The Unseen Issues Dismissive Avoidants Face When You’re Away

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Understanding why Dismissive Avoidants sometimes seem distant or unresponsive isn’t about blaming them; it’s about uncovering the subconscious fears and patterns that shape their behavior.

Recognizing these dynamics is key to setting boundaries, communicating your needs, and fostering healthier, more secure relationships.

In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down the unseen issues Dismissive Avoidants face when you give them space. You'll understand what’s happening beneath the surface, respond constructively, and know whether your relationship can move toward a healthier place.

You’ll learn:
✅ How Dismissive Avoidants often operate in a “functional freeze” due to nervous system dysregulation
✅ Why their need for space isn’t about you, but about unresolved trauma and subconscious fear of closeness
✅ How attachment styles influence reactions to intimacy and distance
✅ Why closeness can trigger old fears of neglect, shame, or feeling trapped
✅ Practical strategies to find the middle ground: honoring their pace while respecting your own needs
✅ How to encourage partners to work on themselves and address trauma around love
✅ How to communicate clearly, set boundaries, and recognize patterns of pursuit or withdrawal
✅ When to step back and protect your emotional well-being if healthy reciprocity isn’t happening

Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – Intro
00:34 – Overview of the AttachmentStyles
01:33 – Why Avoidants Chase You When You Pull Away
03:36 – 1. Walk the Middle Ground.
04:30 – 2. Encourage that Person to Work on Themself.
05:36 – Ending Codependency Course Promo
06:15 – 3. Help Them While Setting a Deadline
07:33 – 4. Communicate Directly
08:21 – Conclusion

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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