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39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’

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In this episode, I explore what happens when we lose ourselves in the roles we play—doctor, parent, caregiver—and forget who we are beyond them.

We cover:

  • How tying self-worth to titles leads to burnout and identity loss
  • Societal pressure to equate value with productivity
  • My personal journey of redefining myself outside of being “just a doctor”

I share practical ways to reconnect with your true self:

  • Spend time alone
  • Revisit forgotten joys
  • Ask: Who am I beyond what I do?

You are enough—just as you are. It’s time to reclaim your authentic self.

Send me a message

📗 My Books: Enough as I Am (codependency recovery) Enough as I Grow (365 day guide journal). Affiliate disclosure: I am an affiliate parner with Amazon and therefore receive a commission at no cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📙My Favorite books:

Daring Greatly by Brenee Brown, It Begins With You by Jillian Turecki, Becoming Bulletproof by Evy Poumpouras, The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, Real Self-Care by Pooja Lakshmin.

Affiliate disclosure: I am an affiliate parner with Amazon and therefore receive a commission at no cost to you.

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🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

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Chapters

1. 39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’ (00:00:00)

2. Introduction: Losing Yourself in Roles (00:01:23)

3. Personal Story: Identity Beyond Doctor (00:04:00)

4. Why We Tie Worth to Roles (00:07:10)

5. The Risks of Role-Based Identity (00:11:22)

6. Signs You're Too Tied to Roles (00:15:18)

7. Reconnecting with Your True Self (00:19:17)

8. Closing Thoughts and Book Announcement (00:23:14)

66 episodes

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Manage episode 479629094 series 3578620
Content provided by Dr. Angela Downey. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Dr. Angela Downey or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

In this episode, I explore what happens when we lose ourselves in the roles we play—doctor, parent, caregiver—and forget who we are beyond them.

We cover:

  • How tying self-worth to titles leads to burnout and identity loss
  • Societal pressure to equate value with productivity
  • My personal journey of redefining myself outside of being “just a doctor”

I share practical ways to reconnect with your true self:

  • Spend time alone
  • Revisit forgotten joys
  • Ask: Who am I beyond what I do?

You are enough—just as you are. It’s time to reclaim your authentic self.

Send me a message

📗 My Books: Enough as I Am (codependency recovery) Enough as I Grow (365 day guide journal). Affiliate disclosure: I am an affiliate parner with Amazon and therefore receive a commission at no cost to you.

📘 Great Books on Codependency

📙My Favorite books:

Daring Greatly by Brenee Brown, It Begins With You by Jillian Turecki, Becoming Bulletproof by Evy Poumpouras, The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, Real Self-Care by Pooja Lakshmin.

Affiliate disclosure: I am an affiliate parner with Amazon and therefore receive a commission at no cost to you.

📰 Sign up for my Newsletter

🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney

Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement

  continue reading

Chapters

1. 39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’ (00:00:00)

2. Introduction: Losing Yourself in Roles (00:01:23)

3. Personal Story: Identity Beyond Doctor (00:04:00)

4. Why We Tie Worth to Roles (00:07:10)

5. The Risks of Role-Based Identity (00:11:22)

6. Signs You're Too Tied to Roles (00:15:18)

7. Reconnecting with Your True Self (00:19:17)

8. Closing Thoughts and Book Announcement (00:23:14)

66 episodes

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