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6 Warnings No One Gives You About Changing Your Life

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We romanticize big life changes—quitting the job, moving to the dream city, chasing the thing we’ve always wanted. But big changes have big side effects. And if you don’t see them coming, they might just send you running back to the life you were trying to leave behind. In this episode, we’re breaking down six warnings I wish someone had told me before I changed everything. If you’re craving a big shift, let’s make sure you’re ready for it.

EPISODE OUTLINE

00:00 Intro

01:45 Life update + tour!

05:52 6 warnings about changing your life

06:14 1. It will not automatically make you happy

07:44 Harvard happiness study

08:34 The hedonic treadmill

9:54 2. You will have an identity crisis

10:12 Ship of Theseus

11:40 3. You’ll probably feel stuck

12:04 Diamond Example

13:12 Change happens at tipping points

15:31 4. It never stops feeling vulnerable

15:55 Asch conformity study

17:18 The neuroscience of fear & hope

19:43 It’s only embarrassing if you’re embarrassed

22:33 5. There’s no magic pill

24:32 6. You’ll feel torn between who you were and who you’re becoming

24:52 Janus, the Roman god of transitions

27:18 Lightning round recap

MY LINKS

⁠⁠⁠⁠Preorder my poetry book MAKE BELIEVE from Blue Willow to get a free poem print and a personalized signed copy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Preorder MAKE BELIEVE from Amazon, Target, Barnes & Noble, and more⁠⁠⁠⁠

Let’s hang on tour!!

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get the Believe Again yoga flow, guided meditation and mini-journal bundle free when you preorder MAKE BELIEVE!⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join me in Bali June 1-7! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me @thedailyvictorian on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me @thedailyvictorian on TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

EPISODE LINKS

⁠⁠⁠⁠Ship of Theseus

⁠⁠⁠⁠Harvard happiness study

⁠⁠⁠⁠The hedonic treadmill

⁠⁠⁠⁠Digging for diamonds cartoon

⁠⁠⁠⁠Janus: the god of doors, gates and transitions

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36 episodes

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Manage episode 471697309 series 3445610
Content provided by by Victoria Hutchins and By Victoria Hutchins. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by by Victoria Hutchins and By Victoria Hutchins or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

We romanticize big life changes—quitting the job, moving to the dream city, chasing the thing we’ve always wanted. But big changes have big side effects. And if you don’t see them coming, they might just send you running back to the life you were trying to leave behind. In this episode, we’re breaking down six warnings I wish someone had told me before I changed everything. If you’re craving a big shift, let’s make sure you’re ready for it.

EPISODE OUTLINE

00:00 Intro

01:45 Life update + tour!

05:52 6 warnings about changing your life

06:14 1. It will not automatically make you happy

07:44 Harvard happiness study

08:34 The hedonic treadmill

9:54 2. You will have an identity crisis

10:12 Ship of Theseus

11:40 3. You’ll probably feel stuck

12:04 Diamond Example

13:12 Change happens at tipping points

15:31 4. It never stops feeling vulnerable

15:55 Asch conformity study

17:18 The neuroscience of fear & hope

19:43 It’s only embarrassing if you’re embarrassed

22:33 5. There’s no magic pill

24:32 6. You’ll feel torn between who you were and who you’re becoming

24:52 Janus, the Roman god of transitions

27:18 Lightning round recap

MY LINKS

⁠⁠⁠⁠Preorder my poetry book MAKE BELIEVE from Blue Willow to get a free poem print and a personalized signed copy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Preorder MAKE BELIEVE from Amazon, Target, Barnes & Noble, and more⁠⁠⁠⁠

Let’s hang on tour!!

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get the Believe Again yoga flow, guided meditation and mini-journal bundle free when you preorder MAKE BELIEVE!⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join me in Bali June 1-7! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me @thedailyvictorian on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find me @thedailyvictorian on TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

EPISODE LINKS

⁠⁠⁠⁠Ship of Theseus

⁠⁠⁠⁠Harvard happiness study

⁠⁠⁠⁠The hedonic treadmill

⁠⁠⁠⁠Digging for diamonds cartoon

⁠⁠⁠⁠Janus: the god of doors, gates and transitions

  continue reading

36 episodes

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