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Embracing Both Our Light and Shadow Side with The Enneagram and Marriage's Christa Hardin
Manage episode 517675052 series 2813796
Do you ever feel like you are doomed to fail at marriage because that's all you saw growing up? Even if you are nowhere near getting married, do you feel like there are people in your life who just always have a way of bringing out the WORST in you?
In this episode, Mary sits down with bestselling author and podcast host of The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, Christa Hardin to talk about understanding both our strengths AND our weaknesses so we can show up and shine brighter (GLOW, if you will) in the world!
In this episode, you'll discover:
- Why there are no perfect pairings within the Enneagram system. There are no pairs that are more or less compatible.
- Why Carl Jung said, "The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is ANY reaction at all, both are transformed."
- The 6 Stages of The Enneagram Glow (including the throwing shade stage)
- How the Availability Bias tells us we have reasons we act certain ways, so we are deserving of grace… while others are NOT.
- The tension of "generational layering"- that makes most of us feel like we are doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past- and the free will to forge a new path.
- and seriously SO much more!
After listening, you'll walk away with a renewed mission to love the people right in front of you for ALL the different parts of them, the light and the shadow… and to love YOURSELF like that too!
Follow Christa here: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandmarriage/
Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4ojZyLP
237 episodes
Manage episode 517675052 series 2813796
Do you ever feel like you are doomed to fail at marriage because that's all you saw growing up? Even if you are nowhere near getting married, do you feel like there are people in your life who just always have a way of bringing out the WORST in you?
In this episode, Mary sits down with bestselling author and podcast host of The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, Christa Hardin to talk about understanding both our strengths AND our weaknesses so we can show up and shine brighter (GLOW, if you will) in the world!
In this episode, you'll discover:
- Why there are no perfect pairings within the Enneagram system. There are no pairs that are more or less compatible.
- Why Carl Jung said, "The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is ANY reaction at all, both are transformed."
- The 6 Stages of The Enneagram Glow (including the throwing shade stage)
- How the Availability Bias tells us we have reasons we act certain ways, so we are deserving of grace… while others are NOT.
- The tension of "generational layering"- that makes most of us feel like we are doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past- and the free will to forge a new path.
- and seriously SO much more!
After listening, you'll walk away with a renewed mission to love the people right in front of you for ALL the different parts of them, the light and the shadow… and to love YOURSELF like that too!
Follow Christa here: https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandmarriage/
Get her new book here: https://amzn.to/4ojZyLP
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