit, wisdom, and warmth, Evan is an invaluable asset to any woman who is frustrated with dating and wants to fix her broken man-picker. Each week, Evan gives tangible, practi ...
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Evan Marc Katz Podcasts
"Save the Date," a dating survival kit from Coffee Meets Bagel. Join Dawoon Kang, our host and chief dating officer, as she sits down with guest experts to explore what it takes to go on great dates and ultimately find a serious relationship.
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If you're like Matt Gourley (Superego, Drunk History, Conan O'Brien Needs A Friend), then you know all the classic movie and television scenes so well it's like you were in the room when they happened. Well, you weren't. And neither was he. But the people Matt interviews were! Listen in as they tell the inside stories of how cinema and television history was made from a fly-on-the-wall perspective you've never heard. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Believe the Negatives, Ignore the Positives
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15:34Ever get excited about a great first date, only to spiral into trying to predict the future? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I reveal why trying to figure out if he’s “The One” too soon can sabotage your connection. Learn how to stay present, pace the relationship, and still spot red flags early enough to walk away from the wrong guys. I’ll …
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Are your dating standards helping you or quietly sabotaging your love life? In this Love U Podcast, I unpack the hidden rulebook many women carry about how men should behave and why it’s getting in the way of real connection. You’ll hear six common behaviors women often misinterpret as red flags, how to rethink the idea of “wrong” versus “different…
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The Midlife Manifesto – Interview with Chip Conley
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54:49What if aging made you more desirable, not less? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with Chip Conley—author, entrepreneur, and founder of the Modern Elder Academy—to talk about love, identity, and reinvention in the second half of life. We explore the difference between aging and “saging,” how men experience loneliness and intimacy, …
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What if your biggest fear in dating isn’t rejection—it’s investing time, money, and hope into change…only to feel like nothing works? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I share a powerful conversation with a client who overcame that exact fear and discovered why success in love is never about luck. We’ll explore how to break free from dating in…
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Ever wonder if it’s possible to start over—emotionally, romantically, even financially—at 60? In this episode, I talk with Victoria, a powerhouse of resilience who walked away from a 30-year marriage, faced down fear, and built a brand-new life from the ground up. We explore what it really takes to leave a relationship that looks fine on the outsid…
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How Can I Be More Flirtatious and Approachable? – Coaching with Shahrzad
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30:39Can you be warm, confident, and flirty—without feeling fake? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I coach Shahrzad, a smart, multilingual woman in Stockholm who’s great at meeting people but struggles to spark romantic connection in real life. We explore how to build social momentum, express interest naturally, and radiate the kind of energy that…
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A Teary Podcast About My Wife and My Life’s Work
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19:08Last week, I shared that my wife has breast cancer. Hundreds of you wrote back with your thoughts and prayers. I was so touched that I did what I said I wasn’t going to do: I recorded a podcast about our situation, the importance of unconditional love, and my clients who have found it and credit me for helping them. Warning: I blubber my way throug…
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3 Reasons Your Relationship Will (Likely) Fail
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20:15Have you ever had an amazing connection with a man—only to find yourself heartbroken and confused when it didn’t last? In this Love U Podcast, I break down the three sneaky but predictable reasons relationships fail, even when everything feels right: timing, circumstance, and location. If you’ve ever fallen for a guy who wasn’t ready, was juggling …
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What to Do If You’ve Never Been Properly Loved
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16:13Have you ever felt like your past has permanently shaped your love life? In this deeply personal episode, I share the emotional journey of my client Lorelei—a smart, successful woman whose early experiences with an abusive father and controlling husband convinced her she was unlovable. We explore how trauma can create limiting beliefs that sabotage…
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How to Find True Love – Interview with Francesca Hogi
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52:50Ever feel like no matter how much you accomplish, love still feels out of reach? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with Francesca Hogi—former lawyer turned matchmaker, TED speaker, and author of How to Find True Love—to talk about what it really takes to attract the relationship you deserve. We unpack the difference between falling …
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Are you hoping to find love but secretly wishing there was a shortcut to get there? In this Love U Podcast, I reveal why love doesn’t work like winning the lottery—and why relying on quick fixes and dating apps won’t lead you to the relationship you deserve. Instead, I walk you through what it really takes to build lasting love: self-awareness, a w…
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When Safe, Heard, and Understood is Not Enough
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20:55Is feeling safe, heard, and understood enough for lasting love? In this Love U Podcast, I share two powerful coaching stories that reveal why a “good on paper” relationship isn’t always the right relationship. Learn the difference between healthy pacing and unhealthy pressure, and why chemistry still matters when building a life together. If you’ve…
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Are you letting fear quietly sabotage your love life? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I uncover how hidden fears—fear of rejection, fear of settling, fear of wasting time—can keep smart, strong, successful women stuck, whether they’re avoiding dating, endlessly swiping, or staying in the wrong relationships. I’ll show you how these fears cre…
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Love and Astrology – Interview with Carol Allen
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45:17Do you ever feel like love just isn’t happening—no matter how hard you try? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with my dear friend and Vedic astrologer Carol Allen to explore why timing, energy, and emotional readiness might matter more than effort alone. We break down the difference between chemistry and compatibility, how to spot h…
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Should You Date Him When He’s Struggling?
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22:37Have you ever wondered if you should date a man who’s struggling? In this special 400th episode of the Love U Podcast, I reflect on my own darkest seasons and share why timing—not just chemistry or potential—can make or break a relationship. You’ll hear vulnerable stories, hard-earned insights, and a powerful truth: you can’t build a future with a …
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A Quick Mindset Shift to Help You Persevere in Dating
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18:30Ever feel like dating is just running in place on a treadmill? I’ve been there, and I want to help you shift that mindset for good. In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I share one powerful reframe that will help you see your dating life in a completely different way. You’ll learn why failed relationships aren’t actually failures, how each experi…
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In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I unpack the five most common myths women hold about sex—from thinking men only want one thing, to assuming your partner isn’t attracted to you anymore. With insights from psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman and a few hard truths of my own, we’ll challenge these assumptions and reveal what emotionally intelligent…
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A No-Nonsense Guide to Love – Interview with Matchmaker Maria
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1:03:56Ever feel stuck dating men who seem great on paper but go nowhere in real life? In this Love U Podcast episode, I sit down with Matchmaker Maria, author and dating expert, to break down why chemistry alone won’t get you the relationship you deserve. We share how to identify whether a guy is truly a long-term match—and introduce a 3-part test you ca…
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Tired of dating apps, dead-end conversations, and feeling like you’re doing all the work? In this episode, I share how my perspective on matchmaking has changed and why it might be the right next step for you. Matchmaking has evolved into an ethical, collaborative, full-service industry that supports smart, successful women who are short on time bu…
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Why Single People Need Happily Married Friends
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21:33What if your view of love is being shaped by the wrong people? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I dive into the hidden influence of your social circle and why surrounding yourself with cynical singles or unhappily married couples could be sabotaging your outlook on love. You’ll hear real stories, hard truths, and a powerful case for expanding…
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Maybe You Shouldn’t Work on Your Relationship
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15:16Ever feel like you’re working harder on your relationship than your partner is? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I challenge the belief that relationships should be hard work. You’ll learn why trying to fix a fundamentally broken partnership may be doing more harm than good—and why acceptance matters more than endless effort. I’ll share power…
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Ever wonder if it’s too late to find love after 50—or after wasting years in the wrong relationship? In this episode, I sit down with Bernadette, a longtime Love U graduate who ended a 20-year partnership, pushed through 91 first dates, and finally found the relationship that feels easy, grounded, and real. We talk about what held her back, how she…
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Can I Find Love in a Small Town? – Coaching with Rhea
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32:19Can you really find love when your dating pool feels more like a puddle? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I coach Rhea, a smart, self-aware single mom navigating the unique challenges of dating in a rural town—where options are limited, distance is a dealbreaker, and small-town gossip adds pressure. Together, we explore how to reframe her min…
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5 Ways to Be a Great Date and Make Him Crave You
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20:39Are you unknowingly sabotaging your chances on first dates? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down five simple but powerful ways to be a great date—and why making a man feel good around you is the key to making him crave more. You’ll learn how curiosity, warmth, and subtle signals can turn an average night out into something memorable …
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The 4 Ways Humans Connect with Adam Dorsay
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1:01:02What does it really mean to feel connected—to yourself, to others, to your work, and to something greater? In this special episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with psychologist and TED speaker Dr. Adam Dorsay to explore the science and soul of connection. We talk about friendship, loneliness, the commodification of modern dating, and the esse…
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The #1 Secret to Connecting BEFORE The First Date
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19:01In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I reveal the #1 secret to connecting before you ever meet in person—and why skipping this step leads to flakiness, frustration, and dead-end dates. You’ll learn my proven 2-2-2 screening method that helps you weed out the wrong guys early, spark meaningful conversation, and make smarter dating decisions withou…
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How to Stop Getting Into Situationships – Coaching with Christy
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26:56Ever wonder why the men you’re most drawn to are the least emotionally available? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I coach Christy, a smart, successful woman who’s ready to stop chasing chemistry and start choosing connection. We dive into how unresolved patterns from your past can pull you toward the wrong men—and why being “chosen” isn’t th…
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Are you swiping left on your future husband without even realizing it? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I challenge the belief that there are “no good men left” by showing how small shifts in your dating filters—like height, age, religion, or shared interests—can dramatically expand your options without asking you to settle. You’ll learn why …
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Ever feel like your breakup left you shattered—and you’re not sure how to rebuild? In this powerful episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with Sara Davison, award-winning divorce coach and host of Heartbreak to Happiness, to talk about surviving—and thriving—after toxic relationships. We explore why people stay in unhealthy dynamics, how to spo…
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Ever found yourself thinking, “He’s almost perfect… if only he would change”? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I’m diving into one of the biggest traps smart women fall into: dating for potential. I’ll share why so many “red flags” are really just differences—and which ones actually matter. You’ll hear real client stories that reveal the high…
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Feminine Energy – Interview with Adrienne Everheart
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37:06Do you ever feel like being strong and successful in life makes love feel harder, not easier? In this episode, I sit down with Adrienne Everheart to unpack the real meaning of feminine energy—and why so many smart women unknowingly lead with masculine energy in relationships. We explore how to stop overfunctioning, express emotions in a way men can…
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Is Miranda July’s All Fours Selling a Fantasy?
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26:43What if the ultimate freedom—sexual, creative, personal—doesn’t actually lead to lasting happiness? In this thought-provoking episode of the Love U Podcast, I explore Miranda July’s All Fours and the larger cultural conversation around women embracing the “middle-aged sexual awakening.” But here’s the twist—I haven’t read the book. Instead, I take …
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Sometimes, we stay in relationships hoping things will change—but what if letting go is the real path to love? In this Love U Podcast, I talk with Carolina, a Love U graduate, about her journey from painful relationships to finding a healthy, fulfilling partnership. We discuss why smart women ignore red flags, how to break patterns of over-giving, …
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Is It Taboo To Want Marriage on Dating Apps?
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11:50In today’s dating world, is admitting you want marriage and kids considered needy? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down why so many women hesitate to state their relationship goals—and why that hesitation might be working against them. We’ll explore how dating app ambiguity benefits men, why setting clear expectations isn’t a turnoff…
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What Healthy Couples Know That You Don’t – Interview with Rhoda Mills Sommer
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55:07Are you constantly striving to do everything “right” in dating, only to feel exhausted and stuck? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, Evan sits down with licensed psychotherapist Rhoda Mills Sommer to unpack the hidden struggles of high-achieving women in relationships. They explore the dangers of perfectionism, the importance of embracing uncer…
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Ever found yourself overanalyzing a guy’s mixed signals, wondering if he’s truly interested—or just keeping you around? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down six clear signs that show when a man is genuinely into you. From prioritizing time together to showing affection and talking about the future, these are the non-negotiable action…
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Is it really possible to find love after 40—especially after divorce, disability, and a history of toxic relationships? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with my former client Teresa, who opens up about her journey from rock bottom to happily married. We cover how she overcame online dating overwhelm, rebuilt her confidence, and use…
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Should Women Embrace Their Masculine Energy?
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15:10Are today’s men too passive—or have women simply become too proactive? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down the modern dating dilemma, where ambitious women feel like they have to chase men just to keep their attention. I’ll explain why this dynamic leaves women exhausted and unfulfilled—and why leaning into your feminine energy can …
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Relationship Renovation with Tarah and EJ Kerwin
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1:08:43Struggling with dating dynamics and feeling like you’re giving more than you get? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz sits down with relationship experts Tarah and EJ Kerwin to break down why so many women overfunction in relationships and how to shift the dynamic. Discover the key to emotional safety, effective commu…
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Does having sex too soon affect how a man sees you? In this Love U Podcast, I explore why timing matters and how it can shape the course of a relationship. You’ll gain insight into how men think about sex, why patience can deepen connection, and how setting boundaries can shift the dynamic. Whether you’re navigating early dating or wondering where …
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Why do some relationships fizzle out after a few months? And how can a shift in mindset lead to lasting love? In this episode, former client Rachel shares her journey from short-term connections to a secure, fulfilling relationship—without changing who she is. Discover why character matters more than chemistry, how to spot a secure partner, and how…
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Your Radical Living Challenge – interview with Marni Battista
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46:19Marni is a close friend, a high integrity human being, and one of the best I know at navigating change and radically reinventing your life. She went from being a high-paid dating coach to living a life more aligned with her values – leaving Los Angeles for a small ski town in Colorado – taking less money but finding more peace and happiness on the …
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Sometimes, attraction disappears in an instant—but is the ick a real dealbreaker or just a reflex? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down why women experience the ick more than men, the psychology behind these sudden turn-offs, and whether they’re actually keeping you from a great relationship. From minor quirks to social conditioning,…
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Million Dollar Matchmaking – interview with Adam Cohen-Aslatei, CEO of Three Day Rule
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38:38Are dating apps failing you? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I talk with Adam Cohen-Aslatei, CEO of Three Day Rule, about why so many singles feel burned out on modern dating. We explore the pitfalls of swiping culture, the power of matchmaking, and why dating is a skill you can (and should) learn. Adam also shares insights on Three Day Rule…
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How to Be Date-able with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu
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51:30In today’s Love U Podcast, I sit down with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, the hosts of the hit Datable podcast and authors of How to Be Dateable, to unpack the modern dating landscape. We discuss why so many singles feel stuck, the common traps that keep people from finding love, and how to shift your mindset to create real connection. From the myth o…
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What To Do When He Moves Too Fast (or Slow)
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18:07What do you do when he’s moving too fast or too slow? In this Love U Podcast, I’ll teach you how to slow him down, speed things up, and set boundaries that make dating feel easy. From avoiding blind dates with strangers to using FaceTime as your first date, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you find a man who’s ready to build tru…
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Ask a Jewish Matchmaker with Aleeza Ben Shalom
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1:06:33In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I talk with Aleeza Ben Shalom, a world-renowned matchmaker, dating coach, and author. Aleeza shares her journey into matchmaking, insights on aligning values in relationships, and the importance of intentionality in dating. We discuss the challenges of modern dating, how to approach relationships with clarity,…
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Are your dating habits holding you back? In this Love U Podcast, I share the story of a woman stuck in a cycle of unfulfilling relationships, and reveal how to identify and break bad dating habits. Learn why settling doesn’t work, how to embrace your worth, and how aiming higher can transform your love life. If you’re ready for something better, th…
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In this emergency episode of the Love U Podcast, I share my experience facing wildfires that threatened my home and family. From managing chaos to working as a team with my wife, this crisis reinforced the importance of love, communication, and clarity. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating challenges together. 🌟Join the FREE 5-Day Challenge:…
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5 Ways Anxious and Avoidant People Are Similar
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18:21Anxious and avoidant attachment styles may seem like opposites, but they share surprising traits that can hold you back in love. In this episode, I uncover what these patterns have in common and how they impact relationships in ways you might not expect. If fear or frustration has been getting in the way of your happiness, you don’t want to miss th…
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