30. Relationships and Relatedness: Why Not Caring What People Think is Bullsh*t and is Keeping You Stuck
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Thanks for listening to Episode 30 of The Take Action Toolkit. If you’ve enjoyed this episode don’t forget to leave us a rating and review on your preferred podcast platform. Or, share it with a friend who you know will benefit from what’s inside.
This episode is for you if:
- You’ve been trying to build something quietly. Maybe a business, a creative project, a new chapter, but it’s starting to feel lonely.
- You find yourself stuck in your head, second-guessing everything, or avoiding action altogether.
- You’ve bought into the “I don’t care what anyone thinks” mindset, but it’s not actually helping you move forward.
- You know connection matters, but you’re not sure how to build the kind that supports your goals.
In this episode, we dive into:
- 3 common action blocks caused by disconnection (and how to recognise them in yourself)
- The myth of hyper-independence and why going it alone keeps you stuck
- How to take aligned, meaningful action and not just performative productivity
- What self-determination theory and the PERMA model teach us about motivation and momentum
- Practical tools you can use this week to feel more supported and start taking action
Research and theories mentioned:
– Self-Determination Theory by Deci & Ryan (Autonomy, Competence, Relatedness)
– PERMA Model by Martin Seligman (Positive Emotion, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, Accomplishment)
– The evolutionary need for belonging and community safety
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