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96. Women's Communities: 12 Red Flags │ Serendipiti Day

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Dipiti is back to discuss our top 12 red flags to look out for before joining an in-person or online women's community. Want more? Be sure to check out the bonus content available here to Whose Body Is It paid Substack subscribers.

Included in the *Bonus Convo*

  • Dipiti's intentions for joining BDSM communities
  • Isabella’s intentions for joining radical feminism and birth liberation groups
  • How Isabella managed to avoid moving to an in person community of “liked-minded women”
  • The subtle process of loyalty becoming currency and favoritism
  • Shedding light on why Dipiti and Isabella aren’t going back to a popular women’s festival
  • When story telling is used as an implicit threat
  • Is radical feminism a cult?
  • How “self-responsibility / victim consciousness” frameworks can be weaponized
  • How having a shared experience of losing friends / being ostracized for knowing what a woman is isn’t necessarily a strong enough foundation for a lasting friendship
  • How participating in MLMs creates an extraction lens on everyone you meet aka new connections are prioritized on them becoming your downline $$$
  • How we deal with the guilt and shame of having promoted groups, companies, and influencers we’re no longer affiliated with
  • The role of therapy after exiting cult-y spaces & narc abuse recovery
  • How constantly trying to get to the root of things became a disability and an inability to see the bigger picture that warped our sense of reality
  • Breaking the bubble of the fictional “us” & noticing exit patterns of former members of various online and in person groups

Episode Resources

Connect with Dipiti on Instagram

Women Who Run With The Wolves

Ponzinomics: The Untold Story of Multi-Level Marketing

Narc Abuse Recovery

How to Spot a Cult - BITE Model PDF

Other Whose Body Is It episodes with Dipiti

(Recorded in 2022) BDSM & Women’s Festivals episode with Dipiti

(Recorded in 2023) What Has Porn Done to Us?

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Dipiti is back to discuss our top 12 red flags to look out for before joining an in-person or online women's community. Want more? Be sure to check out the bonus content available here to Whose Body Is It paid Substack subscribers.

Included in the *Bonus Convo*

  • Dipiti's intentions for joining BDSM communities
  • Isabella’s intentions for joining radical feminism and birth liberation groups
  • How Isabella managed to avoid moving to an in person community of “liked-minded women”
  • The subtle process of loyalty becoming currency and favoritism
  • Shedding light on why Dipiti and Isabella aren’t going back to a popular women’s festival
  • When story telling is used as an implicit threat
  • Is radical feminism a cult?
  • How “self-responsibility / victim consciousness” frameworks can be weaponized
  • How having a shared experience of losing friends / being ostracized for knowing what a woman is isn’t necessarily a strong enough foundation for a lasting friendship
  • How participating in MLMs creates an extraction lens on everyone you meet aka new connections are prioritized on them becoming your downline $$$
  • How we deal with the guilt and shame of having promoted groups, companies, and influencers we’re no longer affiliated with
  • The role of therapy after exiting cult-y spaces & narc abuse recovery
  • How constantly trying to get to the root of things became a disability and an inability to see the bigger picture that warped our sense of reality
  • Breaking the bubble of the fictional “us” & noticing exit patterns of former members of various online and in person groups

Episode Resources

Connect with Dipiti on Instagram

Women Who Run With The Wolves

Ponzinomics: The Untold Story of Multi-Level Marketing

Narc Abuse Recovery

How to Spot a Cult - BITE Model PDF

Other Whose Body Is It episodes with Dipiti

(Recorded in 2022) BDSM & Women’s Festivals episode with Dipiti

(Recorded in 2023) What Has Porn Done to Us?

✦✦✦

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work with Isabella →⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Support the Whose Body Is It Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ →⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Shop Activist Stickers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ →⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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