Episode 41: Habits for Healing: How to Get Unstuck Once and For All (w/ Nakeia Homer)
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"The habits that once helped us survive can also hold us hostage. Healing begins when we forgive ourselves for who we had to be, release the roles that no longer serve us, and create new habits that lead us to peace, purpose, and power."
In this first episode of Season 3 with Nakeia Homer, we open a new chapter of healing and growth by uncovering how the survival habits that once kept us safe can also keep us stuck, and how simple daily practices help us reclaim peace, power, and purpose. Tune in as we explore practical tools to release expired roles and relationships and take concrete steps from merely surviving to truly thriving in life’s next chapter.
Song of the week: Healing by India Arie
Topics Covered:
(00:02:05) Introducing our special guest, Nakeia Homer
(00:04:04) How Nakeia’s healing journey started at age 10
(00:08:37) When survival habits start to hurt instead of help
(00:12:45) Taking back control
(00:15:41) Why self-forgiveness and boundaries go hand in hand
(00:19:31) Letting go and editing your life
(00:24:47) Divorce reframed as freedom and safety
(00:28:05) Acceptance: Witnessing the reality
(00:36:03) Practical ways to live out acceptance
(00:39:59) Courage
(00:41:00) Connect with Nakeia Homer
Key Takeaways:
“We are reclaiming our purpose, we are reclaiming our peace, and we are reclaiming our power every time we engage in a healing habit.”
“Acceptance is noting who your friend is and then deciding how the friendship is going to be from that moment on.”
About Our Guest:
Nakeia Homer is a Well-Being Educator, Amazon Best-Selling Author, and founder of Heal & Grow Daily, a community that helps people prioritize their healing and growth. She’s passionate about guiding others to care for their well-being, step into their brilliance, and show up as their best selves. Through her books, workshops, and speaking, she inspires people to practice self-love, create healthy habits, and live with purpose.
Connect with Nakeia:
Web: https://nakeiahomer.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakeiahomer/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5ly4H4w2Tr1VAup7U6ynVj?si=eb8339b8f0d94161
About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB: https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email newsletter: https://yournextchapter.myflodesk.com/community
Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future, and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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