Welcome to another episode of Talk Shit with Darlene, where we explore the intersections of activism, everyday resilience, and radical joy.

In this episode, Darlene reconnects with Crunch, a writer, food entrepreneur living in Xalapa, Mexico. What starts as a casual catch-up quickly unfolds into a rich and inspiring conversation about living intentionally outside of capitalist norms.

What We Talk About:

Barter Markets as Community Building: Crunch explains how local monthly barter markets in Xalapa foster trust, reduce waste, and prioritize relationships over transactions.

The Milpa Garden & Indigenous Wisdom: A deep dive into the power of community gardening and how Indigenous planting practices like “the three sisters”—corn, squash, and beans—sustain more than just the soil.

Alternative Economies in Action: From food swaps to massages for ginger beer, Crunch shares vivid stories of the barter system in action—and how it leads to surprising, joyful exchanges (yes, even dream readings!).

Emotional Wealth over Materialism: We reflect on what it really means to value each other’s contributions and create systems rooted in care, not consumption.

Learning from the Land and Each Other: Why slowing down, sharing tools, and leaning into local relationships is revolutionary—especially in the face of systemic barriers and burnout.

Memorable Quotes:

"You don’t have to organize a full barter market—maybe just ask, 'Is there another way to get this besides buying it?'"

"Barter isn't just about stuff. It's about relationships, imagination, and trust."

"When I gave someone food in exchange for a massage, it wasn’t just a trade—it was a moment of connection."

Why You Should Listen:

This episode reminds us that other ways of living do exist—and they’re beautiful, messy, human, and real. Whether you're craving more community, exploring anti-capitalist practices, or just tired of transactional living, this episode offers a hopeful, tangible glimpse into what’s possible.

Mentioned in This Episode:

Debt: The First 5,000 Years by David Graeber

Barter as a system of trust over transaction

Dream interpretation, upcycled tote bags, and more!

Crunch Ranjani is a multifaceted professional whose work is deeply rooted in anti-capitalist values and a commitment to dismantling all forms of oppression. As a content and copywriter, English teacher, and chef, she channels her diverse skills to challenge systemic injustices and promote equity. Crunch identifies as a multi-passionate human, dedicated to intentional living and fostering transformative experiences. Her approach encourages individuals to prioritize their authentic selves and contribute to creating a more just and compassionate world.

Website: http://crunchranjani.com

Substack: http://crunchranjani.substack.com

Instagram: http://Instagram.com/crunchtini