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#85: I Thought I Was Over This Kind of Pain But I Was Wrong - This Rejection Hit Me Hard
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Are Dating and Entrepreneurship More Alike Than We Realize?
You might come here for businessâbut today, weâre talking about dating. Why? Because dating is full of rejection, risk, mixed signals, and gut-wrenching vulnerabilityâthe same exact stuff entrepreneurs face every single day. In this raw, tearful, and unapologetically honest episode, I unpack a recent dating experience that felt like a full-body "WTF just happened" moment⊠and draw powerful parallels to business, investing, and building self-worth.
If youâve ever felt ghostedâby a man, a client, an investor, or a big dreamâthis oneâs for you.
đĄ Key Takeaways:
Rejection = Redirection: Whether from a man or a missed deal, rejection hurtsâbut it can be a powerful tool for alignment if we let it.
Donât Confuse Momentum for Foundation: Just because something feels good doesnât mean itâs built to last.
Mixed Signals Are a No: Whether it's in dating or client relationshipsâconfusion is misalignment. Period.
Believe People the First Time (or... maybe donât?): Maya Angelou said it best, but sometimes your intuition deserves the louder mic.
Business Resilience = Dating Strength: Learning to hold your worth steady, no matter who walks away, is the same skill whether youâre pitching or swiping.
Dating History = Data: So are failed launches and bad investments. What patterns are trying to teach you?
Real Talk on Self-Sabotage: Am I pushing love away to protect my independence? You might be doing the same in business without realizing it.
â Actionable Insights:
Stop Making Rejection Mean Something About You
Your value doesnât change because someone doesnât see it. Same goes for clients who ghost or deals that fall through.Contracts Are King in Partnerships
Love wonât save a broken business dealâget it in writing. Plan for the worst before it happens.Question the Timing
Ask yourself: Am I making decisions based on momentum or long-term alignment?Ask Better Questions in Dating & Deals
If someone (or something) feels off, dig in. If you donât understand it, donât invest.Use Your Ls as Leverage
Every failed relationship, investment, or launch holds clues to your next win. Donât waste the data.
Final Thought
Vulnerability isnât a weaknessâitâs a risk we take in pursuit of something real. Whether it's dating, launching a business, or pitching a dream client, putting your heart on the line comes with no guarantees. You can do everything âright,â and still get ghosted. You can build momentum, and still hit a wall.
But here's the truth: rejection doesn't mean you're unworthy. A "no" doesnât erase your brilliance. Itâs simply redirection.
So if youâre reeling from a ghost, a failed launch, a âwhat the hell just happenedâ momentâbreathe. Feel it. Learn from it. But donât stop showing up. Because every heartbreak, every flop, every silence⊠is data. And data builds empires.
Stay real. Stay resilient. And stay audacious.
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89 episodes
Manage episode 497325663 series 3640470
đȘ Ready to take control of your finances?đđŒ
Book Your Audacious Wealth Breakthrough Call Now!
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Watch this video about the Tardus' Income Snowball
Are Dating and Entrepreneurship More Alike Than We Realize?
You might come here for businessâbut today, weâre talking about dating. Why? Because dating is full of rejection, risk, mixed signals, and gut-wrenching vulnerabilityâthe same exact stuff entrepreneurs face every single day. In this raw, tearful, and unapologetically honest episode, I unpack a recent dating experience that felt like a full-body "WTF just happened" moment⊠and draw powerful parallels to business, investing, and building self-worth.
If youâve ever felt ghostedâby a man, a client, an investor, or a big dreamâthis oneâs for you.
đĄ Key Takeaways:
Rejection = Redirection: Whether from a man or a missed deal, rejection hurtsâbut it can be a powerful tool for alignment if we let it.
Donât Confuse Momentum for Foundation: Just because something feels good doesnât mean itâs built to last.
Mixed Signals Are a No: Whether it's in dating or client relationshipsâconfusion is misalignment. Period.
Believe People the First Time (or... maybe donât?): Maya Angelou said it best, but sometimes your intuition deserves the louder mic.
Business Resilience = Dating Strength: Learning to hold your worth steady, no matter who walks away, is the same skill whether youâre pitching or swiping.
Dating History = Data: So are failed launches and bad investments. What patterns are trying to teach you?
Real Talk on Self-Sabotage: Am I pushing love away to protect my independence? You might be doing the same in business without realizing it.
â Actionable Insights:
Stop Making Rejection Mean Something About You
Your value doesnât change because someone doesnât see it. Same goes for clients who ghost or deals that fall through.Contracts Are King in Partnerships
Love wonât save a broken business dealâget it in writing. Plan for the worst before it happens.Question the Timing
Ask yourself: Am I making decisions based on momentum or long-term alignment?Ask Better Questions in Dating & Deals
If someone (or something) feels off, dig in. If you donât understand it, donât invest.Use Your Ls as Leverage
Every failed relationship, investment, or launch holds clues to your next win. Donât waste the data.
Final Thought
Vulnerability isnât a weaknessâitâs a risk we take in pursuit of something real. Whether it's dating, launching a business, or pitching a dream client, putting your heart on the line comes with no guarantees. You can do everything âright,â and still get ghosted. You can build momentum, and still hit a wall.
But here's the truth: rejection doesn't mean you're unworthy. A "no" doesnât erase your brilliance. Itâs simply redirection.
So if youâre reeling from a ghost, a failed launch, a âwhat the hell just happenedâ momentâbreathe. Feel it. Learn from it. But donât stop showing up. Because every heartbreak, every flop, every silence⊠is data. And data builds empires.
Stay real. Stay resilient. And stay audacious.
đ„ Join the Audacious Founder Community!
đĄ Subscribe & Leave a Review â Your feedback helps us reach more audacious founders!
đĄ Share This Episode â Know someone starting a business? Send them this episode!
Melissa Manningâs IG: https://bit.ly/4m8geEO
Join Abundance Mindset Meetup events: https://bit.ly/4525kcM
Audacious Founder Website: https://www.audaciousfounder.com/
Audacious Founder Podcast: https://bit.ly/4lUsMQy
Book you your Audacious Wealth Breakthrough Call: https://bit.ly/4lUsMQy
Get on the email list: https://bit.ly/4o9xzyQ
Watch Tardus Income Snowball: https://bit.ly/475nMnp
Join Audacious Events: https://bit.ly/3U2csRs
The Audacious Founder You Tube Channel: https://bit.ly/46plCie
Creme Fatale Cakery: https://bit.ly/40EqKvj
đ What does audacity mean to YOU? Drop a comment or DM me on Instagram!
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