Welcome
Hello and welcome back to The Human Archive. I’m Dr. Jen Henderson, and today, we’re opening a different kind of book, one you won’t find in any library or bookshop. Instead, it’s the book that lives between generations, woven through half-remembered conversations and the stories we inherit from those who came before us.

Episode Summary
In this episode, “The Stories We Inherit,” I explore the invisible threads that connect us to our families and ancestors. I reflect on those moments when we catch ourselves sounding like our parents or grandparents, and how these echoes shape the way we live, love, and even parent. Some stories are shared openly and retold on every occasion, while others remain unspoken, their silence carrying just as much weight. I share personal memories of my nan, who taught me the value of presence and consistency, and I consider how the pace of modern life challenges us to keep these gentle, enduring forms of love alive. We also look at the stories we might not want to carry forward, those born of trauma or survival—and how we can choose which legacies to honour and which to gently lay down.

Key Takeaways
✨ We inherit more than just physical traits, we carry the stories, habits, and even the silences of generations before us
✨ Not every story we’re handed is ours to keep; we have the power to rewrite and release what no longer serves us
✨ Presence and consistency can be the most profound gifts, even when unspoken
✨ Recording our stories, whether in writing or as a voice memo, helps them survive for future generations
✨ Reflecting on what we wish to pass on allows us to shape our own legacy with intention

Resources & Links

• Amy Tan’s The Joy Luck Club – a powerful exploration of inherited stories
• If today’s episode has stirred a memory or a question, I’d genuinely love to hear from you. Please reach out, every message is read and cherished.

As you go about your day, I invite you to consider: What stories have you inherited? Which ones do you want to keep, and which are you ready to let go of? Perhaps take a moment to write one down or record it. Remember, our stories are more than entertainment - they’re blueprints and echoes of those who came before us. Thank you for listening to The Human Archive. Take care of yourselves, and take care of your stories.

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