We spend so much of our lives chasing approval — from family, friends, co-workers, even strangers online. Sometimes it comes sharp, in the form of criticism, and sometimes it’s imagined, a chorus of voices we rehearse in our own heads. Either way, the weight of other people’s opinions can bend us away from our own path.

In this episode of The Modern Taoist, we look at why approval-seeking takes such a toll, where those voices really come from, and how Taoist practice can help us hear them without carrying them. You’ll learn how to notice the difference between truth and noise, how to retrain the reflex to seek validation, and how to walk your path without apology.

Because freedom doesn’t come from getting everyone to clap — it comes from not needing the applause in the first place.