What if the scariest transitions in life—divorce, death, or starting over—could be handled with peace, clarity, and even empowerment? In this episode of Unwritten, I sit down with family law and estate planning attorney Shaunis Mercer, co-founder of Peaceful Law, to explore how women can navigate divorce and life planning without fear-based tactics or emotional burnout.

We talk about:

• Why peaceful legal support matters more than aggressive litigation
• How to make smart, values-driven choices in divorce or separation
• Estate planning as a radical act of self-respect (even if you're single or have "nothing")
• The power of asking honest questions early in relationships
• And how women can reclaim their worth and voice—legally and emotionally

As someone who’s been divorced, reinvented, and rebuilt—both personally and professionally—I bring these insights into the work I do at Steph Shanks Photography, where I help women over 40 see their strength, beauty, and transformation reflected back to them.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by what-ifs or fearful of what’s next, this episode is a roadmap for reclaiming your agency—with compassion and clarity at the center.

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