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š„ When was the last time you had a conversation with someone who saw the world completely differently from you⦠and walked away with more respect, not more rage?
SHOW DESCRIPTION:
Polarization has become the oxygen we breathe, but what if thereās another way?
In this raw, edge-of-your-seat conversation, Dov Baron sits down with Simon Greer, founder of Bridging the Gap, to tackle the question weāre all secretly asking: Can we still talk across divides without losing our minds⦠or our humanity?
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Raised in a left-wing Jewish family on Manhattanās Upper West Side, Simon grew up in an environment where dinner conversations werenāt just political, they were ideological battlegrounds. His early life, from Jewish Communist summer camps to a career in progressive politics, shaped him into a fighter for āchange.ā
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But hereās the twist: Simon realized he wasnāt just fighting for change, he was fighting to be right.
Then came his personal identity crisis. The loss of his job and his carefully crafted āprogressive warriorā persona shattered everything. Out of that rubble, he made a radical pivot: seeking out the very people he once demonized, white working-class conservatives, business leaders, evangelical Christians, even prison guards and formerly incarcerated people, to ask a new question:
āHow can we build bridges without asking anyone to give up their tribe?ā
š This isnāt about polite bipartisanship. Itās about impossible conversations, sitting down with people who fundamentally disagree with you (even about your eternal soul) and still finding a way to honor each otherās humanity.
Simon shares:
šļø What Jewish Communist summer camp taught him about identity & tribe (and why those early ideologies still matter).
š„ How losing everything freed him from a rigid identity ā and how that same breaking point might be the catalyst for healing America.
š Why bridging divides isnāt about erasing differences ā but honoring them.
š The powerful story of a Muslim friend whose family fought Israel ā and how they became allies.
š The truth about polarization: Itās not that we have tribes; itās that weāre being played into them.
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This isnāt just another podcast episode. Itās a field guide for leaders who are ready to do the uncomfortable work of listening, learning, and leading differently.
About Simon Greer
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Simon Greer is the founder of Bridging the Gap, a national initiative training the next generation of civic leaders to engage across divides with honesty and courage. He has advised movements, mentored changemakers, and spent decades at the intersection of faith, politics, and social change. Contact Simon Greer: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simon-greer-5b8549b2/
What Youāll Learn in This Episode
ā Why ānormalā isnāt healthy, itās just what you grew up with. ā How to push past the billboard version of someone to find the real human underneath. ā Why identity-shattering moments (even job loss) can be the greatest gift you never wanted. ā The difference between bipartisanship and true bridging ā and why the latter is harder, deeper, and absolutely necessary. ā How to hold your tribe with pride, without turning someone elseās tribe into the enemy.
š§ This Episode Will Hook You to the End
This conversation is uncomfortably honest, deeply human, and wildly hopeful. It doesnāt offer kumbaya clichĆ©s. Instead, it asks you to step into the messy, sacred middle, where the future of leadership, and perhaps the country lies.
š„ Listener Challenge
After listening, ask yourself: Whatās one āimpossibleā conversation Iāve been avoiding⦠and what might happen if I had it?
š Hashtags for Apple & LinkedIn Discovery
#CourageousConversations #BridgingTheGap #Leadership #SimonGreer #DovBaron #FutureOfLeadership #Tribalism #IdentityCrisis #Polarization #HumanConnection
1080 episodes
Manage episode 498102869 series 3019576
š„ When was the last time you had a conversation with someone who saw the world completely differently from you⦠and walked away with more respect, not more rage?
SHOW DESCRIPTION:
Polarization has become the oxygen we breathe, but what if thereās another way?
In this raw, edge-of-your-seat conversation, Dov Baron sits down with Simon Greer, founder of Bridging the Gap, to tackle the question weāre all secretly asking: Can we still talk across divides without losing our minds⦠or our humanity?
.
Raised in a left-wing Jewish family on Manhattanās Upper West Side, Simon grew up in an environment where dinner conversations werenāt just political, they were ideological battlegrounds. His early life, from Jewish Communist summer camps to a career in progressive politics, shaped him into a fighter for āchange.ā
.
But hereās the twist: Simon realized he wasnāt just fighting for change, he was fighting to be right.
Then came his personal identity crisis. The loss of his job and his carefully crafted āprogressive warriorā persona shattered everything. Out of that rubble, he made a radical pivot: seeking out the very people he once demonized, white working-class conservatives, business leaders, evangelical Christians, even prison guards and formerly incarcerated people, to ask a new question:
āHow can we build bridges without asking anyone to give up their tribe?ā
š This isnāt about polite bipartisanship. Itās about impossible conversations, sitting down with people who fundamentally disagree with you (even about your eternal soul) and still finding a way to honor each otherās humanity.
Simon shares:
šļø What Jewish Communist summer camp taught him about identity & tribe (and why those early ideologies still matter).
š„ How losing everything freed him from a rigid identity ā and how that same breaking point might be the catalyst for healing America.
š Why bridging divides isnāt about erasing differences ā but honoring them.
š The powerful story of a Muslim friend whose family fought Israel ā and how they became allies.
š The truth about polarization: Itās not that we have tribes; itās that weāre being played into them.
.
This isnāt just another podcast episode. Itās a field guide for leaders who are ready to do the uncomfortable work of listening, learning, and leading differently.
About Simon Greer
.
Simon Greer is the founder of Bridging the Gap, a national initiative training the next generation of civic leaders to engage across divides with honesty and courage. He has advised movements, mentored changemakers, and spent decades at the intersection of faith, politics, and social change. Contact Simon Greer: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simon-greer-5b8549b2/
What Youāll Learn in This Episode
ā Why ānormalā isnāt healthy, itās just what you grew up with. ā How to push past the billboard version of someone to find the real human underneath. ā Why identity-shattering moments (even job loss) can be the greatest gift you never wanted. ā The difference between bipartisanship and true bridging ā and why the latter is harder, deeper, and absolutely necessary. ā How to hold your tribe with pride, without turning someone elseās tribe into the enemy.
š§ This Episode Will Hook You to the End
This conversation is uncomfortably honest, deeply human, and wildly hopeful. It doesnāt offer kumbaya clichĆ©s. Instead, it asks you to step into the messy, sacred middle, where the future of leadership, and perhaps the country lies.
š„ Listener Challenge
After listening, ask yourself: Whatās one āimpossibleā conversation Iāve been avoiding⦠and what might happen if I had it?
š Hashtags for Apple & LinkedIn Discovery
#CourageousConversations #BridgingTheGap #Leadership #SimonGreer #DovBaron #FutureOfLeadership #Tribalism #IdentityCrisis #Polarization #HumanConnection
1080 episodes
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