In this episode of the Masculine Wilderness Podcast, host Tom Perez engages in a profound conversation with Esther Garrett, a seasoned victim advocate. They explore the emotional complexities of advocacy, the importance of being present for those in crisis, and the intricate connections between domestic violence and sexual exploitation. Esther shares her journey in the field, the significance of safety planning, and the challenges faced by victims as they navigate their circumstances. The discussion also highlights the work of Safety Compass, an organization dedicated to supporting survivors and addressing the gaps in services for those affected by violence and exploitation. In this conversation, Esther Garrett and Tom Perez explore the importance of healthy relationships in advocacy work. They discuss the shift from traditional power dynamics in interviews to a more collaborative approach, the need for vulnerability in relationships, and the role of unconditional love in supporting those affected by trauma. They also highlight the significance of healthy friendships across gender lines and the impact of vicarious trauma on individuals in the anti-trafficking movement. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to engage authentically and compassionately in their spheres of influence.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Masculine Wilderness Podcast

02:07 Esther Garrett's Journey as a Victim Advocate

05:58 Navigating the Emotional Landscape of Advocacy

09:18 The Role of Education in Advocacy

10:54 Understanding Safety Planning in Advocacy

12:41 The Cycle of Violence and Returning to Exploiters

15:23 Connecting Domestic Violence and Sexual Exploitation

19:35 The Work of Safety Compass and Its Origins

23:34 Call-Out Scenarios in Crisis Response

28:49 The Power of Collaboration in Interviews

30:13 Redefining the Action Hero Narrative

33:40 Vulnerability and Authenticity in Relationships

36:57 The Role of Unconditional Love

39:36 The Importance of Healthy Relationships

42:51 Understanding Vicarious Trauma

45:52 Building Healthy Friendships Across Gender

52:29 Finding Beauty in the Work

54:45 Encouragement for Men in Advocacy

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