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Physical Attraction and Catholic Dating: Navigating Sparks and Substance
In this episode of 'The Catholic Couch,' Amber Pilkington tackles the complex topic of physical attraction in Catholic dating. She explores whether initial sparks are necessary for a successful, holy marriage and discusses the possibility of attraction growing over time. Amber delves into what the Church and psychology say about physical attraction and how it relates to a lasting, faithful relationship. Using historical context, research studies, and theological insights, she highlights the importance of balancing freedom and structure in relationships. Additionally, Amber provides practical tips for couples to deepen their attraction and discusses the role biological and mental health factors play in romantic desire. The episode offers a balanced view, emphasizing that while physical attraction is important, it should grow alongside emotional and spiritual connections. Viewers are encouraged to explore the beauty of character and virtues in their relationships, supported by free downloadable resources designed to foster intimacy and connection.
00:00 Introduction: The Elephant in Catholic Dating
01:11 The Role of Attraction in Catholic Dating
03:17 Historical Perspectives on Marriage
05:35 The Church's Stance on Free Consent in Marriage
09:09 Psychological Insights on Attraction
12:26 Practical Tips for Growing Attraction
23:13 The Impact of Hormones and Medication on Attraction
26:45 Balancing Physical and Spiritual Attraction
28:41 Conclusion: Embracing Attraction in Catholic Relationships

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This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional counseling, spiritual direction, or medical advice. While I’m a licensed Catholic therapist, I am not your therapist—and listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic relationship.If you’re experiencing significant distress, please reach out to a licensed mental health provider in your area, your parish priest, or a trusted support resource. If you're in crisis, contact 988 or your local emergency services.The Catholic Counseling Institute exists to support women with resources that integrate faith and psychological insight. We’re here to walk with you, but we are not a crisis line or emergency care provider.