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What do you mean (JB cover)? | Ep. 332
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What do you mean (JB cover)?
Ever been told to “go” while everything else screams “don’t you dare”? We dive into the heart of mixed signals and why they leave even the most grounded person second-guessing every move. Through the repeated push–pull of stay vs. leave, yes vs. no, we unpack how ambiguity hides real desires, shifts emotional labor to the other person, and slowly wears down trust. Drawing from real-world patterns, we explore the emotional whiplash of arguing by day and making up by night, and why that intermittent relief keeps you hooked on uncertainty.
Together, we strip the confusion down to practical steps. You’ll hear simple, direct scripts to replace “What do you mean?” with actionable clarity: reflect the contradiction, ask for a specific choice, and pair every request with an offer. We break apart overprotection masquerading as care and rebuild it as negotiated trust—think clear check-ins without control. To stop decision fatigue, we lay out a structure for time-boxed conversations and weekly checkpoints that transform vague tension into small, solvable choices. Instead of preaching or guessing, we model the three-part directness: “I feel… I want… I’m willing…” so both people can speak plainly without turning honesty into a fight.
By the end, you’ll have tools to spot mixed signals fast, reset the dynamic, and protect your energy. Clarity isn’t cold; it’s compassionate—because it gives both people a real choice. If you’re ready to trade confusion for steadier connection, press play, try the scripts, and tell us the one mixed-signal phrase you’re done tolerating. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs this, and leave a quick review—your feedback helps more listeners find the show.
Chapter Markers
0:00 The Core Question: Mixed Signals
0:37 Indecision and Emotional Whiplash
0:53 Push–Pull Dynamics Explained
1:43 Overprotection vs Compromise
2:30 Plea for Clarity and Boundaries
3:18 Final Call for a Decision
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Chapters
1. The Core Question: Mixed Signals (00:00:00)
2. Indecision and Emotional Whiplash (00:00:37)
3. Push–Pull Dynamics Explained (00:00:53)
4. Overprotection vs Compromise (00:01:43)
5. Plea for Clarity and Boundaries (00:02:30)
6. Final Call for a Decision (00:03:18)
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