From Motorcycle Racer to Evolved Dad: Rebuilding After Divorce and Shame
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From the rush of a semi-professional motorcycle career to the quiet reckoning of divorce and fatherhood, Corey Baum has lived the full spectrum of what it means to chase control — and what it costs to find connection. People described him as “always at a five” — never too high, never too low — steady on the outside, but disconnected within.
Behind the image of the capable man was someone using achievement, porn, and relationships to escape the pain of disconnection. The façade of confidence hid a deep fear of being truly seen.
Divorce marked the beginning of a long, unfiltered journey of self-discovery — through therapy, men’s work, and an honest confrontation with the patterns that kept him small.
Today, as the founder of The Evolved Men Project and father to two boys, ages 7 and 11, Corey helps men break free from the old rules of masculinity, build real confidence, and lead from emotional truth rather than performance. His story is one of courage, accountability, and evolution — and a reminder that it’s never too late to become the man you were meant to be.
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GuestBio
Corey Baum is the founder of The Evolved Men Project, a coach and community builder helping men lead with confidence, connection, and purpose. Drawing on years of personal growth, men’s group leadership, and professional coaching, he creates spaces where men can develop self-mastery, strengthen relationships, and live boldly. Corey hosts The Evolved Men Podcast and facilitates both local and online groups, blending practical tools with real conversations that inspire change.
Topics Discussed
- Corey’s childhood and the masks boys learn to wear to feel safe
- What boys need most from their parents today
- The turning point
- Escaping through achievement, relationships,, and porn — and learning to sit with pain instead of numbing it
- Fatherhood after divorce: building connection through honesty, not perfection
- How men can redefine strength, leadership, and love
- Practical ways to help boys express emotion and develop inner confidence
🔗 Connect with Corey
- Facebook - https://facebook.com/evolvedmenproject
- IG - https://instagram.com/evolvedmenproject/
- YouTube - https://youtube.com/@EvolvedMenProject
- Website - https://evolvedmenproject.com/
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- Website: sonhoodcoaching.com
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Why Season 3 Is Different
Too many boys today feel lost, alone, and misunderstood. And far too often, the same is true for their parents.
Behind the troubling statistics is a generation of boys quietly longing to be seen, heard, and valued — yet the conversation around boys’ emotional lives remains far too quiet.
Season 3 of Unlocking the Parenting Code is here to change that.
In this new season, you’ll hear:
🔹 Real conversations with young men who are ready to share their truth.
🔹 Powerful insights from experts in boys’ mental and emotional health.
🔹 And raw, real wisdom from dads who are walking this road every day
🔹 Solo episodes where I reflect on what I’ve witnessed, wrestled with, and learned
At the heart of this season — and at the heart of Sonhood Coaching — is a mission:
To understand the inner emotional world of boys, to recognize the very real challenges they face, and to name the damaging myths and societal expectations that continue to shape how we see, treat, and raise our sons.
This is not about fixing boys.
It’s about truly seeing them — and learning how to show up differently, with compassion, courage, and connection.
Together, we’re building a world where boys feel safe to be their authentic selves.
Because when we get it right for our boys, we begin to heal something much bigger.
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