The journey toward authentic self-expression online isn't easy, especially for those from marginalized communities. In this candid episode, I open up about my recent creative project that unexpectedly resonated with so many of you, and how much it means to finally be embraced for my genuine self after years of feeling pressure to conform.
As I describe my "firecracker" personality (courtesy of my Sagittarius sun, Sagittarius moon, and Leo rising placements), I reflect on the liberation that comes with no longer trying to fit in. Being fully myself online—outspoken, passionate, and unfiltered—has created a space where we truly see and understand each other beyond the digital divide.
But having a platform comes with responsibilities. When followers asked for my take on Cardi B's recent fatphobic comments about her merchandise, I recognized something crucial: this was a moment to step back. Some situations call for us to amplify voices rather than center our own opinions, especially when we're not part of the community directly affected.
True allyship isn't performative—it requires knowing when to speak and when to listen. Dismissing harmful remarks as "just jokes" normalizes bigotry and upholds systems of oppression that kill people daily. Fighting fatphobia, racism, homophobia, and other forms of discrimination requires more than passive non-participation; it demands active, everyday resistance.
Follow educators like Samyra (@samyra) and Daven (@imdaven) for perspectives rooted in lived experience, and remember that education comes best from those navigating these realities firsthand. If you appreciate authentic content that entertains while challenging you to think differently, subscribe to Napkin In Between wherever you get your podcasts!