In this episode, Dawn interviews her friend Randy Brown, a former Division I basketball coach. Randy shares his journey of losing two daughters to a rare disease within six years, leading to an identity crisis and heartache. He discusses his passion for coaching, his strategic career moves, and the impact of his career on his family, particularly his marriage. Randy also opens up about how grief and coping mechanisms, such as excessive drinking, affected his relationship.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Randy Brown set clear goals for his coaching career at a young age and worked strategically to achieve them, showcasing the power of setting and working towards goals.

• The loss of their daughters had a profound impact on Randy and his wife, leading to different coping mechanisms and communication challenges, highlighting the importance of open communication during times of grief.

• Randy used work and alcohol as coping mechanisms to escape from the pain of losing his daughters, demonstrating how unhealthy coping mechanisms can strain relationships and hinder personal growth.

• Randy expressed regret over leaving important conversations unsaid in his marriage, emphasizing the importance of open and honest communication in relationships to avoid regrets in the future.

• Randy's journey of self-reflection and sobriety shows the importance of learning from past mistakes and taking steps towards personal growth and healing, even after experiencing significant loss and challenges.

BEST MOMENTS

"When I was 21, I set a goal for myself. I was so convinced I could be a college coach and I had no right knowing that I could do this. But something was inside me to know that I could set three goals and they were going to come true."

"The bedrock of what I knew about basketball all changed."

"I remember I felt it was it was cool because I could get into the gym and into the school when nobody else could because it was all locked up, but because Dutch Huseman was the coach I got to go to practice."

"I religiously went to practice in the afternoon and watched them practice in the old Iowa field house. And if you got close enough, as close as possible and bent an ear, you could hear what was being said on the floor."

"A $5 ticket changed my life. Five bucks."

ABOUT THE HOST

Dawn Rishárd, M.A. with 20 years as a Licensed Professional Counselor, Marriage and Family Systems, I empower people to release the past, open their hearts, and receive the love they desire. I have a soft spot to help women struggling in their marriages as I did. As an Intuitive Healer, I help unlock Self Love, Clarity, and Connection, despite the challenges. I am an expert at restoring people's intimacy in life and love.

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