Ars Amorata is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. Join Zan Perrion and Jordan Luke Collier and a growing number of men around the world who are binding themselves to the mast, raging against mediocrity in all its forms, and defining their lives, themselves, and most importantly their relationships, on their own terms. Subscribe and listen each week to hear: ~ inspiring tales of love, heartbreak, debauchery and seducti ...
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 33 — Building Community and Attracting People Into Your Circle
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 32 — How To Access True Power and Thrive
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1:11:36Send us a text Episode 32 — How To Access True Power and Thrive ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides in…
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 31 — How To Know if You Found a ‘One'?
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55:55Send us a text Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 31 — How To Know if You Found a ‘One'? ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Need a gun…
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The Zan and Jordan — Episode 30 — Overcome your Reactivity and Melt Through her Shell
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 29 — How To Recapture Your Mojo After a Break-up or Divorce
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23:41Send us a text Episode 29 — How To Recapture Your Mojo After a Break-up or Divorce ____________________________________________________ Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/ ____________________________________ Need a gunslinger? S…
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The Zan and Jordan — Episode 28 — Dealing With One-Sided Attraction? Here’s Something To Consider
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46:24Send us a text Episode 28 — Dealing With One-Sided Attraction? Here’s Something To Consider ____________________________________________________ Zan famously writes in The Alabaster Girl, “Love is symmetrical…The ones you love are the ones who love you”. Many men (and women) have read and re-read this line, understanding it conceptually, yet fail t…
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The Zan and Jordan — Episode 27 — Women Don’t Want a Man of Extremes — They Want Someone Balanced and Integrated
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1:11:37Send us a text Episode 27 — Women Don’t Want a Man of Extremes – They Want Someone Balanced and Integrated ____________________________________________________ In response to last week’s conversation about forging an essence of masculine excellence now, and in the future, one viewer posed a question to our Amorati membership circle that Zan and Jor…
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Epsiode 26 — Build a Vision of Your Masculinity from a Blank Canvas
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1:14:11Send us a text Epsiode 26 — Build a Vision of Your Masculinity from a Blank Canvas Today’s discussion starts in response to one viewer’s comment on his perception of the use of “re-” in the messaging of last episode’s ideas around men ‘reclaiming’ and ‘restoring’ their masculine essence. “Spaking in these terms, you’re looking backwards…it’s not fo…
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 25 — Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine Essence
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41:57Send us a text The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 25 — Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine Essence ____________________________________________________ Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine Essence Today, Jordan and Zan shed light on one of the most fundamental, core (literally) shortcomings that…
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 24 — Balancing Your Inner Warrior and Lover
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 23 — What To Do When She Brings the Storm
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 22 — Explore Your Relationship to Women and Step Into What’s Beyond
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1:10:41Send us a text Episode 22 — Explore Your Relationship to Women and Step Into What’s Beyond ____________________________________________________ On the heels of gathering in Bucharest for the Spring 2025 Amorati Conference, Jordan and Zan meet this week and reflect on the conversation had, discuss the true value of embracing the Ars Amorata philosop…
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 21 — Life Beyond Porn — The Pearl to be Snatched from the Murky Abyss
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53:01Send us a text Episode 21 — Life Beyond Porn — The Pearl to be Snatched from the Murky Abyss ____________________________________________________ Every mindful man eventually faces this question: how do we navigate our relationship with sexuality in a world saturated with pornographic imagery? If you want to feel masterful with your sexual impulses…
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The Zan and Jordan Show —Episode 20 — Semen Retention: Benefits, Usefulness, and Can You Go Too Far?
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58:46Send us a text The Zan and Jordan Show Episode 20 — Semen Retention: Benefits, Usefulness, and Can You Go Too Far? ____________________________________________________ Have you ever gone a few days without ejaculating, and noticed that you felt stronger, more confident, or that people seemed more attracted to you? Could consciously not cumming gran…
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture
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1:11:05Send us a text Episode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture ____________________________________________________ What stops many men moving forward with modern dating… is an exhaustion and resentment with the culture at large. Hearing so many horror stories, and with hateful attitudes in the air around them, many men are in retreat, pre…
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women?
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59:23Send us a text Episode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women? ____________________________________________________ Neither Zan nor Jordan are strangers to men seeking advice on a very particular predicament: “I’d like to settle down with one beauty, but I feel like I haven’t had all the experiences I wanted to w…
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 17 — How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep
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1:08:52Send us a text Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 17 – How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep? ____________________________________________________ Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells when it comes to interacting with women you're attracted to? Do you know exactly what you want to say, but hold back because you're not sure "how it'll …
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 16 — Beautiful Women are Secretly Lonely
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56:11Send us a text Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 16 – Beautiful Women are Secretly Lonely ____________________________________________________ If you’re reading this, then like Zan and Jordan, you’re probably a seeker of the finest treasures in life–of freedom, truth, love, connection and grace. And if you’re reading this, then I imagine that …
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 15 – How Quickly To Make Things Intimate With A Woman?
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The Zan and Jordan Show – Episode 14 – Stop Being So Serious: How to Let Go and Enjoy the Dance with Women
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The Zan and Jordan Show – Episode 13 – Create Your Myth And Stand Apart With Women
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 12 – Your Mental State: Hidden Communication with Women
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 11 – How to Find Real, Masculine Power in How You Show Up with Women
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1:20:36Send us a text Episode 11 – How to Find Real, Masculine Power in How You Show Up with Women ____________________________________________________ In today’s episode, Zan unpacks a powerful distinction between two energies of masculinity: the ‘upper energy’ we’re all used to—conversation, empathy, charm—and the ‘lower energy’ that creates a truly tra…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 10 – Mystique and Vulnerability
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 9 – Hunger as a Force of Attraction
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57:37Send us a text Episode 9 – Hunger as a Force of Attraction ____________________________________________________ In the movie Scarface, Al Pacino’s character famously lays out a ‘blueprint for getting women’: first you get the money, then you get the power, and then you get the woman. It’s a paradigm that many men buy into. And to a degree, it’s tru…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 8 - Perspective and Choosing Curiosity
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1:00:46Send us a text Episode 8 – Perspective and Choosing Curiosity ____________________________________________________ Any true seeker—and if you're reading this, then you probably are one—will go through life in a series of phases. Jordan is currently embarking on a new chapter himself. In today’s episode, he shares how he actually lost sight of the o…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 7 - Virility, Vitality & Play over Depth
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1:01:29Send us a text Episode 7 – Virility, Vitality & Play over Depth ____________________________________________________ Many men come to Ars Amorata to overcome a lingering feeling of deficiency in their life force. They want to meet women, but when they go out, they hit a wall. Or, they engage with a woman, but as things get physical, they somehow lo…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 6 - Zan’s Longevity Protocols
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41:33Send us a text Episode 6 - Zan’s Longevity Protocols ____________________________________________________ Many of you have been asking… so here it is: Today, Jordan helps us discover the pearl of great price: exactly what Zan does to keep himself youthful, vibrant and energized–not just in body, but in spirit! It is well-known that Zan keeps himsel…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 5 - Growing Amidst the Challenging Parts of Relationship
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 4 - Relationships and the ‘Evolution of Consciousness’
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1:03:20Send us a text Episode 4 - Relationships and the ‘Evolution of Consciousness’ _____________________________________________ A viewer asked for our thoughts on relationships and the ‘evolution of consciousness’. I have never heard Zan mention these words, so I was curious to get his take. On my side of things, an ‘evolutionary relationship’ – a way …
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 3 - Building Empathy for Women (When I’ve Been Hurt in the Past)
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 2 - Seeing Through the Eyes of Motivation
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1:13:04Send us a text Abundance in the Land of Women Episode 2 - Seeing Through the Eyes of Motivation (Or, how to always know what your lover will do next) ____________________________________________________ Many of our listeners have asked over the years, how do I see another person more deeply? How can I understand how a particular dating or social dy…
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The Zan and Jordan Show - Episode 1 - ‘Friend Zone Pro’ & The Decision to Leave
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 50
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24:32Send us a text A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the ch…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 49
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 48
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27:00Send us a text A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Nine of the discussion on the c…
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 47
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22:30Send us a text A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe! In this episode: Part Eight of the discussion on the …
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 46
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 45
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 44
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 43
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 42
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 41
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 40
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 39
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 38
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 37
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 36
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 35
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In Search of the Alabaster Girl - Episode 34
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