Best Paraphilia Podcasts (2025)

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Understanding Kinks, Paraphilias, and Kink-Aware Therapy | Holding Space Podcast with Dr. Christopher Barker 21:25

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28d ago21:25

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker, a clinical psychologist in New Jersey, explores the world of kink-aware therapy and the psychological perspectives on kinks, fetishes, and paraphilias. He breaks down what defines a sexual interest as a disorder versus when it remains a consensual lifestyle choice, explaining the importance …

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It’s Never Too Late to Heal from Trauma - Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker 7:54

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In this powerful episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker explores the lifelong impact of trauma and how it shapes our mental health, relationships, and sense of self. Drawing from his clinical experience and supervision discussions, Dr. Barker emphasizes that it’s never too late to heal — whether you’re 20 or 80. He unpacks how unresolved …

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Happy Hour • Glitter & Glow Jobs 37:53

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Send us a text Katie and Eve host this week’s happy hour with plenty of laughs, a few wild stories, and just the right amount of glitter. Between glow paint, karaoke, and a surprise story that no one saw coming, this episode shines for all the right reasons. Support the showBy Kinks and Cocktails

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What Is “Normal”? Understanding Mental Health and the Bell Curve with Dr. Christopher Barker 11:27

6d ago11:27

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In this insightful episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker, a licensed clinical psychologist in New Jersey, explores one of the most common and misunderstood questions in mental health: “What is normal?” Dr. Barker dives into how psychologists define “normal” not as a judgment of worth, but as a statistical and contextual concept — somethi…

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After Hours • Red Flags 1:21:50

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Send us a text This week on Kinks and Cocktails, we’re joined by our guest host Joshua for a hilariously honest chat about first date fails and the red flags you just can’t ignore. From awkward encounters to instant dealbreakers, we’re spilling all the tea—and maybe a few cocktails. Tune in and laugh (or cringe) along with us! Support the show…

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Understanding Autism Spectrum Disorders: Mental Health, Genetics, and the Meaning of “Normal” | Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker 11:45

13d ago11:45

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker explores the complexities of autism spectrum disorders through the lens of psychology, genetics, and society. He discusses the difference between correlation and causation, highlighting the genetic factors—such as SHANK2 and FMR1 mutations—and environmental influences like prenatal conditions…

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Happy Hour • Fall Listener Stories 46:05

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By Kinks and Cocktails

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Part 2: Helping Couples Heal with Carol Juergensen Sheets 21:55

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By Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW

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Part 1: Helping Couples Heal with Carol Juergensen Sheets 40:03

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By Robert Weiss, PhD, MSW

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From Grad School to the Therapy Room: Real Talk with Haley & Chloe - Therapy On Demand 42:35

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By Dr. Christopher Barker

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Happy Hour • Bedroom Food Fails 57:28

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Send us a text From corn dogs to pickles, food in the bedroom doesn’t always go as planned—and this week, we’re sharing the funniest and messiest food fails from our listeners (and ourselves). Whipped cream disasters, chocolate chaos, and a few stories you’ll never look at the snack aisle the same way again. Got a juicy story you want us to read on…

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Suicide Prevention: Warning Signs, How to Help, & Safety Planning | Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker 11:14

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Trigger warning: this episode discusses suicide, self-harm, and mental health struggles.** In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker (clinical psychologist, NJ) discusses Suicide Prevention Month, how to recognize warning signs of suicide, and practical steps anyone can take to help a person at risk. Dr. Barker explains common indica…

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Anxiety vs OCD: Intrusive Thoughts, ACT & EMDR Explained — with “Therapy with Josh” 26:46

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In this episode of Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker, Dr. Barker sits down with Josh (“Therapy with Josh”), an accredited CBT therapist from Essex, UK, trained in EMDR and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT). Together they unpack the real differences between anxiety and OCD, why OCD isn’t just “an anxiety disorder,” and how emotions like …

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Part 2: Sexuality After 50 with Dr. Kennedy 54:39

2M ago54:39

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Dr. Jenn Kennedy and Dr. Rob continue their conversation about finding satisfaction and intimacy after 50. They consider what it means to truly become a better person and partner, to evolve beyond betrayal toward empathy and intimacy. We often think that intimacy equals sex, but Dr. Kennedy challenges that notion and defines what a satisfied, commi…

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Part 1: Sexuality After 50 with Dr. Kennedy 36:59

2M ago36:59

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Dr. Jenn Kennedy joins Dr. Rob to explore a rarely discussed topic – sexuality for the more seasoned. Dr. Kennedy tackles the two main ‘D’s’ of sexuality that bring couples into therapy after 50, considers what ‘better’ sex really looks like, and shares some of the main talking points that should be discussed in any conversation about sexuality as …

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False Memories, Belief Systems & The Mandela Effect Explained | Dr. Barker 11:42

2M ago11:42

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In this episode of Holding Space with Dr. Barker, we dive into the fascinating world of the Mandela Effect — why so many people remember events, quotes, and facts incorrectly. From Darth Vader’s famous line to “Mirror, mirror on the wall,” we explore how false memories spread, why they stick, and what they reveal about the way our minds and belief …

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Diagnosis, Labels, and Mental Health: What They Really Mean | Holding Space with Dr. Barker 14:07

2M ago14:07

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In Episode 23 of Holding Space with Dr. Barker, Dr. Christopher Barker dives into the complicated world of mental health diagnosis. From bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder to ADHD and depression, he explains why symptoms can overlap and lead to misdiagnosis, and why diagnoses are often misunderstood. Dr. Barker shares over 20 year…

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School Shootings, Trauma, and the Ripple Effect on Mental Health 16:45

2M ago16:45

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In this special edition of Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker, we explore the devastating reality of the Minnesota school shooting and its far-reaching psychological consequences. Dr. Barker introduces the concept of the ricochet effect of trauma — the ripple impact of a traumatic event that extends beyond those directly affected, spreading …

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Dissociation & Anxiety: What It Really Means (And Why It Happens) 16:52

2M ago16:52

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker is joined by licensed associate counselor Keilani Noble to explore dissociation—what it is, how it connects to anxiety and depression, and why it’s often misunderstood. They share real-life experiences of dissociation, from moments of sensory overload to coping with overwhelming emotions, and…

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Confirmation Bias Explained: Stop Letting Negative Thinking Control You 9:18

2M ago9:18

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker, a clinical psychologist with over 25 years of experience, breaks down confirmation bias—how we tend to focus only on evidence that supports our existing beliefs while ignoring anything that challenges them. Dr. Barker uses a visual "doorway" analogy to explain how negative thinking can reinf…

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Happy Hour • Spring Break 18:34

2M ago18:34

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Send us a text Posting a bit late but thank you for all of your Spring Break stories! Send them in to KinksAndCocktails.com! Support the showBy Kinks and Cocktails

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Self-Harm vs Suicidal Behavior in BPD: Understanding the Difference | Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker 13:24

3M ago13:24

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In this deeply compassionate episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker returns to expand on the criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)—focusing on one of the most misunderstood and sensitive topics: recurrent suicidal behavior and self-harm. Dr. Barker draws a clear and vital distinction between suicidal intent and self-mutilatio…

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Bipolar II vs Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): What’s the Difference? | Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker 15:52

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker answers a listener’s question that many people wonder: What’s the difference between Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? While the two are often confused—especially Bipolar II and BPD—they are distinct diagnoses with different origins, symptoms, and treatments. Dr. Bar…

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Part 1: The Benefits of Therapeutic Separation with Lindsey Stanley and Dr. Stevie Hall 23:25

3M ago23:25

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Dr. Rob and authors Lindsey Stanley and Dr. Stevie Hall define and discuss therapeutic separation, an intentional process crafted to help bring about safety, stability, and individual and relational insight. They consider the different types of therapeutic separation, the benefits of each approach, and how separation can be the greatest gift that a…

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Part 2: The Benefits of Therapeutic Separation with Lindsey Stanley and Dr. Stevie Hall 24:39

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Dr. Rob and authors Lindsey Stanley and Dr. Stevie Hall continue their conversation about therapeutic separation, focusing on the impact that separation can have on children at different ages and stages. They explore ways to prove safety and stability for children throughout the process, navigating family events during separation, and why couples t…

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Emotionally Immature Partners: Signs, Impact & Growth | Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker 11:42

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker explores the complex world of emotionally immature partners—what emotional immaturity looks like in relationships, how it impacts connection, and what you can do about it. Building on past discussions of emotionally immature parents and psychological development, Dr. Barker breaks down the ke…

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Nun Fetishism • Episode 27 • Jake and Katie do nuns! 1:43:25

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Send us a text Why are some people turned on by nuns? We’re lighting a candle to that question — and probably going to hell for the answers. Join Jake and Katie as they sin their way through nun fetishism, from sacred roleplay to why repression is so damn sexy. It's part comedy, part confession booth, and 100% kink-curious chaos. You’ll laugh, you’…

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Break the Cycle: Communicate Smarter with Transactional Analysis 11:19

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Welcome to Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker. In this episode, Dr. Barker dives deep into a classic and still-relevant psychological concept: Transactional Analysis—and why understanding it might be the key to healthier, more productive relationships. With over 25 years of experience as a psychologist, Dr. Barker unpacks how we subconscious…

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The Cassandra Dilemma: Why Knowing Isn’t Enough (Even for Therapists) 10:43

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Welcome back to Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker. In this powerful and introspective episode, Dr. Barker explores a unique psychological concept he calls “The Cassandra Dilemma.” Drawing from over 20 years of clinical experience, Dr. Barker shares what he believes is the hardest part of being a therapist—not burnout or long hours—but watch…

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Part 2: Restructuring Divorce With Discernment Counseling with Arlene Rosen 37:37

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Dr. Rob and Marriage and Family Therapist and CSAT Arlene Rosen continue their discussion about discernment counseling. They consider how to determine what each person needs throughout the collaborative divorce process, how to protect children and pets throughout the journey, and realistic timelines when addiction is a factor in a relationship. Arl…

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Part 1: Restructuring Divorce With Discernment Counseling with Arlene Rosen 26:02

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Dr. Rob and Marriage and Family Therapist and CSAT Arlene Rosen explore the options available to couples who are on the fence about staying together or separating. They discuss discernment counseling, litigation, and collaborative divorce; and consider the benefits and difficulties associated with each route. Arlene is an advocate of restructuring …

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Artificial Inteligence & Therapy 11:35

4M ago11:35

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In this powerful and thought-provoking episode of Holding Space with Dr. Barker, Dr. Christopher Barker explores the growing use of artificial intelligence in therapeutic settings—and the serious ethical, emotional, and psychological implications that come with it. Trigger warning: this episode discusses suicide, reality distortion, and emotional m…

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Conflicting Attachment Styles & How to Communicate Through Them 25:03

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In this insightful episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker welcomes therapist and former student Irene Sullivan to explore how conflicting attachment styles—especially anxious and avoidant patterns—can disrupt connection in relationships. Together, they discuss the emotional dance between co-regulators and self-regulators, the power of cle…

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Roots of Attachment Style Theory 14:29

4M ago14:29

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Welcome back to Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker! In this episode, Dr. Barker deepens our exploration of attachment styles—those foundational behavioral patterns that shape the way we connect, love, and relate to others. Building on the previous discussion, he revisits the four classic attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disor…

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Understanding Attachment Styles: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant & Disorganized | Holding Space with Dr. Barker 11:56

4M ago11:56

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In this insightful episode of Holding Space with Dr. Barker, clinical psychologist Dr. Christopher Barker explores the psychology of attachment styles—a concept rooted in developmental and relationship psychology that's gained significant attention in recent years. Drawing on foundational research by Mary Ainsworth and Bowlby’s attachment theory, D…

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Understanding Psychopathy, Sociopathy, and Functional Psychopaths | Holding Space Podcast 11:36

5M ago11:36

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Welcome back to Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker. In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Barker explores the traits of psychopathy, sociopathy, and antisocial personality disorder—shedding light on what these terms really mean, how they manifest in everyday life, and the concept of the "functional psychopath." From empathy deficits to the …

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Are We All on a Spectrum? Understanding Autism, Bipolar, and Beyond | Holding Space Podcast 13:29

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Welcome back to Holding Space with Dr. Christopher Barker. In this episode, Dr. Barker explores the idea that many mental health and behavioral conditions exist on spectrums—from autism and bipolar disorder to personality traits and relationship dynamics. He breaks down the characteristics of autism spectrum behaviors, bipolar type 1 and 2, and eve…

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Stress vs. Anxiety: Knowing the Difference & Calming the Storm 11:21

5M ago11:21

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker is joined by intern Julia Bellotti for an honest conversation about the differences between stress, anxiety, and panic attacks. Julia shares a personal story of navigating a panic attack while driving, and together, they discuss simple, effective techniques for managing overwhelming feelings—…

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From White Rats to Real Life: Understanding Phobias and How to Unlearn Fear 14:46

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In this eye-opening episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker explores the psychology of phobias—from how irrational fears are formed to how they can be effectively treated. With examples ranging from a child’s fear of John Wilkes Booth to the classic "Little Albert" experiment, Dr. Barker breaks down the behavioral roots of fear using real-…

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Part 2: The Power of a Witness with Dr. Johanna O’Flaherty 22:36

6M ago22:36

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Dr. Rob and Dr. Johanna O’Flaherty consider the role of a therapist as a witness – one that supports with empathy and compassion. They share the questions to ask a therapist before the first session, and how to identify the right trauma therapist that will lead you to recovery and healing. Healing is meant to happen in communities, and together Dr.…

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Part 1: The Power of a Witness with Dr. Johanna O’Flaherty 40:39

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Dr. Rob and Dr. Johanna O’Flaherty explore witnesses – the people who have seen your experiences and are ready to help you move forward. When you begin questioning whether your experience was real, why you acted out the way you did, or what really happened, a witness can offer direction and healing as you move forward, without the demonization and …

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Embracing the Feeling: Mindfulness, Values & Acceptance 15:53

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker explores why trying to eliminate uncomfortable emotions like anxiety or depression may do more harm than good. Drawing on the principles of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), mindfulness, and Zen philosophy, he invites listeners to reframe their relationship with feelings by embracing t…

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Epigenetic's, Trauma, and Learning to Accept Yourself 18:17

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Dr. Christopher Barker explores how trauma can be biologically passed through generations — and how embracing imperfection is key to healing. From stress hormones to attachment styles, this episode of Holding Space dives into how we’re shaped by the past, but not defined by it. Healing begins with understanding, acceptance, and honest conversation.…

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Part 2: Betrayal Happens to Men Too with Adam Nisenson 25:52

6M ago25:52

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Adam Nisenson and Dr. Rob continue their conversation about betrayed men. They share the worst advice a betrayed man can hear, how to determine if reconciliation is the right next step, and the reality that being cheated on does not justify cheating. Adam shares resources, including The ManKind Project, that have helped him through his own healing …

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Trauma-Induced Narcissism: The Mask, The Mirror, and the Wound 20:11

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In this deeply insightful episode of Holding Space, Dr. Christopher Barker explores the often-misunderstood connection between trauma and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). Dr. Barker unpacks how narcissism can develop as a defense mechanism when trauma fractures a person’s sense of identity — leading to a constructed image they will do anyth…

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Part 1: Betrayal Happens to Men Too with Adam Nisenson 32:07

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Adam Nisenson, also known as The Betrayal Shrink, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. Together with Dr. Rob he highlights the need for betrayed men to have support and healing just as much as women do. He shares his own healing journey, the support that he offers men who have been betrayed, and why he be…

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Tailoring Trauma Healing: The Power of Integrative Therapy 16:39

6M ago16:39

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Barker explores the versatile world of integrative therapy for trauma, emphasizing that “one size doesn’t fit all.” Drawing on his psychodynamic roots in object relations, he explains how early caregiver bonds shape later relationships and why a broad therapeutic toolkit—CBT, DBT, EMDR, mindfulness, and somatic…

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Insights Into Treatment from Seeking Integrity Clinical Director Erin Snow 36:25

6M ago36:25

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Erin Snow is the Clinical Director at Seeking Integrity, CSAT, and a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She and Dr. Rob discuss a week-by-week overview of residential treatment, the key points of trauma work and treatment, and the hope that she regularly sees as addicts encounter consequences, confront early trauma, and what it really takes to…

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Happy Hour • Mardi Gras 20:58

7M ago20:58

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Send us a text Join Danny and Katie as they read all of your wild Mardi Gras stories! To send in your own stories, go to KinksandCocktails.com Support the showBy Kinks and Cocktails

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Navigating Complex Trauma: Understanding Dissociation, PTSD, and the Journey to Healing 22:10

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In this episode of Holding Space, Dr. Barker explores the multifaceted nature of trauma, with a focus on complex trauma that often begins in childhood. He explains how repeated exposure to traumatic experiences—such as abuse, neglect, domestic violence, and other interpersonal stressors—can lead to long-term psychological effects, including severe …