Chasing Success, Finding Self
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Imagine waking up successful on paper and hollow in your chest. That’s the professional paradox we tackle with internationally recognized strategist and transformative coach Nancy Ho, who has helped more than 10,000 leaders bridge the gap between high performance and real fulfillment. We get candid about the stories that sell struggle as a virtue, status as love, and busyness as worth—then dismantle them with clarity, values, and a deeper why.
Nancy introduces her North Star Vision framework and explains why “effortless success” isn’t about avoiding effort; it’s about removing needless struggle. We explore how the ego self performs to be accepted, how misaligned thinking patterns fuel burnout, and how to tell if a belief actually serves you. From the illusion of “real age” to the lure of ads that promise happiness in a bow-tied luxury car, we pull back the curtain on what really sustains a meaningful life.
This conversation gets practical: aligning your job with your values, choosing self-care that goes beyond facades, using social media to serve rather than chase applause, and practicing a simple reset—stop and breathe—to make decisions from power, not panic. Nancy’s stories—from inviting a street musician to elevate a community gathering to giving without keeping score—show how generosity expands capacity and turns success into something you can feel, not just flaunt.
If you’re tired of grinding for goals that don’t change how you feel at 3 a.m., you’ll find a different path here: one that measures peace as carefully as profit and treats fulfillment as the foundation for achievement. Listen now, share with someone who needs this reframe, and if it resonates, subscribe and leave a review to help others find the show.
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Chapters
1. Meet Nancy Ho And The Paradox (00:00:00)
2. Real Age And Inner Well-Being (00:02:00)
3. Chasing Success Vs Feeling Fulfilled (00:03:10)
4. Effortless Success And The Ego Self (00:06:10)
5. Correct Thinking Patterns That Serve You (00:11:15)
6. Possessions, Ads, And Empty Promises (00:15:20)
7. Finding Your Why And North Star (00:19:10)
8. Giving, Community, And True Joy (00:24:05)
9. Scarcity Mindset And Generosity (00:31:00)
10. Identity, Energy, And Everyday Coaching (00:36:30)
11. Self-Care Beyond Cosmetics (00:41:30)
12. Alignment, Job Match, And Stress (00:47:20)
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