Every parent faces that moment of dread – when it's time to have "the talk" with their children. The questions flood in: When should we have it? Who should lead the conversation? What exactly should we say? Most importantly, how do we frame these discussions within God's design?
This episode breaks down this challenging parental responsibility using simple who, when, where, what, why, and how questions to create a practical framework for success. Starting with the foundational truth that God created sex as something good and beautiful within marriage, we explore how to communicate this life-giving message to children of various ages. Rather than treating sex education as a one-time awkward conversation, we discuss the importance of ongoing dialogue that evolves as children grow – from teaching proper anatomical terms to preschoolers to addressing dating and relationships with teenagers.
The reality is sobering: most children are exposed to information about sex by age eight, often from sources that contradict biblical values. By proactively engaging your children in these conversations, you position yourself as their trusted source of truth. Even if you feel inadequate or have regrets about your own past, God's grace covers all, and His Spirit helps in our weakness. Excellent resources like the "God's Design for Sex" series can support your efforts. Remember Psalm 119:9 as you navigate these waters: "How can a young man keep his way pure? By guarding it according to your word." What legacy will you build regarding how your children understand God's design for their bodies and identity in Christ?

Related Resources:

God's Design for Sex by Stan & Brenna Jones

How & When to Tell Your Kids About Sex by Stan & Brenna Jones

God Made All of Me

A Child's First Book About Marriage

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