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189: When “Grace” Protects Bullies: How We Confuse Avoidance With Christlikeness

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Sometimes “just be gracious” is really code for “don’t rock the boat.” But when grace gets twisted into silence, avoidance, or fear, it stops looking like Jesus.

In this episode, we’re talking about the quiet damage that happens when harmful behavior is tolerated in the name of patience or peace.

What do you do when you’re not in charge but can’t ignore the dysfunction? Let’s get real about boundaries, truth, and the courage to speak up in love.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why avoidance often gets mislabeled as grace in small church culture
  • The difference between strong personalities and destructive behavior
  • What it looks like to protect others without overstepping leadership
  • Simple language and actions that help you draw healthy lines
  • Encouragement to stay spiritually healthy—even when your church isn’t

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Sometimes “just be gracious” is really code for “don’t rock the boat.” But when grace gets twisted into silence, avoidance, or fear, it stops looking like Jesus.

In this episode, we’re talking about the quiet damage that happens when harmful behavior is tolerated in the name of patience or peace.

What do you do when you’re not in charge but can’t ignore the dysfunction? Let’s get real about boundaries, truth, and the courage to speak up in love.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why avoidance often gets mislabeled as grace in small church culture
  • The difference between strong personalities and destructive behavior
  • What it looks like to protect others without overstepping leadership
  • Simple language and actions that help you draw healthy lines
  • Encouragement to stay spiritually healthy—even when your church isn’t

Join our free Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/smallchurchministry
Rate, Review, & Follow Laurie on Apple Podcasts
"I love Laurie and The Small Church Ministry Podcast!!" << If that's like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps Small Church Ministry support and reach more people -- just like you -- in small churches! Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then, let us know what you loved most about this episode!
Also, if you haven’t done so already, follow the podcast. This is the best way to stay updated on the new episodes we release weekly. If you’re not following, there’s a good chance you’ll miss out on future episodes. Follow now!

Get the Ministry Bundles here!

Support the show

Follow Us:
Website: https://smallchurchministry.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smallchurchministry/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/smallchurchministry
Creative Solutions for Small Churches Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/smallchurchministry
Small Church Network: https://smallchurchministry.com/membership/

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