Episode 46 of Words of the Wise features longtime coach, mentor, and family friend, Coach Bob Bartolomeo—known to most as Coach Bart. From his childhood in Gary, Indiana, to his years as a player at Butler, and decades on the sidelines shaping college football programs, Coach Bart’s story is one of consistency and a passion for people.
Throughout our conversation, he reflects on the values passed down from his parents, the lessons learned from mentors, and the advice he has carried into every season of life. He also shares about the unwavering support of his wife, their marriage of over 40 years, and the joy of raising two daughters who have gone on to build lives of their own.
“The greatest thing my parents taught me was hard work. My dad didn’t cut corners, and he laid the groundwork for me to understand what it means to provide and to give your best.”

“As a coach, the most important thing is to be yourself. Players see right through it if you try to be someone you’re not.”

“You have to be a sponge. Take in something from everyone you meet—hold onto the good, and let it shape who you are.”

Coach Bart also shares his favorite memories of building programs, what it means to lead with consistency, and the joy of watching players grow not only into athletes, but into men.
This episode is filled with wisdom for coaches, athletes, and anyone who believes in the power of influence and mentorship.
If you have someone wise in your life—a grandparent, coach, mentor, or friend—whose story deserves to be captured and preserved forever, I’d love to hear from you. Email Lexie at [email protected] or send a message on social media so we can set up an interview and make sure their wisdom lives on.
Soli Deo Gloria!