EP08: Letting Go of the Need to be Right with Ryan MacFarlane
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“The most surprising thing I found in recovery was myself.”
In this week’s episode, I get candid with Ryan MacFarlane about our unique three-year journey as roommates, revealing how mutual respect was the foundation for success. We dive deep into recovery, with Ryan outlining the three universal anchors: community, a Higher Power, and service. We also explore the complexity of faith, detailing my evolution to a personal spirituality—including a powerful, physical connection that Ryan witnessed.
Ryan opens up about finding serenity in solitude and the work of navigating old patterns of anger and sadness. Finally, we celebrate a life of action: from Ryan chasing dreams like paragliding and his new motorcycle to my emotional first snowboard run, proving the power of embracing the messiness of a full life.
Chapters
1. Roommates: A Diffferent Kind of Committed Relationship (00:00:00)
2. The Importance of Community in Recovery (00:05:59)
3. The Best Thing Ryan Found in Recovery (00:16:13)
4. Navigating Relationships and Accountability (00:18:53)
5. Letting Go of the Need to Be Right (00:29:03)
6. Transforming Relationships with Anger (00:35:36)
7. Embracing Sadness and Loneliness (00:39:33)
8. Living Life to the Fullest + Taking Action on Dreams (00:42:21)
9 episodes