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Episode 5 - Why Unwanted Advice Hurts and What to Do Instead

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Ever blurted out a “helpful tip” and watched the other person shut down?

In this punchy, heart-opening episode of The Glow Up Experience, Lindsay Jacobi breaks the reflex to fix—and shows you how empathy, curiosity, and consent-first communication deepen connection with partners, friends, and kids. Through a real morning moment with her husband (and a hard truth from a well-meaning friend), Lindsay maps the simple shifts that turn advice-giving into trust-building.

You’ll learn

  • Why advice can sometimes land as judgment or incapability

  • The one pause that stops “fix-it mode” in its tracks

  • Consent questions that create instant safety: “Do you want ideas or ears?” / “Comfort or solutions?”

  • Validation lines that soothe without rescuing

  • How stepping back grows agency in children (and reduces learned helplessness)

  • A quick self-check to rebuild polarity and intimacy in long-term relationships

Links & Resources

Free Glow Up Bundle: https://coaching.glowupcollective.co/glow-up-edition

90-Day Private Glow Up Coaching: https://glowupcollective.co

Instagram: @lindsaystewartjacobi

  continue reading

7 episodes

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Manage episode 508572241 series 3690462
Content provided by Lindsay Jacobi. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Lindsay Jacobi or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Ever blurted out a “helpful tip” and watched the other person shut down?

In this punchy, heart-opening episode of The Glow Up Experience, Lindsay Jacobi breaks the reflex to fix—and shows you how empathy, curiosity, and consent-first communication deepen connection with partners, friends, and kids. Through a real morning moment with her husband (and a hard truth from a well-meaning friend), Lindsay maps the simple shifts that turn advice-giving into trust-building.

You’ll learn

  • Why advice can sometimes land as judgment or incapability

  • The one pause that stops “fix-it mode” in its tracks

  • Consent questions that create instant safety: “Do you want ideas or ears?” / “Comfort or solutions?”

  • Validation lines that soothe without rescuing

  • How stepping back grows agency in children (and reduces learned helplessness)

  • A quick self-check to rebuild polarity and intimacy in long-term relationships

Links & Resources

Free Glow Up Bundle: https://coaching.glowupcollective.co/glow-up-edition

90-Day Private Glow Up Coaching: https://glowupcollective.co

Instagram: @lindsaystewartjacobi

  continue reading

7 episodes

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