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39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’
Manage episode 479629094 series 3578620
In this episode, I explore what happens when we lose ourselves in the roles we play—doctor, parent, caregiver—and forget who we are beyond them.
We cover:
- How tying self-worth to titles leads to burnout and identity loss
- Societal pressure to equate value with productivity
- My personal journey of redefining myself outside of being “just a doctor”
I share practical ways to reconnect with your true self:
- Spend time alone
- Revisit forgotten joys
- Ask: Who am I beyond what I do?
You are enough—just as you are. It’s time to reclaim your authentic self.
📗 My Books: Enough as I Am (codependency recovery) Enough as I Grow (365 day guide journal). Affiliate disclosure: I am an affiliate parner with Amazon and therefore receive a commission at no cost to you.
📙My Favorite books:
Daring Greatly by Brenee Brown, It Begins With You by Jillian Turecki, Becoming Bulletproof by Evy Poumpouras, The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, Real Self-Care by Pooja Lakshmin.
Affiliate disclosure: I am an affiliate parner with Amazon and therefore receive a commission at no cost to you.
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🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney
Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement
Chapters
1. 39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’ (00:00:00)
2. Introduction: Losing Yourself in Roles (00:01:23)
3. Personal Story: Identity Beyond Doctor (00:04:00)
4. Why We Tie Worth to Roles (00:07:10)
5. The Risks of Role-Based Identity (00:11:22)
6. Signs You're Too Tied to Roles (00:15:18)
7. Reconnecting with Your True Self (00:19:17)
8. Closing Thoughts and Book Announcement (00:23:14)
66 episodes
Manage episode 479629094 series 3578620
In this episode, I explore what happens when we lose ourselves in the roles we play—doctor, parent, caregiver—and forget who we are beyond them.
We cover:
- How tying self-worth to titles leads to burnout and identity loss
- Societal pressure to equate value with productivity
- My personal journey of redefining myself outside of being “just a doctor”
I share practical ways to reconnect with your true self:
- Spend time alone
- Revisit forgotten joys
- Ask: Who am I beyond what I do?
You are enough—just as you are. It’s time to reclaim your authentic self.
📗 My Books: Enough as I Am (codependency recovery) Enough as I Grow (365 day guide journal). Affiliate disclosure: I am an affiliate parner with Amazon and therefore receive a commission at no cost to you.
📙My Favorite books:
Daring Greatly by Brenee Brown, It Begins With You by Jillian Turecki, Becoming Bulletproof by Evy Poumpouras, The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, Real Self-Care by Pooja Lakshmin.
Affiliate disclosure: I am an affiliate parner with Amazon and therefore receive a commission at no cost to you.
📰 Sign up for my Newsletter
🛜 My Website DrAngelaDowney
Email: [email protected]
Social Media links: Here
🎵 Music: Touching The Air by Graceful Movement
Chapters
1. 39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’ (00:00:00)
2. Introduction: Losing Yourself in Roles (00:01:23)
3. Personal Story: Identity Beyond Doctor (00:04:00)
4. Why We Tie Worth to Roles (00:07:10)
5. The Risks of Role-Based Identity (00:11:22)
6. Signs You're Too Tied to Roles (00:15:18)
7. Reconnecting with Your True Self (00:19:17)
8. Closing Thoughts and Book Announcement (00:23:14)
66 episodes
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