Episode Overview

In this episode of The Future-Ready Advisor, host Sam Sivarajan sits down with Lauren Jeffery, a registered psychotherapist, certified executor advisor, and doctoral researcher who brings a fascinating perspective to the advisor-client relationship. Lauren's unique journey from compliance trainer in financial services to psychotherapist working with vulnerable populations has given her powerful insights into what truly makes client relationships successful.

They explore the biopsychosocial framework for understanding clients, why emotional engagement is essential for building trust, and how advisors can move beyond surface-level conversations to create deeper, more meaningful connections. Lauren shares practical strategies for becoming a better listener, asking the right questions, and creating space for client reflection—all critical skills for the advisor of the future.

Key Quote

"Be respectfully curious." — Lauren Jeffery

Key Takeaways

• The biopsychosocial framework helps advisors understand clients as whole people—considering their biology, psychology, and social circumstances together.
• Therapeutic alliance principles from psychotherapy can dramatically improve advisor-client relationships and outcomes.
• Emotional engagement is non-negotiable—advisors must be willing to acknowledge and discuss what's really happening in their clients' lives.
• Silence and follow-up questions are powerful tools that create space for clients to reflect and share deeper insights.
• Self-awareness is critical—advisors must understand their own biases and social identity to serve clients effectively.

• "We need to stop for 24 hours and breathe."
• "Clients come to us looking for help—oftentimes they bring us their peanut butter sandwich problem."
• "The better the therapeutic alliance, the better the outcomes."
• "Be respectfully curious—that one small question can shift a whole relationship."
• "The advisor of 2040 needs to be a therapist."

• 02:47 — Understanding Biopsychosocial Theory and Its Application to Financial Advisory
• 09:02 — Building Stronger Relationships with Clients Through Emotional Engagement
• 14:49 — The Art of Listening and Asking the Right Questions
• 22:45 — Moving Beyond Surface Issues to Address Deeper Client Needs
• 29:56 — The Critical Importance of Self-Awareness for Financial Advisors

• Lauren's KYC Tool: "Where You At" online questionnaire for deeper client understanding
• CE Webinar: "Bridging the Gap" with Dynamic Mutual Funds on social identity theory
• Learn more about Lauren Jeffery: LinkedIn Profile and point-shift.ca

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