There is a holy weight to marriage—a covenant made before God, not just a contract signed before people. And yet, in a world that values comfort over commitment, it’s easy to forget that covenant isn’t based on how we feel… but on what we promised. And more importantly—on what God promised to build through it.

Our springboard for today’s discussion is:"Did he not make them one… in flesh and spirit? And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth." — Malachi 2:15

The truth is, comfort fades. Passion rises and falls. Life gets real—bills pile up, routines take over, health shifts, and the butterflies that once fluttered so freely now sleep in.

But covenant doesn’t depend on butterflies. It depends on a vow—sealed in the presence of God. And He takes that seriously.

When God brought you together, He wasn’t creating a fairy tale—He was establishing a sacred union for His glory and your growth. He was forming a partnership that reflects His unwavering faithfulness, not our fluctuating feelings.

Covenant love says:“I choose you—when it’s easy and when it’s exhausting.I remain—when I feel close to you and when I feel far from myself.I stay—because God is in this, and I will not break faith with the one He gave me.”

This isn’t about staying in harmful situations—God does not call anyone to remain in abuse or danger. But in the weariness, the distance, the ordinary—it’s about remembering who wrote your vows. And honoring them not out of duty, but out of love for the One who sustains them.

Question of the Day:Are you leaning more on your feelings—or your covenant?

Mini Call to Action:Revisit your wedding vows today. Read them aloud. Ask God to help you live them out with fresh grace and deeper resolve.

Let’s Pray:Lord, restore in us the awe of covenant. Help us to see our marriage as holy ground, and empower us to honor it—not just when it’s comfortable, but especially when it’s not. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Let’s Get To Work!Marriage isn’t built on the absence of struggle—it’s built on the presence of a promise.

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