People with ADHD often struggle in relationships because common symptoms like time blindness, emotional dysregulation, impulsivity, and forgetfulness can make us seem unreliable or self-centered. By developing specific strategies and increasing self-awareness, we can overcome these challenges to build lasting connections with others.
• Be punctual by using calendars, alarms, and dedicated planning time for social engagements
• Combat memory issues by keeping notes about important people in your life
• Maintain regular contact through scheduled meetups and one-on-one time with loved ones
• Reciprocate invitations with simple, short, and active gatherings
• Monitor your behavior during conversations – speak less, listen more, and think of conversation as a tennis match
• Pay attention to common ADHD social challenges like volume modulation, personal space, and interrupting
• Look for quality relationships over quantity
• Have an escape plan ready when you notice your own emotional red flags
For tips on meeting new friends, check out last week's episode of Thoroughly ADHD, "Loneli-ADHD: When Your Brain Makes Socializing Extra Hard."
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