In this episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino speaks with author, columnist, and mother of two Pam Lobley about planning a slow summer and teh benefits of embracing boredom.

Lobley, a former actres and comedian discusses the pressure parents feel to keep their kids constantly busy—and what happens when we stop.

She shares her personal story of parental burnout and the bold decision to give her children an “unstructured summer”—what she dubbed a “summer of rot.” What began as a break from overscheduling turned into a transformative experience for her family.

Takeaways:

• The pressure of over-scheduling can negatively affect both children's and parents' mental health, leading to increased stress and anxiety.
• Empowering children with unstructured playtime fosters independence, creativity, and problem-solving skills that are essential for their emotional health.
• In the digital age, the influence of social media exacerbates the fear of missing out, making it crucial for parents to prioritize their children's well-being over societal expectations.
• Creating a schedule that allows for 'nothing' can help kids learn to fill their time creatively, reducing reliance on screens and adult-directed activities.
• Encouraging children to express their boredom can lead to unexpected opportunities for growth and self-discovery, which are vital for their overall development.
• Parents must remember that success is subjective; focusing on enjoying family life is just as important as academic or extracurricular achievements.

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Links referenced in this episode:

• whereparentstalk.com