Welcome to the #ShareYourHotness Podcast episode 163!

Rachael Curfew is a Professional Speaker, Relationship Strategist, and Certified Coach. She serves coaching clients and businesses worldwide, helping strengthen personal relationships so individuals can thrive in their professional careers. Rachael delivers transformation through speaking, workshops, and breakout sessions. Known for her calm, compassionate presence, she brings both warmth and clarity to every conversation—whether on stage, in a coaching session, or around a boardroom table.

_Rachael was in a very unhealthy and unhappy marriage, filled with fear. Along with her kids, she had a lot of anxiety and other mental health challenges. She did all she could with the knowledge, resources, and tools at hand to figure out how to help herself and her kids. She was in therapy, went to church, and did all the “right things” to be happy and forgive. She thought she had checked off all the boxes. One day, she felt this strong prompting that she needed to forgive. She thought, “What on earth does she need to forgive him for?” But she did. Everything she can possibly forgive at this point she has. But the prompting continued. It hit her, “She needs to forgive herself.” It took her a minute to figure out what she needed to do to forgive, and whom she needed to forgive. _

Forgiveness in a relationship is hard, especially when we do not get an apology or closure… and when it seems so unfair. Forgiveness is about the relationship you have with yourself, and for many of us, our Savior. It’s a freedom process that allows an individual to be authentic and feel alive.

The process to forgive daily starts with the little irritations. Starts with the small stuff. It’s a skill, a habit.

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