Have you ever realized you might be the one standing in your own way? That unexpected gut punch hit me during my first Neuro-Linguistic Programming training, forever changing my approach to leadership and life.
I entered that training expecting professional development tricks but discovered something much more profound. The stress and reactivity defining my leadership wasn't coming from external circumstances—it was stemming from my own mindset. This revelation opened my eyes to the influence I already possessed but wasn't fully utilizing. Through NLP and HUNA principles, I discovered three transformative mindset tools that shifted me from feeling powerless to taking responsibility for my outcomes.
The first game-changing tool was understanding Cause and Effect—recognizing when I'm generating results versus generating excuses. This simple distinction revealed whether I was taking action (cause) or just reacting to circumstances (effect). The second tool, Values Clarity, helped me stop chasing someone else's version of success. By explicitly identifying what matters most to me, decisions became clearer, and I stopped wasting energy on misaligned pursuits. The third tool, Defining Success on my terms, freed me from the vague ladder-climbing that had consumed my career. When success has your definition, every move becomes more intentional.
These mindset shifts didn't just transform my leadership—they changed how I show up in all aspects of life. The beauty is that these same tools can be mirrored with your team to build a culture of accountability, values alignment, and shared motivation. What's your next clear move? Where are you living on the effect side with reasons, and where could you shift to the cause side with results? Which value needs more honor in your leadership decisions? Your answers reveal your path forward. For more resources to support your leadership clarity journey, visit www.debbiepetersonspeaks.com and discover how to take your next clear move with confidence.