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In the latest episode of "The Mountain in Us," host Taran Singh interviews Debbie Fite, a marketing expert and author who found an unexpected voice as a poet after experiencing a significant personal loss. Debbie recounts her childhood in a conservative Jewish household in Brooklyn, highlighting the cultural traditions, Hebrew prayers, and strict rules for keeping a kosher home that influenced her early years. She shares a touching story about her father’s considerate flexibility during a visit to McDonald's. This moment showed his respect for her choices and foreshadowed larger themes of faith and identity that would appear later in her life.

The conversation shifts as Debbie shares her story of her father’s sudden death, which became the catalyst for her foray into poetry. She recounts how he passed away in Jerusalem, a city he loved dearly, after a lifetime devoted to his faith and community. This grief ignited a wave of creative expression in a new poetic form. Debbie describes how this burst of poetry grew into her upcoming chapbook, *The Power of the Plastic Fork: A Daughter's Highly Unorthodox Kaddish*—a collection that reimagines the traditional Jewish mourning ritual through ten deeply personal poems, each representing one member of the minyan.

The episode concludes with Debbie reading her poem, "Ode to the potted plants…," which uses the vivid memory of purifying un-koshered utensils in houseplant soil to explore themes of cleansing, loss, and acceptance. Through this personal sharing, the conversation highlights how stories of grief and faith can resonate universally, crossing cultural and religious boundaries. Debbie’s journey—from strict tradition to unorthodox expression—serves as a potent reminder that even in our most individual struggles, we often find shared meaning and connection.

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