Best Darren Rees Podcasts (2025)

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100-Surviving A Covert Narcissist with Mia Hanks 54:41

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The most dangerous abusers aren’t always loud. Sometimes they appear kind, generous, and adored—until the door closes. In this episode, Ingrid sits down with Mia Hanks, author and survivor of covert narcissistic abuse, to unpack life with a narcissist: from the dizzying highs of love bombing to the slow drain of gaslighting, blame-shifting, and ide…

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99 – Justice Is Finding Peace: Childhood Sexual Abuse, Healing & Truth with Kath Essing 50:04

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What if justice isn’t a courtroom verdict, but the peace that comes from telling the truth? On this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with Kath Essing, author of The Courage to Speak Your Truth: Shifting the Narrative on Childhood Sexual Abuse, for a powerful conversation about healing when the legal system cannot deliver a conviction…

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98 – Shear Haven’s Domestic Violence Training with Susanne Shepherd Post 57:11

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What if the person most likely to spot early signs of domestic violence isn’t a police officer, clinician, or counselor—but your hairstylist? In this episode of the 1in3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with salon owner and advocate Susanne Shepherd Post to reveal how Shear Haven is transforming everyday salon appointments into potentially life-saving int…

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97-How Shame Fuels Narcissistic Abuse—and How to Break Free with Emma Lyons 41:00

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Shame often masquerades as a moral compass—but for many survivors of narcissistic abuse, it becomes the cage that keeps them stuck. In this 1 in 3 episode, Emma breaks down how shame fuels narcissistic abuse, why it fuses with identity, and how it traps survivors in the same relationship patterns even after they leave. She explains the key differen…

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96-How An A.I. Companion Helps Survivors Navigate Abuse, Document Evidence, And Prepare For Court with Anne Wintemute 57:07

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What if the smartest “person” in the room during your most stressful moments isn’t a person at all—yet it remembers your story, protects your privacy, and helps you plan your next safe move? In this episode of the 1in3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with Anne, creator of Aimee, a survivor-first A.I. tool designed specifically for domestic abuse and coer…

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95-EMDR Explained: A Trauma Therapist’s Guide to Safe, Effective Healing with Laurel Roberts-Meese 44:32

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Your brain can remember the past without reliving it—that’s the power of EMDR therapy. In this episode of the 1 in 3 Podcast, Ingrid sits down with licensed therapist Laurel to break down what EMDR is, how it works, and why it’s become one of the most effective trauma therapies for survivors of domestic violence, PTSD, and complex trauma. We explor…

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94-Trauma-Informed Reporting Tech: REES on Safety, Choice & Data-Driven Prevention with Mary Lobson 1:06:43

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How Trauma-Informed Tech Is Transforming Abuse & Harassment Reporting | Mary Lobson, REES Founder What if reporting sexual violence, domestic abuse, harassment, or discrimination felt safe, clear, confidential, and survivor-centered? In this episode of 1 in 3, Ingrid sits down with Mary Lobson, founder of REES (Respect, Educate, Empower Survivors),…

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93-From Silence to Strength: Grooming, Justice, and Prevention with Morgan Scafe 1:06:59

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Some stories don’t just deserve to be heard—they demand change. In this powerful episode of 1 in 3 Podcast, Morgan Scafe joins host Ingrid Dutton to share her harrowing story of child sexual abuse that began at age eight and continued until fifteen. She reveals how a courtroom turned her truth into a test—forcing her to relive trauma while sitting …

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92-A Father’s Story of Domestic Violence and Hope with Dean Taylor 1:03:36

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In this episode of 1 in 3 Dean shares the true story of helping his daughter escape domestic violence during a winter storm. A father’s gut feeling, a knock that wouldn’t stop, and a rescue that changed two lives. Dean walks us through the night he drove to a remote cabin and helped his daughter leave an abusive relationship—and the lessons every p…

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91-Protecting Kids After Domestic Violence: Dr. Royster on Post-Separation Abuse 46:19

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In this episode of 1 in 3, child psychologist Dr. Royster joins Ingrid to unpack how to protect children’s mental health in high-conflict co-parenting and post-separation abuse situations. A calm home, a steady voice, and the right words at the right time can change a child’s life—even when a co-parent thrives on chaos. Dr. Royster breaks down the …

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90-Lizzbeth Aleman-Popoca, Named and Remembered 45:46

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A woman is “found dead.” The headline ends there, but the story doesn’t—and neither does our responsibility. Ingrid sits with Vanessa and Yaneth to honor Lizzbeth by name, define femicide without euphemism, and follow the thread from a family’s search to a community’s demand for change. What emerges is both deeply personal and relentlessly systemic…

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89-Teresa’s Light, Devyn’s Voice with Devyn O'Neill 1:03:54

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In this episode of 1 in 3, Devyn joins Ingrid to share her powerful domestic violence survivor story—one that began with a late-night knock, a 911 call, and the moment her stepfather returned and pulled a trigger. The small town that knew Teresa, a beloved nurse with a bright laugh and steady hands, now mourned the loss of someone who made others f…

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88-When Systems Align with Captain Eric Threlkeld 37:24

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In this episode of 1 in 3, host Ingrid sits down with Captain Eric Threlkeld—law enforcement leader, former UN police trainer, and domestic violence specialist—to unpack what truly saves lives: better first responses, stronger multidisciplinary teams, and real training on non-fatal strangulation that too often goes unnoticed in the ER and on the st…

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Domestic Violence Awareness Month: Dates, Themes, and How to Show Up 6:02

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In this episode of 1 in 3, host Ingrid kicks off Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) with a clear, practical roadmap for how each of us can show up—visibly, safely, and meaningfully. When the calendar flips to October, the air changes: it’s time to bring domestic violence awareness out of the shadows and into our shared care. We unpack the mes…

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87-Red Flags and Reality: Escaping Domestic Violence with Tiffiny Newton 1:03:07

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What does domestic violence really look like behind closed doors? In this raw, unfiltered conversation, host Ingrid sits down with fellow survivor Tiffiny Newton for a candid exploration of abuse dynamics that goes far beyond what most people understand. Together, they unpack the subtle warning signs that precede full-blown abuse – the love bombing…

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86-Unmasking Sexual Violence: Survivors, Systems, and Solutions with Tracy DeTomasi 57:09

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In this episode of 1 in 3, host Ingrid speaks with Tracy DiTomasi, CEO of Callisto and a licensed clinical social worker with over 25 years of experience in gender-based violence. Together, they confront the ways society talks—or avoids talking—about sexual assault. Too often, we use euphemisms, passive language, and subtle victim-blaming that shif…

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85-Your Authentic Self Is Waiting on the Other Side of Therapy with Linda Feig Knipe 1:07:58

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In this powerful episode of 1 in 3, Linda shares her deeply personal story of trauma, PTSD recovery, and the transformative power of therapy after sexual assault. A casual comment from a professor unexpectedly triggered buried memories decades after her assault—forcing her to confront emotions she’d long mistaken for strength. Rather than continue …

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84-Healing Together: Parent and Child After Abuse with Jacintha Field 48:25

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When you finally escape an abusive relationship, there's that moment of relief—then reality hits. How do you heal yourself while also helping your children process their trauma? This question sits at the heart of today's deeply moving conversation with Jacintha, a family counselor, art therapist, and domestic violence survivor who transformed her p…

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83-Navigating Legal Abuse: Strategies for High-Conflict Divorce with Lisa Johnson 1:07:13

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What happens when your abusive ex uses the courtroom as their new weapon? For many domestic violence survivors, escaping the relationship is only the beginning. Family court can become the next battleground—a place where abusers weaponize the legal system to continue control, drain finances, and punish their victims. In this powerful episode of 1 i…

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82-Breaking the Narcissistic Cycle: A Therapist's Perspective with Darren Elliott 1:05:20

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What happens when the person who says they love you suddenly turns cold, making you question your own reality? Therapist Darren Elliott pulls back the curtain on narcissism, revealing it's not just a label we throw at difficult people, but a profound emotional disconnection that affects everyone to some degree. After experiencing the bewildering pa…

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81-Finding Strength After Emotional Abuse and Financial Control with Julie Barth 47:03

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Resilience takes many forms, but few journeys demonstrate its power quite like Julie Barth's story of survival and transformation. After losing her first husband to pancreatic cancer while raising four children including a special needs daughter, Julie found herself vulnerable and seeking escape from grief. This led her directly into the arms of an…

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80-When Survivors Lead: The Messy, Beautiful Work of Rescue with Ali Allred 38:47

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What happens when a survivor decides that no one else should face the same isolation and roadblocks she encountered? Ali Allred joins 1 in 3 for a second powerful conversation to reveal how she's building a lifeline for those trapped in domestic violence and human trafficking situations. After escaping her own abusive relationship, Ali began sharin…

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79-Nobody Grows Up Thinking This Will Happen to Them with Ali Allred 49:49

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Nobody grows up thinking they'll become a human trafficking survivor. For Ali Allred, life began with childhood instability that created the first cracks in her foundation. Sexual assault at age three and eventual substance abuse as a teenager that formed a perfect storm of vulnerability that traffickers would later exploit. Ali's raw, unflinching …

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78-Red Flag or Trauma? Navigating New Relationships with Kimberly Mathis 57:14

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What happens when the chaos of abuse finally ends, and you're faced with the possibility of new love? For many survivors, this terrain feels more frightening than familiar. Dating after domestic violence isn't just about meeting someone new—it's about rewiring your entire understanding of what relationships should feel like. When you've spent years…

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77-Unmasking the Narcissist with Nova Gibson 59:08

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The words "narcissist" and "gaslighting" get thrown around a lot these days, but do we truly understand what they mean? In this powerful conversation with Nova Gibson, author of the bestselling book "Fake Love" and host of "Fake Love and Flying Monkeys" podcast, we dive deep into the insidious world of narcissistic abuse and why recognizing it coul…

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76-Beyond the Diddy Verdict: Why Silence Is Never an Option 6:10

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Sometimes the shortest messages carry the most profound weight. After the controversial Diddy verdict sent ripples through survivor communities, many wondered if speaking truth to power still matters in a system that often protects the wealthy and influential. This episode stands as both shield and sword—defending those feeling discouraged while cu…

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75-Victim Blaming in the Spotlight: A Response to Bill Maher 22:15

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When a celebrity like Bill Maher uses his platform to tell domestic violence victims they "need to leave right away," it reveals a profound misunderstanding of abuse dynamics that puts real lives at risk. This episode takes on Maher's recent comments about Cassie Ventura and others facing abuse, exposing the dangerous myths behind victim-blaming rh…

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74-Breaking the Silence: Clare's Law and Terri's Fight with Angela Smith 21:15

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When tragedy strikes, some people find themselves transformed into reluctant warriors. After losing her daughter Terri and grandchildren to domestic violence, Angie Smith became exactly that—channeling unimaginable grief into life-saving advocacy work that's reshaping how we protect vulnerable people. The heart of this powerful conversation explore…

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73-When a Monster Enters an Ordinary Life with Angela Smith 28:07

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"You just cannot comprehend that." These words from Angie Smith barely scratch the surface of the unfathomable tragedy that befell her family during COVID lockdown in 2021. What begins as the story of an "average mom and nan" quickly unfolds into one of the most devastating accounts of domestic violence in recent UK history. When Angie's daughter T…

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72-From Rainbow Light to Domestic Shadows: James Barr's Journey 14:06

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What happens when the person you believe is your soulmate becomes your abuser? James Barr—MTV anchor, radio personality, podcast host, and LGBTQ rights ambassador—discovered this devastating reality firsthand, and now he's breaking his silence. Despite his public persona as a fearless voice who has never been one to keep quiet, James fell victim to…

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71-Rainbow Shadows: When Home Isn't Safe for LGBTQ+ DV Survivors 12:40

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Happy Pride Month, Warriors. This episode takes you on a powerful journey through LGBTQ+ history in America while exploring a critical issue often overlooked amid the celebrations: the alarmingly high rates of domestic violence affecting queer communities. From New York's 1966 laws prohibiting alcohol service to gay patrons to the watershed moment …

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70-Domestic Violence Rises 12% in Summer: What You Need to Know 6:46

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The summer months bring more than just sunshine and vacations—they create a perfect storm for domestic violence. Did you know abuse incidents spike by 12% during summer? This jarring statistic reveals how stretched family time, rising temperatures, and increased substance use create dangerous environments for vulnerable individuals. Warriors, I'm s…

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69-Red Flags Ignored: The Preventable Murder of Aiden Moreno 12:52

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The murder of seven-month-old Aaden Moreno stands as a haunting example of what happens when our protective systems fail those they're designed to protect. Just days after a Connecticut judge denied a restraining order that would have protected the infant and his young mother, 21-year-old Tony Moreno took baby Aaden to the Arrigoni Bridge and threw…

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68-Restraining Orders: Paper Shields in a Bullet Storm; Dorothy Giunta-Cotter's Story 14:00

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Trusting a victim's instincts could be the difference between life and death. Dorothy Giunta-Cotter knew her husband was dangerous. She told authorities he repeatedly threatened to kill her if she ever left him. She did everything right - fled with her child, sought help from a crisis center, filed a restraining order, and reported violations. Yet …

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67-When Healing Becomes Your Mission with Dana Hanuszczak 40:10

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Dana's transformation from abuse survivor to community leader shows how trauma can become purpose when channeled into helping others. After enduring 17 years of family court battles and multiple forms of abuse, Dana founded the Survivor Center to create the support system she wished she'd had during her darkest moments. The Survivor Center began wi…

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66-The Savage Angel's Redemption Story with Dana Hanuszczak 24:41

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The journey from victim to advocate is rarely straightforward, but Dana's story reveals the remarkable resilience of the human spirit against unimaginable odds. As a child in the Bronx, Dana navigated parental addiction, homelessness from age nine, and cultural displacement as the only Caucasian person in her neighborhood. Rather than succumbing to…

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65- "I am 1 in 3 times 3" with George Muzzy 59:58

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George's story begins with a childhood shaped by three different abusive men. From physical beatings by his foster father for minor childish behaviors to learning at age nine that the man he'd called "dad" wasn't his biological father, his early years were marked by confusion and pain. When his stepfather entered the picture, the abuse escalated. O…

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64-Mel Gibson's Domestic Abuse: How Money and Power Trump Justice 16:41

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Money and fame shouldn't protect abusers, but they often do. This latest episode delves deep into one of Hollywood's most notorious domestic violence cases – the disturbing relationship between Mel Gibson and Oksana Grigorieva. The relationship began like a Hollywood romance in 2009, quickly resulting in the birth of their daughter. But by January …

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63-Therapy, Tears, and TikTok: Behind the 1 in 3 Podcast 12:10

9M ago12:10

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Two years in, and I'm finally ready to share some of my personal healing journey following domestic violence. What began as determination to leave my abuser slowly morphed into doubt and questioning - was it really abuse? Could the relationship be saved? In therapy, a seemingly simple exercise changed everything. Writing my story on an imaginary sc…

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62-The Deadly Connection Between Intimate Partner Violence and Suicide Risk with Jessica Maerz 52:06

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The devastating intersection between suicide and domestic violence remains largely hidden, yet the statistics tell a shocking story. In this deeply important conversation, LCSW Jessica reveals that one in three women who attempted suicide in the past year were recent victims of intimate partner violence. Drawing from her years of experience working…

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61-Beyond the Escape: Life After Abuse with Emma Jean Rowin 38:22

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What happens after you leave an abuse relationship? The movies would have you believe it's all sunshine and roses once you escape, but the reality is far more complicated. Author Emma Jean Rowin returns to share the final chapter of her journey, reading from her powerful memoir "When Things Collapse" and exploring the complex aftermath of domestic …

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60-Your Children See Everything: Why Leaving an Abuser is the Greatest Gift with Emma Jean Rowin 32:24

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When Emma Jean's young daughter offered to "act really cute" to prevent her father's rage, something profound shifted. In this raw, emotional conversation, Emma Jean reads a pivotal passage from her book, "When Things Collapse," revealing the exact moment she realized her children weren't just witnessing abuse—they were absorbing it as training for…

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59-The Coke Grenade: When Romance Turns Toxic with Emma Jean Rowin 33:51

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Emma Jean Rowin survived an abusive marriage that culminated in her ex-husband becoming an active shooter. Her powerful memoir "When Things Collapse" chronicles this journey, but more importantly, reveals the subtle pathway that led her there - the very pathway many dismiss with "I would never stay in an abusive relationship." Through reading passa…

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58-Navigating High-Conflict Co-Parenting with Marisol Vasquez: Tips for Success 37:08

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Discover the art of thriving amidst the challenges of high-conflict co-parenting in this engaging episode featuring insights from Marisol, a co-parenting coach with firsthand experience. Uncover practical strategies for maintaining your identity as a parent while ensuring your kids have a balanced relationship with both parents. We delve into the i…

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57-Resilience and High-Conflict Co-Parenting: Marisol's Journey Through Adversity 35:42

10M ago35:42

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Navigating the stormy seas of high-conflict co-parenting is no easy feat, and today I have Marisol sharing her compelling journey. Imagine juggling not one, but two custody and child support cases, all while facing the emotional upheaval of multiple court hearings and even bankruptcy. Marisol's story is a testament to resilience, offering listeners…

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56-Domestic Violence in Indian Marriages: Dr. Anisha's Journey and Insights 41:15

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What if cultural traditions are quietly trapping victims in cycles of abuse? Join us as Dr. Anisha returns to "1 in 3" with a profound exploration of Indian marriage dynamics and their influence on domestic violence. Drawing from her personal experiences and her book, "The Power to Break Free: Surviving Domestic Violence, With a Special Reference t…

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55-Holistic Healing for Domestic Violence Victims with Dr. Anisha 45:28

11M ago45:28

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After a personal encounter with the shocking realities of domestic violence, this week's episode of 1 in 3 offers a compassionate and expert-led exploration of the healing process. I welcome Dr. Anisha, an integrative medicine practitioner and trauma specialist, who sheds light on the complex layers of trauma victims face and the journey towards re…

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54-Exploring Self-Confidence with Sheena Yap Chan 31:51

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Meet Sheena Yap Chan, a remarkable author and podcaster whose mission is to uplift and empower Asian women through self-confidence and leadership. Sheena's journey from experiencing cultural identity struggles after moving from the Philippines to Toronto, to embracing her heritage and launching the influential podcast "The Tao of Self-Confidence," …

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53-Domestic Violence MURDERED: Deanna Cook 13:55

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How do we ensure that the most vulnerable among us are truly protected? Deanna Cook's tragic story is a stark reminder of the systemic failures that allow domestic violence to persist unchecked. This episode of "1 in 3" takes us through her desperate struggle to break free from the cycle of abuse perpetuated by her ex-husband, Delvecchio Patrick. D…

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52-Domestic Violence WARRIOR and AUTHOR: Antoinette Foxworthy; Part 3 29:03

11M ago29:03

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Uncover the subtle signs of emotional and mental abuse with Antoinette Foxworthy, the brilliant author of "No More," as she returns to share her deep insights on this critical subject. Through her compelling research and personal anecdotes, Antoinette sheds light on the hushed world of toxic relationships, unveiling behaviors that often remain hidd…