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Why Am I So Lonely?!

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We explore the science behind why human connection is essential for survival, from attachment theory to why our brains respond so profoundly to face-to-face interaction. Loneliness isn't simply being alone but a profound feeling of disconnection that can persist even when surrounded by others.
• Connection is crucial for safety and releases positive neurochemicals in our brains
• Attachment theory explains our innate survival need to connect with caregivers
• Digital connections don't activate the same neural networks as face-to-face interactions
• Spending just 15 minutes daily in meaningful connection can transform relationships
• We often defend against connection due to past experiences of rejection or pain
• Modern society facilitates isolation through remote work, delivery services, and digital communication
• Low-stakes practice like talking to service workers helps build connection skills
• Connection to ourselves is the foundation for connecting with others
• Repairing disconnected relationships requires persistence through initial discomfort
If you like our show, please leave us a rating and review on your favorite podcast platform, follow the show and share it with your friends.
Laura's Free Course on Emotional Development and Regulation:
https://benavieri.com/neuroception-sign-up/

This show is sponsored by:
Core Self

www.coreself.org

Benavieri Counseling & Coaching
www.benavieri.com

Active Healing Psychiatric Services
www.activehealingpsych.com

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Chapters

1. Welcome to Why Am I Like This (00:00:00)

2. Why Connection is Essential for Survival (00:01:40)

3. Defenses Against Attachment (00:05:10)

4. The 15-Minute Connection Rule (00:08:33)

5. Solitude vs. Loneliness (00:16:57)

6. Breaking Isolation Habits (00:20:05)

7. Low-Stakes Practice for Connection (00:31:22)

8. Repairing Disconnected Relationships (00:35:54)

31 episodes

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Content provided by Mental Breakdown. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Mental Breakdown or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

We explore the science behind why human connection is essential for survival, from attachment theory to why our brains respond so profoundly to face-to-face interaction. Loneliness isn't simply being alone but a profound feeling of disconnection that can persist even when surrounded by others.
• Connection is crucial for safety and releases positive neurochemicals in our brains
• Attachment theory explains our innate survival need to connect with caregivers
• Digital connections don't activate the same neural networks as face-to-face interactions
• Spending just 15 minutes daily in meaningful connection can transform relationships
• We often defend against connection due to past experiences of rejection or pain
• Modern society facilitates isolation through remote work, delivery services, and digital communication
• Low-stakes practice like talking to service workers helps build connection skills
• Connection to ourselves is the foundation for connecting with others
• Repairing disconnected relationships requires persistence through initial discomfort
If you like our show, please leave us a rating and review on your favorite podcast platform, follow the show and share it with your friends.
Laura's Free Course on Emotional Development and Regulation:
https://benavieri.com/neuroception-sign-up/

This show is sponsored by:
Core Self

www.coreself.org

Benavieri Counseling & Coaching
www.benavieri.com

Active Healing Psychiatric Services
www.activehealingpsych.com

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Welcome to Why Am I Like This (00:00:00)

2. Why Connection is Essential for Survival (00:01:40)

3. Defenses Against Attachment (00:05:10)

4. The 15-Minute Connection Rule (00:08:33)

5. Solitude vs. Loneliness (00:16:57)

6. Breaking Isolation Habits (00:20:05)

7. Low-Stakes Practice for Connection (00:31:22)

8. Repairing Disconnected Relationships (00:35:54)

31 episodes

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