This episode is a raw, gut-wrenching journey through generational trauma, cultural silence, and the radical choice to heal out loud. Lillian shares how losing everything forced her to finally face the childhood abuse she buried deep. What she uncovered changed everything.

• 💔 Surviving sexual abuse and a culture of silence
• 🧠 Therapy, shame, and the struggle to speak
• 🔥 Rock bottom moments that cracked her open
• 👶 Parenting differently to break the cycle
• ✊ Radical ownership, reprogramming, and reinvention
• 💬 Why we need safe spaces for real healing conversations
• 💡 How to turn pain into purpose—and rise anyway

🎙️ What We Talk About:

• Her journey from Hollywood producer to survival mode
• Being raised in silence and shame in Taiwanese culture
• The abuse no one knew about—and how she finally found the courage to speak
• Why therapy alone wasn’t enough
• The moment she knew she couldn’t parent like her mother
• How culture perpetuates trauma (and how to break it)
• The daily decision to rewrite your story and rise

🔑 Key Takeaways:

“The biggest trauma wasn’t the abuse—it was the silence after.”

“I had to look at my shit. Because pretending wasn’t saving me anymore.”

“You can’t rewrite your future with the same story that kept you stuck.”

“You’re the writer, the director, the main character. Stop casting people who don’t deserve a role in your life.”

🙌 Why This Episode Matters:

Too many women walk through life silently bleeding from wounds no one can see. Lillian’s story isn’t just about trauma—it’s about the courage to face the truth, disrupt the cycle, and raise the next generation differently. This is the power of radical honesty, cultural rebellion, and choosing healing anyway.

Because silence never saved us—truth will.

💬 Connect with Lillian:

• Instagram: @misslillianvictoria
• TikTok: @misslillianvictoria
• Website: https://www.lillianvictoria.com

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