In this episode, I’m taking a closer look at something people don’t always talk about honestly: what belongs in public, what belongs in private, and why consent doesn’t stop at the bedroom door. Kink isn’t shameful and it isn’t something to hide, but it is something that requires maturity, intention, and informed consent from everyone involved.

I talk about how shared spaces work, why people who didn’t opt in shouldn’t be exposed to adult themes, and why age-appropriate education matters — especially when it comes to teens and brand-new eighteen year olds who are still figuring out who they are. I also look at some recent examples of kink showing up in places it probably shouldn’t, like college campuses and public events, and why that blurs the line between education and influence.

I share a personal story from a karaoke night I worked, where a surprise drag show took over the entire evening without warning. It wasn’t about who was performing — it was about not being given the choice to participate. Later, when another event came through, I was given the option to opt out, and that difference shows exactly what consent looks like in everyday life.

This episode is all about respect, context, and remembering that freedom doesn’t cancel responsibility. Public doesn’t mean permission, and true kink is always rooted in communication and consent.

Until next time, stay curious my friends! And take care of one another.