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If An Avoidant Does These 4 Things They’re Discarding You

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Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good!
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-06-25&el=podcast

Dismissive Avoidants rarely come out and say “I’m done.” Instead, they show it through subtle but powerful patterns, often long before the actual breakup happens. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the four unmistakable signs that an avoidant is emotionally checking out and shares how to protect your self-worth, regulate your nervous system, and set healthy boundaries before it’s too late.

Drawing on neuroscience and ancient wisdom, Thais explains how oxytocin drops, cortisol spikes, and emotional disconnection create chaos in relationships—and how to use self-awareness and communication to stop the spiral and regain control.

You’ll learn:

✅ The four red flags that signal a dismissive avoidant is preparing to leave
✅ How “flaw finding” and subtle criticism act as deactivation strategies
✅ Why they replace intimacy with creature comforts like work or hobbies
✅ The neuroscience of emotional withdrawal and bonding disruption
✅ How to use pattern interruption and self-regulation to stop self-blame
✅ The boundaries and conversations that separate healing from heartbreak

Video Breakdown (Timestamps):
00:00 – Intro
00:53 – 1. If You See Them Shutting Down Emotionally
01:52 – 2. If There Are Sudden Devaluing Behaviors or Comments
04:59 – Attachment Styles & Intimacy Promo
05:31 – 3. Replacing Intimacy with Creature Comforts
06:51 – The Neuroscience Behind Relational Distress
09:16 – Pattern Interrupt
11:29 – Setting Clear Boundaries
13:44 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Consideration
15:30 – 4. When They Stop Communicating
16:41 – Conclusion

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

📚 Read the Learning Love Book
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

📝 Read the PDS Blog
https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

Let’s Connect on Socials:
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/
📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

#DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentHealing #ThaisGibson #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #AttachmentStyles #BoundariesMatter #BreakupRecovery #SecureLove

When an avoidant starts to pull away, it’s not random, it’s patterned. Learn to spot the signs early and protect your peace before it’s too late. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

  continue reading

321 episodes

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Manage episode 511385297 series 2928089
Content provided by Thais Gibson. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Thais Gibson or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good!
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-06-25&el=podcast

Dismissive Avoidants rarely come out and say “I’m done.” Instead, they show it through subtle but powerful patterns, often long before the actual breakup happens. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the four unmistakable signs that an avoidant is emotionally checking out and shares how to protect your self-worth, regulate your nervous system, and set healthy boundaries before it’s too late.

Drawing on neuroscience and ancient wisdom, Thais explains how oxytocin drops, cortisol spikes, and emotional disconnection create chaos in relationships—and how to use self-awareness and communication to stop the spiral and regain control.

You’ll learn:

✅ The four red flags that signal a dismissive avoidant is preparing to leave
✅ How “flaw finding” and subtle criticism act as deactivation strategies
✅ Why they replace intimacy with creature comforts like work or hobbies
✅ The neuroscience of emotional withdrawal and bonding disruption
✅ How to use pattern interruption and self-regulation to stop self-blame
✅ The boundaries and conversations that separate healing from heartbreak

Video Breakdown (Timestamps):
00:00 – Intro
00:53 – 1. If You See Them Shutting Down Emotionally
01:52 – 2. If There Are Sudden Devaluing Behaviors or Comments
04:59 – Attachment Styles & Intimacy Promo
05:31 – 3. Replacing Intimacy with Creature Comforts
06:51 – The Neuroscience Behind Relational Distress
09:16 – Pattern Interrupt
11:29 – Setting Clear Boundaries
13:44 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Consideration
15:30 – 4. When They Stop Communicating
16:41 – Conclusion

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

📚 Read the Learning Love Book
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes
https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

📝 Read the PDS Blog
https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

Let’s Connect on Socials:
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/
📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

#DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentHealing #ThaisGibson #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #AttachmentStyles #BoundariesMatter #BreakupRecovery #SecureLove

When an avoidant starts to pull away, it’s not random, it’s patterned. Learn to spot the signs early and protect your peace before it’s too late. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

  continue reading

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