Best Intentionally Selfish Podcasts (2025)

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Why Intimacy Is the Missing Ingredient in Sustainable Innovation with Dr. Naketa Ren Thigpen 19:35

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The Cost of Ambition in the Age of Innovation with Dr. Naketa Ren Thigpen Most systems focus on output, not connection. On this episode of Balance Boldly, we explore why innovation that ignores intimacy comes at a high cost. “We’ve made it normal to disconnect from ourselves just to stay relevant,” but that disconnection costs far more than it retu…

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Is Black Friday a Scam? Money Mistakes + Lessons We've Learned 31:54

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In this episode, we got real about the money mistakes we’ve made over the years and the lessons we've learned. Also, just a curious question but is Black Friday sale a scam? We're genuinely curious so let us know in the comments. While you're at it, please share this episode with a friend or two ;)

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Planting Seeds of Intention 13:25

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In this episode of the "Gardening: A Metaphor of Life" segment, titled **Planting Seeds of Intention**, we delve into the transformative power of setting intentions, likening it to the art of planting seeds in a garden. Join us as we discuss how defining clear intentions can guide personal growth and cultivate meaningful changes in our lives. We'll…

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The Reality of Our First Two Years of Marriage 41:17

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So… what has happened in the first two years of our marriage? In this special wedding anniversary episode, we spoke about what the past two years have looked like and the moments that surprised us both. Here's what you can expect: some lessons learned and our anticipation for the next years to come. Whether you’re married, engaged, or just curious …

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Gardening: A Metaphor of Life 8:44

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This inspiring episode will kickoff exploring the beautiful metaphor of gardening as it relates to our lives. Join us as we dissect how nurturing a garden parallels our personal journeys. Just as we plant seeds with intention, we must also cultivate our dreams and aspirations with care, patience, and dedication. We discuss the importance of setting…

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The Cost of Ambition in the Age of Innovation with Dr. Naketa Ren Thigpen 39:29

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Innovation is leading the way but intimacy remains essential. On this episode of Balance Boldly, host Dr. Naketa Ren Thigpen explores the true cost of ambition in today’s fast-changing world. As Dr. Thigpen says, “The world rewards motion. But the overachievers I work with are tired of spinning.” This conversation explains why ambition that costs y…

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Finding Joy In Little Things & Moments 26:47

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A man turned a waste container into a home with pride! This reminded us how easy it is to overlook life's simplest blessings. In this episode, we spoke about gratitude and contentment. Enjoy the episode and share with a friend or two ;)

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The Selfish Spectrum: Me, Myself, and I 14:57

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In this thought-provoking episode of *A Dose of Nicki*, we dive deep into the complexities of selfishness and its impact on relationships. Join us as we explore two examples of selfish behavior identified in others, prompting a crucial question: are people attracting these individuals because they reflect traits they might not fully recognize in th…

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Is Self Love Selfish? Let's Talk Bout It 27:52

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We hear it everywhere — “love yourself first.” But where’s the line between self-love and selfishness? In this episode, we unpack what self-love really means in relationships, friendships, and everyday life. Is putting yourself first always the right thing to do, or can it sometimes go too far? From setting boundaries to choosing peace over people-…

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Q&A Edition: Checking Partner's Phone, Being Friends With Exes + Other Hot Takes 36:50

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In our first Q&A edition, we’re tackling some relationship/dating questions — from checking your partner’s phone to staying friends with an ex. Enjoyed this episode? Share with someone else ;)

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Inside the Woman Within Retreat: What Really Happens When Women Come Home to Themselves 46:17

29d ago46:17

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In this episode, we’re taking you behind the scenes of our 2025 Woman Within Retreat - the moments, memories, and magic that made it truly unforgettable. Chloe & Steph of The Selfish Podcast join forces with Janika Galloway of Just You. We share our first impressions walking into the retreat space, the daily rhythms that grounded us, and the transf…

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Is It Possible To Live At Peace With Everyone? 30:22

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Peace sounds like a beautiful goal — but how realistic is it, given that we live in a world with such diverse people? Can we truly live at peace with everyone, or is that an aspiration we can never achieve? In this episode, we speak about the reality of seeking to live a peaceful life and why this may be difficult. If you enjoyed this episode, do u…

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Do We End Up Marrying Our Ideal "Types"? 36:05

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We all have an idea of who our “type” is — tall, dark, handsome, soft-spoken, funny or spontaneous. But when it comes to real life, do we actually end up with that person? In this episode, we get honest about the gap between the ideal and the real — unpacking what men and women truly look for, why “type” isn’t everything, and how values and mindset…

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Are You Generous — or Just an Overgiver Without Boundaries? 36:27

2M ago36:27

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We all love to give — our time, our energy, our hearts. But what happens when your generosity starts to drain you instead of filling you up? In this episode, we talk about the fine line between being kind and losing yourself in the process. We explore what healthy generosity looks like, how to spot the signs of overgiving, and why setting boundarie…

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I’m Christian But Don’t Go To Church. 30:45

2M ago30:45

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I’m Christian but don’t go to church.” If you’ve ever said this, this episode is for you. We spoke about why church matters and what to look for when choosing the right church to be part of. Enjoyed this episode? Be a blessing to someone else and share! We are committed to improving our podcast as we grow. If you love what we do, your feedback is i…

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Should Married Couples Take Advice from Singles? 25:24

2M ago25:24

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Everyone seems to have an opinion on love, relationships, and marriage—but should single people have a say in what happens inside a marriage? In this episode, we dive into the age-old debate: are single friends offering fresh perspective or speaking from inexperience? And on the flip side, do married couples sometimes dismiss valuable wisdom simply…

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Money You Don't Spend, You Don't Own. Do We Agree? 28:56

3M ago28:56

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Firstly, congratulations to Temi Otedola and Tosin Ajibade aka Mr Eazi on their wedding ceremonies. During one of the ceremonies, Nigerian billionaire Femi Otedola made a bold statement that caught everyone's attention including ours: “Money you don’t spend, you don’t own.” It got us thinking—how true is that? In this episode, Ololade and I dive in…

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Who’s the Better Friend—Men or Women? 32:36

3M ago32:36

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Are men really better at keeping friendships simple, or do women take the crown with their ride-or-die loyalty? In this episode, we had a playful debate about how men and women handle friendships differently. We shared our experiences on building friendships as adults and ended with some fun and spicy questions about friendships. We hope you enjoy …

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When Desperation Becomes a Trap! 28:26

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In this episode, we dive into the story of a woman whose desperation to get married led her down a dangerous path filled with compromises, poor choices, and painful consequences. Using the movie as a springboard, we explore how wanting something too much—especially from a place of fear or pressure—can cloud judgment and push people into situations …

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Life Is Not Fair — Or Is It? How Much Control Do We Really Have? 25:21

3M ago25:21

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Life doesn’t always go the way we plan — even when we do everything “right.” Sometimes, the outcome isn’t in our hands because other people’s choices play a part. In this episode, we share some of our own experiences that reminded us certain things are simply beyond us, the importance of watching and praying because there’s more happening than what…

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Can Relationships Exist Without Conflicts? 29:57

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Is it possible for someone to live a life free of conflicts? As long as there are people involved, there will be conflicting situations because people are different! As it's important to learn how to handle conflicts, we shared some thoughts on this subject. Loved this episode? Don't forget to follow, leave a comment, and share with someone else ;)…

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I Feel Far Away From God. Help Me! 29:29

4M ago29:29

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In this episode, we spoke about those seasons when God felt far away or His presence felt silent. It’s hard to believe, but the truth of the matter is that nothing can put enough distance between us and God’s love. He’s still right there, arms wide open and ready to draw us close again. So, listen in, be encouraged, and share it with someone else w…

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Like Father, Like Son - How Our Childhood Shapes Our Adulthood 29:24

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On today’s episode, we took a heartfelt trip down memory lane, revisiting the unique moments that defined our childhoods and shaped who we are today. We opened up about the ways our early experiences continue to influence our values, choices, and relationships as adults. We also reflected on the profound impact of parenting and the vital role paren…

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The High Cost of Greatness. Is Greatness for Everyone? 21:01

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What does it really mean to be great — and can everyone achieve it? In this episode, we dig deep into the true cost of greatness, exploring what drives our desire for recognition and what sacrifices greatness demands. Is greatness worth it? Join us for a thought-provoking conversation about motivation, ambition, and redefining what it means to live…

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Women Need Love, Men Need Respect. Let's Talk About It 19:30

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In this episode, we unpack the timeless idea that women need love and men need respect. What does this mean? Ololade represented the women and shared from her perspective, what love looks like for them, and Anu spoke on behalf of the men. Did we each represent our genders? You let us know! Enjoyed the episode? Subscribe, and share with someone else…

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Check in with Chloe & Steph 17:45

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Hello beautiful listeners! We have been working away at Season 3 and can't wait to share this with you come September. In the meantime we wanted to say hi and give you a bit of an update on what we've been working on. We riff on: our upcoming retreat in August Val's first day of school School holidays Birthday season in Steph's household Finishing …

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Stop Doing This! Common Bad Habits We Must Leave Behind 24:08

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We’re not judging, but some bad habits need to be called out. In this episode, we discuss some of the behaviours that make us (a tad) less awesome. What would you add to the list? Let us know in the comments 😊 Enjoyed this episode? Don’t forget to share!

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Start, Stop, Continue: Our Mid-Year Reflection & Reset 16:57

5M ago16:57

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Can you believe that we’re halfway through the year? In this episode, we pause to reflect on what we’ve started, what we’ve stopped, and what we’re continuing as we head into the second half of 2025. You're welcome to do the same with our start, stop, continue retrospective format. Enjoyed this episode? Be cool and share with someone else 😉…

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When Life Slows Down: Dealing With Delays And Waiting Seasons 27:32

5M ago27:32

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What do you do when life feels like it’s on pause? In this episode, we open up about our own waiting seasons—our struggles, learnings, and how we’ve seen God at work even in the delays. If you're in a slow season right now, you're not alone. Let's toast to the growth happening behind the scenes. This too, shall pass! Enjoyed this episode? Don't for…

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Who Should Love More In A Relationship? The Man Or The Woman? 34:35

5M ago34:35

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Should a man love his woman more? What does loving more even mean? In this episode, Anu and Ololade sat and discussed whether there's such a thing as loving more in a relationship. Best believe, it was lots of fun to record and you won't waste your time listening because you'll probably learn a thing or two. Loved this episode? Don't forget to give…

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Community, The Life Hack for Adulting 19:51

6M ago19:51

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Can you imagine what life would be like without people to share it with? We were made for relationships, and in this episode, Anu and I spoke about how having a community has made life easier for us. May you have the right people by your side when life gets tough. May you also be the right person for someone too. Enjoy the episode and share ;)…

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Starting After Failing Is Hard, Let's Be Honest. 33:51

6M ago33:51

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We’ve been there before — initially excited to start something new, but held back by the memory of things that didn’t work out for us. In this episode, we talk about the fear of starting after failure, how it’s shown up in our lives, and what helps us push through. If you’ve ever hesitated to try again, this one’s for you. Enjoyed this episode? Hit…

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Guess Who’s Back? (Spoiler: It’s Us) 21:58

6M ago21:58

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After almost two years away from the mic, Ololade is back — with a co-host this time! In this episode, we share where we’ve been, what’s changed, and why Let’s Toast to Life is getting a fresh start. Come catch up and hear what to expect from this new season of honest, heart-centered conversations. Enjoyed this episode? Hit the follow button and sh…

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105 : "I quit!" Steph’s leap, Soul Truths & The Woman Within Retreat 31:43

6M ago31:43

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In this heart-opening episode, Chloe and Steph share a very personal life update - from big transitions and soul-aligned choices to sacred plans for The Woman Within retreat in Bali. Steph reveals the emotional and spiritual journey behind leaving her high-powered corporate role after 18 years to follow a deeper calling. The conversation moves thro…

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104: Exploring Self & Space: Joy, Healing, and the Energy Around Us 28:43

6M ago28:43

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In this expansive episode of The Selfish Podcast, Chloe and Steph explore the energetic intersections between our inner world and outer environment. From the transformative magic of astrocartography to the grounding wisdom of Feng Shui, they dive into how where we are can deeply influence how we feel. This one’s a journey through joy, healing, and …

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103: Soul Work & the Power of Akashic Healing with Tara Hegerty 56:13

7M ago56:13

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We sit down with energy healer and intuitive guide Tara Hegerty, who shares her powerful personal journey from a high-pressure events career through trauma, fertility challenges, and into a deep spiritual awakening. Tara opens up about her journey and how she stumbled upon a book that changed everything—How to Read the Akashic Records. She explains…

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Beyond the Exit: What Alignment Looks Like in Love, Leadership, and Legacy 13:55

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In this riveting finale of the Balance Boldly Podcast's Alignment Exit Strategy series, Naketa Ren Thigpen guides listeners through a transformational journey of relationship realignment, unlocking paths to personal and professional growth. Discover how shedding unproductive connections creates space for vibrant, supportive relationships that ampli…

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102 Float tank: depriving our senses, C&S catch up and traditions & ritual 40:56

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In this episode of the Selfish Podcast, Steph talks about her experiences in a float tank ... seriously guys you need to get on to this! Before they dive into this, the girls catch up. Steph discusses her recent family holiday and the emotional significance of celebrating her late son Arthur's birthday, and the rituals she engaged in to honour his …

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Why Misaligned Relationships Block Your Next Level 18:05

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Continuing the Alignment Exit Series, host Naketa Ren Thigpen explores the impact of loyalty, fear, and obligation on personal growth. This Balance Boldly Podcast episode delves into how attachment styles and non-serving relationships hinder progress. Highlighting the hidden costs of clinging to outdated connections, Naketa emphasizes the value of …

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The Hidden Cost of Stress on Relationships 18:16

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In this episode of the Balance Boldly Podcast, we unlock part three of the Alignment Exit Series with Naketa Ren Thigpen, uncovering how stress silently erodes personal and professional connections. Targeting ambitious women in business and a few brave men, Naketa highlights how unexpressed emotions and unresolved conflicts generate stress, leading…

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101 Intentionally letting go & full moon eclipse energy 41:18

9M ago41:18

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In this episode of The Selfish Podcast, Chloe and Steph reflect on their past intentions and introduce a new concept called the 'anti-resolution.' This approach focuses on letting go of habits and practices that drain energy rather than adding more to their lives. Before diving into this, they delve into the astrological significance of the current…

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Navigating Unsupportive Partnerships 13:22

9M ago13:22

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In this empowering episode of the Balance Boldly Podcast, Naketa Ren Thigpen addresses the complexities of navigating unsupportive partnerships during pivotal life or career transitions. As part of The Alignment Exit Series, she builds on earlier episodes by exploring the crucial concept of creating “air”—space for growth—through auditing, investig…

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The Silent Weight of Misaligned Relationships at Home and Work 13:39

9M ago13:39

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In this impactful episode of the Balanced Boldly Podcast, Naketa Ren Thigpen explores how misaligned relationships can drain your energy, disrupt your physical and spiritual well-being, and hinder your success. Have you ever felt emotionally drained or physically off after an interaction? It’s not just in your head—these toxic relationships can thr…