THE VALUE EPISODE
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đïž UNCHARTED â EPISODE 10
âValue, Ego & Covert Contracts: The Unspoken Deals That Define Usâ
What if the biggest business lesson you ever learn doesnât come from a boardroom, but from a breakup?
This episode is not just about value in the financial senseâitâs about the emotional currency we trade in relationships, especially when love and business collide. Iâm pulling back the curtain on the kind of value clash that no contract can prepare you for: perceived worth vs. actual delivery, ego vs. execution, and the covert contracts we never signedâbut lived by anyway.
I built businesses with people I loved. Iâve stood in boardrooms with broken hearts, funded visions with emotional debt, and stayed too long hoping support would be repaid in loyalty. It wasnât. And the truth isâmany of us are doing the same thing without realising it.
In this raw and deeply personal episode, I unpack:
- The myth of being irreplaceable in business and love
- The difference between perceived value and contracted valueâand how ignoring it can sink your business
- The role of covert contracts in keeping you stuck, drained, and resentful
- Why many women (me included) equate giving more with being chosen
- The Scarface model of control: money first, love laterâand how that plays out in real life
- How trauma, boundaries, and business decisions are more entwined than we want to admit
Youâll hear the real storiesâbuilding an empire with an ex, watching it unravel, and having to grieve not just a relationship, but a legacy. Youâll hear what happens when we try to be the structure, the softness, the investor, and the emotional anchor all at once.
And more than anything, youâll hear how to finally reclaim your definition of value.
Because value is not how much you can give, absorb, or justify.
Itâs not how many invoices you pay to avoid conflict.
Itâs not in how much history you honour while ignoring whatâs happening now.
Value is clarity.
Value is presence.
Value is knowing your worthâand refusing to negotiate with someone elseâs ego.
This episode is a wake-up call for anyone building a business, navigating love, or trying to do both in a world that confuses emotional labour with commitment.
đ„ If youâve ever felt used, unseen, undervalued, or unsure whether itâs your trauma or your truth calling the shotsâthis oneâs for you.
đ§ Listen in, reflect deeply, and if this hit home? Share it with someone who needs to hear it. Letâs stop trading emotional equity for partnerships that donât deliver. Letâs get honest. Letâs get clear.
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