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What Does a Woman Have to Do to Be Believed? Sexual Assault, Accountability & Double Standards with E. Jean Carroll | 363

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When a powerful man says, “She’s not my type,” and a jury (actually, multiple juries) finds that man liable for sexual abuse and defamation, that’s not just a headline — that’s a masterclass in what it takes for a woman to be believed in America.

In this episode, writer, journalist, and Not My Type: One Woman vs. a President author E. Jean Carroll joins Nicole to talk about truth, power, paperclips, and what actually happens when you drag a president into court and win. Twice.

We talk about the facts, the stories we build around those facts, and why so many people will twist themselves into a pretzel to excuse powerful men while shredding women who speak up.

We get into:

  • What actually happened in court — beyond the headlines, hot takes, and Twitter warriors

  • How clothes became her armor and why what she wore in court mattered more than you’d think

  • The “not my type” moment, the infamous deposition photo, and how Trump accidentally proved his own lie

  • Why her sexual history was dragged into the trial — and how she took back that narrative with joy

  • Trauma responses, laughter in the dressing room, and why “if you didn’t scream it doesn’t count” is garbage

  • How mock juries forced her legal team to reckon with ageism, beauty standards, and who we think is “believable”

  • What she plans to do with the tens of millions awarded in damages — and why giving it away is part of her resistance strategy

  • The big questions this case raises: What does a woman have to do to be believed? And what does a powerful man have to do to be held accountable?

Because this isn’t just E. Jean Carroll’s story. It’s a mirror held up to how we treat women, power, and truth — and a reminder that one 80-something woman can still change the story for all of us.

Thank you to our sponsors!

Get 20% off your first order at curehydration.com/WOMANSWORK with code WOMANSWORK — and if you get a post-purchase survey, mention you heard about Cure here to help support the show!

Visit beducate.me/womanswork69 and use code womanswork69 for 65% off the annual pass.

Black Friday has come early at Cozy Earth! Right now, you can stack my code WOMANSWORK on top of their sitewide sale — giving you up to 40% off in savings.

Connect with E Jean:

Book: https://static.macmillan.com/static/smp/not-my-type-9781250381682/

Substack: https://ejeancarroll.substack.com/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/ejeancarroll1/

X: https://x.com/ejeancarroll?lang=en

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When a powerful man says, “She’s not my type,” and a jury (actually, multiple juries) finds that man liable for sexual abuse and defamation, that’s not just a headline — that’s a masterclass in what it takes for a woman to be believed in America.

In this episode, writer, journalist, and Not My Type: One Woman vs. a President author E. Jean Carroll joins Nicole to talk about truth, power, paperclips, and what actually happens when you drag a president into court and win. Twice.

We talk about the facts, the stories we build around those facts, and why so many people will twist themselves into a pretzel to excuse powerful men while shredding women who speak up.

We get into:

  • What actually happened in court — beyond the headlines, hot takes, and Twitter warriors

  • How clothes became her armor and why what she wore in court mattered more than you’d think

  • The “not my type” moment, the infamous deposition photo, and how Trump accidentally proved his own lie

  • Why her sexual history was dragged into the trial — and how she took back that narrative with joy

  • Trauma responses, laughter in the dressing room, and why “if you didn’t scream it doesn’t count” is garbage

  • How mock juries forced her legal team to reckon with ageism, beauty standards, and who we think is “believable”

  • What she plans to do with the tens of millions awarded in damages — and why giving it away is part of her resistance strategy

  • The big questions this case raises: What does a woman have to do to be believed? And what does a powerful man have to do to be held accountable?

Because this isn’t just E. Jean Carroll’s story. It’s a mirror held up to how we treat women, power, and truth — and a reminder that one 80-something woman can still change the story for all of us.

Thank you to our sponsors!

Get 20% off your first order at curehydration.com/WOMANSWORK with code WOMANSWORK — and if you get a post-purchase survey, mention you heard about Cure here to help support the show!

Visit beducate.me/womanswork69 and use code womanswork69 for 65% off the annual pass.

Black Friday has come early at Cozy Earth! Right now, you can stack my code WOMANSWORK on top of their sitewide sale — giving you up to 40% off in savings.

Connect with E Jean:

Book: https://static.macmillan.com/static/smp/not-my-type-9781250381682/

Substack: https://ejeancarroll.substack.com/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/ejeancarroll1/

X: https://x.com/ejeancarroll?lang=en

Related Podcast Episodes:

Share the Love:

If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!

🔗 Subscribe & Review:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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