Dating after abuse hits different…
Your nervous system wants to overgive, over-explain, and emotionally carry men who haven’t earned a single inch of access.
This episode exposes the real reason you slip into wife energy with men you barely know and shows you how to shift into the Black Cat identity: grounded, discerning, unfazed, and impossible to manipulate.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn how to date from power instead of fear, how to stop treating casual connections like commitments, and how to pace your heart so only emotionally regulated, self-led men get through the door. This is where you stop auditioning and start observing. This is where emotional labour ends and sovereignty begins.

You next move to date like the woman who never abandons herself, join Black Cat Academy where discernment becomes instinct and your standards become the filtration system that protects your peace.

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