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3 Things My Divorce Taught Me About Co-Dependency
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What do you even call a divorce anniversary? Two years after the end of my marriage, I find myself reflecting—not on celebration, but on growth, healing, and the lessons heartbreak leaves behind. In this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing the three truths divorce taught me about co-dependency and how I’m learning to live and love differently.
Whether you’re walking through the rubble of a relationship, navigating the lonely spaces of divorce, or stepping into love again with a hopeful but shaky heart, these lessons are for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why self-regulation must come before co-regulation and the practical ways you can ground yourself before leaning on someone else.
- The surprising difference between being alone and being lonely, and how solitude can actually become sacred.
- How boundaries create freedom, why they aren’t rejection, but an invitation to authentic love.
This Episode Is For You If…
You’ve struggled with co-dependency or shame in relationships. You’re navigating divorce, separation, or stepping into new love after loss. You want to stop abandoning yourself in relationships and learn how to show up fully as you.
Resources & Next Steps:
Connect with me on Instagram @drzoeshaw for daily encouragement.
Subscribe to my newsletter for more conversations on healing, boundaries, and healthy love.
Preorder the book Stronger in the Difficult Places (coming September 30, 2025!): drzoeshaw.com/book
Free Downloads:
Download the Steps to Healing from Complex Shame™ PDF: here Get the First Chapter of Stronger in the Difficult Places: here
Share this episode with a friend who needs a reminder: you are not too much, and you are not alone.
284 episodes
Manage episode 503958876 series 1458792
What do you even call a divorce anniversary? Two years after the end of my marriage, I find myself reflecting—not on celebration, but on growth, healing, and the lessons heartbreak leaves behind. In this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing the three truths divorce taught me about co-dependency and how I’m learning to live and love differently.
Whether you’re walking through the rubble of a relationship, navigating the lonely spaces of divorce, or stepping into love again with a hopeful but shaky heart, these lessons are for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why self-regulation must come before co-regulation and the practical ways you can ground yourself before leaning on someone else.
- The surprising difference between being alone and being lonely, and how solitude can actually become sacred.
- How boundaries create freedom, why they aren’t rejection, but an invitation to authentic love.
This Episode Is For You If…
You’ve struggled with co-dependency or shame in relationships. You’re navigating divorce, separation, or stepping into new love after loss. You want to stop abandoning yourself in relationships and learn how to show up fully as you.
Resources & Next Steps:
Connect with me on Instagram @drzoeshaw for daily encouragement.
Subscribe to my newsletter for more conversations on healing, boundaries, and healthy love.
Preorder the book Stronger in the Difficult Places (coming September 30, 2025!): drzoeshaw.com/book
Free Downloads:
Download the Steps to Healing from Complex Shame™ PDF: here Get the First Chapter of Stronger in the Difficult Places: here
Share this episode with a friend who needs a reminder: you are not too much, and you are not alone.
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