Fatherhood, Work Balance, and the True Value of Time with Your Children with Michael Kainatsky (USA)
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What happens when a successful strategy consultant becomes a full-time father during a global pandemic? Our guest, Michael Kainatsky shares his remarkable journey balancing remote work and raising his son, challenging conventional wisdom about parenting and career priorities along the way.
Born in Russia and immigrating to America at age seven, Michael Kainatsky brings a unique perspective to fatherhood shaped by his diverse career in sales leadership, talent acquisition, and strategy consulting. When his son was born in May 2020, he made the life-changing decision to become the primary caregiver while his physician wife continued her essential work with children. This choice led to profound revelations about the true value of parenthood.
"Being a full-time dad is not the hardest job in the world—it's the most important," he declares after changing over 7,000 diapers and witnessing every milestone in his son's development. This perspective shift frames our fascinating discussion about work-life balance in the remote era, where the boundaries between professional and personal responsibilities constantly blur.
The conversation takes a compelling turn when examining parental leave policies worldwide. While Scandinavian countries offer extensive options for both mothers and fathers, America's approach creates challenging dynamics for families and employers alike. Our guest makes a persuasive case for government-subsidized programs that would benefit families, businesses, and society as a whole.
Perhaps most poignant is his observation that 90% of all available time with our children occurs before they turn 18. "Kids don't care about the things they have if they're healthy and not hungry. The second most valuable thing to them is time with you." This reality check invites listeners to reconsider how they allocate their most precious resource—time—in pursuit of truly meaningful success.
Music, lyrics, guitar and singing by Dr Ariel Rosita King
Teach me to live one day at a time
with courage love and a sense of pride.
Giving me the ability to love and accept myself
so I can go and give it to someone else.
Teach me to live one day at a time.....
The Business of Life
Dr Ariella (Ariel) Rosita King
Original Song, "Teach Me to Live one Day At A Time"
written, guitar and vocals by Dr. Ariel Rosita King
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Chapters
1. Fatherhood, Work Balance, and the True Value of Time with Your Children with Michael Kainatsky (USA) (00:00:00)
2. Meet Our Guest (00:01:14)
3. Becoming a Full-Time Dad (00:03:03)
4. Work-Life Balance Challenges (00:07:36)
5. Valuing Time With Children (00:10:03)
6. Parental Leave Realities (00:15:59)
7. Corporate Economics vs Humanity (00:19:37)
8. The Importance of Father-Child Bonding (00:23:03)
9. Creating Bonds That Last (00:24:41)
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