Comprehension vs. Communication & What it Means to be 'Alpha' with Alexis Renae
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What does it really mean to be the "alpha" in your relationships? Alexis Renae, CEO of Role Models 808, brings her unique perspective as both a professional model and dog trainer to this captivating conversation about boundaries, communication, and authenticity.
Our discussion takes an unexpected turn when we discover the fascinating parallels between training dogs and maintaining healthy human relationships. Alexis shares how establishing clear boundaries and understanding non-verbal cues are crucial in both worlds – revealing that true leadership isn't about dominance but rather mutual respect and comprehension. Her insights challenge conventional relationship advice by focusing on the often-overlooked distinction between simply communicating and truly understanding each other.
We dive deep into cultural differences between Hawaii and mainland America, exploring how community dynamics shape our approach to relationships. Alexis opens up about her accidental entry into modeling after a photographer's cancellation led to an unexpected opportunity, eventually building a business that spans from Hawaii to New York Fashion Week. Along the way, she shares candid stories about navigating uncomfortable situations in the modeling industry and establishing professional boundaries.
The conversation weaves through serious topics while maintaining a lighthearted energy, touching on everything from the challenges of wearing rompers to nightclubs to the complexities of overlapping social circles in small communities. Throughout it all, Alexis offers a refreshing perspective on finding the balance between strength and vulnerability in relationships, proving that being the "alpha" isn't about control but about creating space for authentic connection.
• From accidental model to CEO after filling in for a canceled photo shoot in 2016
• The cultural differences between Hawaii and mainland America in community connections and respect
• Why comprehension matters more than just communication in relationships
• How military communication style impacts personal relationships
• The parallels between dog training and human relationship dynamics
• Setting healthy boundaries as the "alpha" while still showing vulnerability
• Navigating uncomfortable situations with photographers in the modeling industry
• How small communities can create complicated relationship networks when past connections overlap
Chapters
1. Meet Alexis Rene (00:00:00)
2. From Yoga to Modeling CEO (00:02:15)
3. Hawaii vs. Mainland Vibes (00:05:00)
4. Communication vs. Comprehension in Relationships (00:09:47)
5. Dog Training and Alpha Behavior (00:20:30)
6. Modeling Stories and Photographer Experiences (00:40:27)
7. Final Thoughts and Island Confessions (01:00:24)
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