344. From Toxic Burnout to Sustainable Work
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Dr. Arianna Molloy, author of "Healthy Calling: From Toxic Burnout to Sustainable Work," shares on "calling burnout" and why it hurts more than standard exhaustion. Regular burnout says, "I don’t like what I’m doing anymore." Calling burnout says, "I don’t know who I am anymore." To find our way back, she offers a practical, research-backed posture of healthy humility: know your strengths and weaknesses without being ruled by either; live as a learner who isn’t threatened by not knowing; and practice the capacity to walk away, rest, and remember you’re not God. This is not self-erasure. It’s a return to sanity, a way to steward gifts without becoming indispensable to them.
We also explore communication as a healing balm for homes and teams. Truthful, kind, and clear messages—spoken, written, and nonverbal—repair trust faster than endless clarification by text. Simple rhythms like visual voice messages, shared gratitude at the table, and sabbath touchpoints keep relationships tender and resilient. Along the way, gratitude emerges as humility in action: a daily reorientation that dissolves cynicism and turns ordinary messes into moments of meaning.
If you’re a mom, leader, creative, or caregiver wondering how to serve without losing yourself, this conversation offers a grounded path forward. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs courage today, and leave a review to help more heartlifters find their way back to the Caller.
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Chapters
1. A New Theme: Mothering For The Ages (00:00:00)
2. Meet Dr. Ariana Maloy (00:02:05)
3. Work, Calling, And Family Legacy (00:04:35)
4. Defining Work Beyond A Paycheck (00:09:20)
5. Marriage, Parenting, And Priorities (00:13:45)
6. Healthy Relationships In Plain Language (00:17:45)
7. Communication As Healing Balm (00:22:25)
8. Caller First, Then Calling (00:27:10)
9. Parenting, Guilt, And Meeting God (00:31:40)
10. Humility: The Surprising Antidote (00:36:00)
11. Three Parts Of True Humility (00:41:35)
12. Gratitude That Reorients The Heart (00:46:10)
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